Nangona uxinzelelo lwamava ngamazwe - sonke sinamava, kwaye yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye iyimfuneko ebomini - kungekhona wonke umntu ufumana uxinzelelo kwiimeko zonke. Ngokomzekelo, umntu omnye unokugxeka kwaye agxininiswe kwindlela yokuziphatha engqongqo xa omnye engase ahlabele umculo aze acinge ukuba ngumonakalo obumnene. Ukulwa nomhlobo kunokulandelelana nomntu omnye ujikeleze yonke imini xa enye ingayigxotha kwaye ikhumbule ngexesha elizayo.
(Ngomqondiso ofanayo, umntu ocinga ngakumbi malunga nobudlelwane bawo angasebenzela nzima ukugcina bephilile kwaye banolonwabo, okubangela ukuba kubekho uxinzelelo kwixinzelelo kamva kunomntu onokucinga ngokungathandabulelana nolondolozo.) Ukwahlukana kunokongeza ukuxinezeleka okungapheliyo okanye ubomi obungaphantsi.
Siphinde sibe namazinga ahlukeneyo oxinzelelo esekelwe kwiimpawu zethu zobuntu kunye nezixhobo esizifumanekayo. Ngokomzekelo, i-extraverts idla ukufumana uxinzelelo olungakumbi kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla kwaye ibe noluntu oluninzi oluthile, oluxhatshazwayo ngokuxinzeleleka. Abaphengululi bazenzele uxinzelelo ngokungabalulekanga kwaye banokuba nemiphumo emibi yengqondo kunye nempilo kunokuba abo bajolise ekuphunyezweni okuphezulu ngaphandle kweemfuno eziphezulu zokuphelela. Abo "bahlobo lwe-A" banokugxininisa wonke umntu obangqongileyo, kuquka nabo. Labo abanemali eyaneleyo yokufumana uncedo banokunikezela ngemisebenzi exinezelekileyo, ngoko ke lo mthombo unokwenza umgca phezu kwabo bazama ukufikelela kwimigangatho kwaye kufuneka benze nzima ukugcina imali.
Naphezu kwezi ngxaki, abaninzi abantu banokuxinezeleka kwimihla ngemihla, kwaye abaninzi abaxinzelelekileyo bafana nabo bonke abantu. Ngokwe-poll kule ndawo, amagama abafundi abaninzi kwaye mhlawumbi kubaluleke ngakumbi, uphando, oku kulandelayo kubangelwa uxinzelelo kwisabelo esihle sabemi:
- Imisebenzi kunye nendawo yokusebenzela
- Iingxaki zeMali
- Ubudlelwane bomntu
- Abantwana
- Imihla ngemihla / Ukuxhamla
Ngethamsanqa, le ndawo inemithombo yokukunceda ukujongana nale micimbi kunye noxinzelelo. Ngaphandle kokufumanisa iindlela zokulawula uxinzelelo ezinokukunceda uhlaziye i-physiology yakho ukuba ungayithinteli kakhulu ingcinezelo, kukho izicwangciso ezinokukunceda ukomeleze uxinzelelo lwe-towad kwixesha elizayo, ezicetyiswa kakhulu. Landela ikhonkco kwiluhlu apha ngasentla ukuze ufumane izixhobo zokujongana nazo zonke ezo zineenkxalabo ngendlela efanelekileyo kakhulu. Ngamnye unokuba ngumthombo wolonwabo kunye noxinzelelo, kwaye ukwazi indlela yokuhamba noxinzelelo kwimiba nganye yobomi kunokukunceda ukuba uphumule kwaye ujabulele ubomi bakho bonke. Funda ngoku, uza kufumana ulwazi kunye nezixhobo ongazisebenzisayo ukukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza xa uziva ukhululekile, kwaye uhlakulele ngakumbi ukunyamezela kwengcinezelo ezayo. Ezi zixhobo zilandelayo zinokukunceda:
- Fumana ukwaneliseka okongezelelweyo kwi-Job Job yangoku : Ezinye imisebenzi zandisa ingozi yokutshiswa . Nazi ezinye izinto ezizodwa ongayenza ukuze uzigcine unonwabe kwaye uncinci.
- Njani kunye Nokuba Kutheni Ufanele Ugcine Ubuhlobo Obunempilo : Ubudlelane bunokuba yinto ebalulekileyo yokuxinzelela uxinzelelo-okanye imbangela enkulu yalo. Nakhu okufuneka ukwazi ukuphuhlisa ubomi bentlalo obuxhasa ulonwabo.
- Uxinzelelo lwezeMali: iimfihlelo zokugxininisa ngaphantsi kweeMali zakho : Ngaba uxinzelele ngemali ? AWUKHO wedwa. Abantu kuzo zonke iibhanki zokufumana imali bafumana uxinzelelo lwezezimali . Nantsi into ekufuneka uyazi ukuba ukhululekile ngokwezimali kunye nokunyamezela.
- Ngaba Uyiyitha Yakho Eyona Mbi? Abanye abantu basengozini yokuxinezeleka kunye nemiphumo yabo ngenxa yendlela yabo yokubona nokusondela kwihlabathi. Ngaba uyazibangela uxinzelelo olungadingekile ngeendlela ezingacingi zokucinga okanye zokuziphatha? (Unokumangaliswa!) Lapha uza kufumana ulwazi kunye nezixhobo zokuvavanya ukuze ufikelele kwisimo sengqondo esipheleleyo ukuze ufumane uxinzelelo olungaphantsi ngaphandle kokutshintsha impilo yakho yonke.
- Ngaba Uvakalelwa? Iindlela ezi-5 zokukhusela phantsi ngokukhawuleza : Ngezinye iinkalo iingxaki ezixinzelelekileyo zibonakala zixhamla ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ngokukhawuleza siziziva sisinde kwaye sigxininise. Nazi iindlela ezinhlanu ezilula zokuzincama ngokukhawuleza kwaye ubuyele kwisakhelo sengqondo esivumela ukuba uhlangabezane neengxaki zakho ngendlela engqiqweni.