Musa Ukudideka 'Ngokusela Ngotywala'
Yiyiphi ibender? Eli gama lesigxina lithetha itywala yecala, ixesha elide lokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi. Umnxila obunxilisayo ngumnxeba wokusela otywala imihla ngemihla apho umntu engadli kwaye alala kakhulu. Ukuba uhamba nge-bender, ungadlula ixesha elifutshane, vuka uphinde uqale ukusela kwakhona.
I-bender ayibhekiseli kwenye ubusuku obunxilisayo .
Ibhekisela kwisiprophu sokuphuza esongezwa ubuncinane ubuncinane bobusuku obini. Kodwa ezinye iinguqulelo zifuna ukuba ukuze kube yindoda yokwenene, ukuphuza ukuphuza kufuneka kuthathe ubuncinane iintsuku ezintathu.
Kutheni iintsuku ezintathu? Kuba iveki iintsuku ezimbini kwaye baninzi abaphuzayo abaselayo yonke iveki. Ukuhamba ngaloo mini yesithathu, kwaye mhlawumbi ulahleka umsebenzi okanye usuku lwesikolo, kwenza ukuba utywala uphephe ngokuzilimaza, kunokuphela kweveki enye elahlekileyo.
Ngethuba lokubhinqa, umntu oselayo uqala ukusela ngokukhawuleza xa evuka, uyaqhubeka ephuza ade aphinde aphule, aze avuke aze aphinda umjikelezo.
Imvelaphi yokusetyenziswa kwegama elithi "bender" ukubhekisela kwixesha elide lokusela utywala aliqinisekanga. Abanye ababhali beembali-mlando bacinga ukuba kungabhekisela kwisenzo sokugoba umlenze ukuba athathe isiselo, kanti abanye bakholelwa ukuba kudibaniswa negama elithi "ukuphelelwa ngumumo."
Ukusela Ngotywala Ukudideka NgeBender
Ngamanye amaxesha igama elithi "ukusela utywala" lididekile "ne-bender." Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuba izilumkiso zokunxiliswa ngotywala ziyisilumkiso malunga nokuhamba ngokugqithiseleyo kwimihla ngemihla, kodwa oko akusikho ukusela ukutywala.
Ukusela utywala kukusela ezintlanu okanye iziphuzo ezingaphezulu kwiseshoni yokuphuza amadoda, okanye ezine okanye iziphuzo ezingaphezulu ngosuku. Ukusela okuyingozi kungenzeka ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuba lifike kumgangatho we-bender.
Nangona ukuhamba nge-bender kunokubhekwa njengendlela yokuzilimaza, ukusela nje iibheriya ezintlanu okanye ibhotile yewayini ngenye imini kuthathwa njengokusela okuyingozi.
Igama elithi "bender" linye yeelwimi ezingaphezu kwama-2,300 ezibhekiselele kwiintlobo ezithile zeziyobisi okanye umsebenzi weziyobisi ezihlanganiswe yi-White House Office ye-National Policy Control Policy.
Benders kunye neveki ezilahlekileyo
Iifilimu ezinjenge "I-Hangover" zingenza i-bender zombini inqaku elisiqilima kwaye ungeze kwi-mystique. Ukuba ukuqhubeka kwakho kokusela okanye iseshingi yokudakraza kuhamba kakubi, unokugqiba ukwenza okanye ukuxhatshazwa, ukutshabalalisa ipropathi okanye ekugqibeleni uvuke entolongweni, mhlawumbi ungenakukhumbula okukwenzekayo.
Ingaba uyazibhinqa okanye uya kwi-bender, ubomi bakho kunye nempilo akwenziwanga nantoni na. Zombini ziwonakalisa kwaye ziphilileyo . Kodwa i-bender-day-day bender eyenza umsebenzi olahlekileyo okanye ukukrazula eminye imisebenzi inokutshabalalisa kakhulu igama lakho. Kungaba yinto yokumisela abanye ukuba unengxaki yokusela kwaye kungekudala uza kushaya phantsi uze uvume imfuneko yokujongana nokusela okanye iingxaki zeziyobisi.