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Abantu abaninzi bazichaza ngokuthi "ipakethi yepakethi," oko kukuthi, umntu othanda ukuqokelela izinto kwaye akafuni ukuphosa izinto ngaphandle. Nangona amaninzi eepaki ezizivuma azikhokela ubomi obuqhelekileyo, ukufumana nokuhluleka ukukhupha inani elikhulu lezinto ezibonakala zingenanto okanye zingabi nalutho kwabanye, njengemagazini endala, izitya, iingubo, iincwadi, i-mail yangasese, amanqaku okanye uluhlu inokuba ngumqondiso wesifo sengqondo esithiwa ukunyanzela ukunyanzelisa ; indlela yokuziphatha engadibana neengxaki eziphosakeleyo .
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Ukuqokelela Kuqhelekileyo, Ukuhlawula akunjalo
Iipakethi zepakethi yazo zonke iintlobo zinento enye efanayo: Bayathanda ukuqokelela izinto. Nangona kunjalo, iintlobo zezinto eziqokelelweyo, intsingiselo yezinto eziqokelelweyo kufuneka kumntu kwaye indlela yokuqokelela ithintela ngayo ubomi bomntu yenza konke umehluko phakathi kokuba ngumqokeleli okhuselekileyo kunye nokuba ngumgcini okhutheleyo. Masisebenzise imizekelo emibini ukuhlola umahluko phakathi kokuqokelela nokuqokelela.
Isifundo 1: UMarko
UMarko ungumnikazi webhishini otshatileyo oneminyaka engama-51 ozichaza ngokucacileyo njengephakethi yepakethi. Ngokukodwa, uMarko uthanda ukubuyisela, ukuqokelela kunye nokubonisa ifenishi ye-antitique. UMarko nomkakhe bachitha isigxina seveki zabo beza kwiivenkile ze-antitique befuna iifenitshala ezingaqhelekanga. Bathanda kule mikikiki kwaye baphatha njengama-getaways abonwabileyo avela kwisixeko.
Nangona uMark ethanda ifenishi ye-antitique, ungumthengi onokuqonda.
Uza kushiya engenanto ngaphandle kokuba engayifumani into ayifunayo kwaye akafaneki athenge ifenitshala ngokucinga . Oko kwathiwa, ngaphezu kweminyaka engama-25 ezinikele ekuqokeleleni nasekubuyiseni izixhobo zokulwa, uMarko uye waqokelela iqoqo elikhulu kakhulu. Ngethamsanqa kuMarko, impumelelo yezoshishino zakhe imnike indlela yokwakha isongezelelo esikhulu kwikhaya elisetyenziselwa ukubuyisela kunye nokubonisa izinto zakhe zokulwa.
Indlwana encinane kaMarko yendlu ifake iifenethi ye-antitique, kakhulu ekuphumuleni komfazi wayo. Unqwenela ukubonisa ukuqokelela kwakhe ngokufanelekileyo ngokwecandelo kwiindawo ezikhethiweyo zekhaya lakhe. Ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo, uMarko uza kuthengisa amaqhezu amandulo ukwenza indlela yokuthenga ezintsha. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, uMarko ufumana ukuqokelela nokubuyisela ifenitshala ukuphunyuka ngokufanelekileyo kwishishini lakhe, elithatha ixesha elininzi.
Isifundo sesi-2: Anne
U-Anne ungumhlala-phantsi omtshato oneminyaka engama-61 ubudala ochaza ngokwakhe njengerhafu yepakethi. U-Anne uchitha phantse yonke iveki yakhe kunye neeveki ezithengisa iimakethi ezikhungayo, ukuthengisa igalaji, ivenkile zeentela kunye nokuthengisa kwezinto ezibonakalayo zikhangele oko akuchaza ngokuba "buncwane."
Abahlobo baka-Anne bayamangaliswa kukuthabatha kwakhe ngalawa kuthiwa "ubuncwane," njengoko bahlala becinga ukuba yizinto eziza kucinga ngongcola. Ngokomzekelo, u-Anne unomqoqo omkhulu weeplastiki zeplastiki zamandulo, izitya zeplastiki, amaphephandaba kunye nezibane eziphukileyo. Ukongezelela, uqokelela iifolda zamaphephancwadi amadala kunye namaphephandaba ukuze iphepha lingayi kutshabalaliswa.
Nangona i-pack ye-pack ye-pack ye-Anne yaqala ngokuthobeka kwiminyaka yakhe engamashumi amabini, emva kokuthatha umhlala-phantsi ekuqokeleleni kwakhe kuye kwangena kwi-overdrive. Kwiminyaka emithathu, wayenendlela encinane phakathi kwekhitshi, igumbi lokulala, kunye nendawo yokuhlambela eyayicacile.
Xa unina wafa, u-Anne wathatha yonke impahla kamama waza wawafaka emzimbeni wakhe, owawusele uqhubekile.
Akumangalisi ukuba, umyeni ka-Anne wasondla waza washiya kunye nabahlobo abaninzi bayeke ukutyelela. Xa abahlobo baye bashiya bazama ukubonisa ukucoceka kwendlu yakhe, uyacaphuka kakhulu kwaye uyazibuza ukuba kutheni abantu bengayi kumshiya yodwa. Ngaphezu koko, uyacaphuka xa unyana wakhe ebonisa ukuba ahamba ngeebhokisi zeenina aze alahle izinto ezingenakuncedo. Akakwazi nje ukuhlukana kunye nayiphi na into ekhayeni lakhe. Uyesaba ukuphosa into into enokuba luncedo lunomhla kwaye unomdla obuninzi kwizinto ezininzi, ingakumbi ezo zinto zingumama wakhe.
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Bobabini uMarko no-Anne bazichaza ngokuthi "iipakethi zeepakethi;" Nangona kunjalo, kucacile ukuba uthando lukaMarko lokuqokelela ifenitshala ye-antitique, ngoxa ngokuqinisekileyo, luba nefuthe elifutshane kumsebenzi wakhe wemihla ngemihla. Ngokukodwa, nangona iqoqo lakhe likhulu, unendlela yokugcina le ngqoqo ngokufanelekileyo kwaye ngokukhuselekileyo kwaye ayiyi kudala i-clutter endlwini yakhe. Ukongezelela, nangona yena, nangomlinganiselo othile umfazi wakhe, ukuthanda ukuqokelela ifenitshala, kuthatha isihlalo sokubuyela emva kokuqhuba ibhizinisi lakhe elincinci. UMarko uyazi kwakhona ukuba maxa wambi kufuneka athengise amaqhepha amadala ukuze enze iindlela ezongezelelweyo kwiqoqo lakhe. Ekugqibeleni, ukuqokelela kwakhe akuxhatshazi ubuhlobo bakhe nomfazi.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuqokelela kuka-Anne kuye kwashiya ubomi bakhe kwiindawo zokuhlala kwaye ulawulwa yinto enyanzelekileyo yokuqokelela izinto ezingenamsebenzi. Kubalulekile ukuba akakwazi ukuphosa izinto ezininzi abantu abanokuzijonga ngongcola kwaye unomdla wokuxhonywa ngokomzwelo malunga nazo zonke izinto ezisendlwini yakhe. Ngenxa yoko, indlu yakhe ayinakuhlala kwaye ingozi kuye nakwabanye. Njengoko kuqhelekileyo phakathi kwabantu abagubungelayo, akanakuqonda ngokucacileyo uhlobo kunye nobunzima beengxaki zakhe. Ngaphezu kwayo konke, ukunyamezela kwakhe kuye kwaholela ekutshatweni komtshato wakhe, abahlobo bakhe bamshiya kunye nendodana yakhe icatshukiswe.
Ngaphantsi
Ngaloo ndlela, nangona bobabini bazivuma "izigulane zeepakethi," iimpawu zika-Anne zihambelana nokunyanzelisa, kanti uMarko ngumntu onomdla kakhulu ngokuqokelela ifenisha ye-antitique. U-Anne wayeya kuzuza ngokubonisana nodokotela wakhe wentsapho okanye ingcali yengqondo yengqondo ukugqiba udliwano-ndlebe kunye nembali yonyango ukuze wenze ukuxilongwa ngokucacileyo kokunyanzela ukunyanzelisa nokuhlola iindlela zokunyanga .
Ukuba wena, ilungu lentsapho okanye omnye umntu owaziyo unesidingo sokuqokelela izinto ezicingelwa ukuba zincinci kwabanye kwaye zinempembelelo ekusebenzeni kwansuku zonke, kusenokuba ixesha lokuqwalasela ukuthetha ngengqondo zezempilo. Ingxaki inokuthi iqhube ingqongqo kunokuba i-pack ye-pack. Utyando lwe-hoarding lufumaneka.
Imithombo:
Umbutho wezeMpilo waseMerika. "Incwadana yokuHlola kunye neSatistim of Disabilities of the Mind, 4th,." 2000 Washington, DC: Umbhali.
Fugen Neziroglu, PhD, ABBP, ABPP. "Ukugxotha: Iisiseko." Inkxalabo kunye neNkxalabo yokuThuthukiswa kweMelika (2015).