Yenza uvavanyo lwakho lokukhethwa komculo nobuntu
Ingaba yakho ingoma kumculo ibonisa ulwazi malunga nobuntu bakho? Abaphandi baye bafumanisa ukuba abantu abakhetha iindlela ezithile zomculo bavame ukubonisa iimpawu zobuntu . Ngokomzekelo, abalandeli bomculo belizwe bahlala bezinze ngokomoya xa abalandeli bomculo bomdaniso ngokuqhelekileyo bethetha kwaye baphuma.
Ukuba ukhangele ingcamango enomdla wokuzama kwengqondo, ukuhlolisisa uxhulumaniso phakathi kwezinto zokuzonwabisa zomculo kunye neempawu zobuntu kunokuba kuyinto ejabulisayo kunye nokuzonwabisa.
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale naluphi na uphando lwezengqondo kufuneka uhlale uxoxa ngeprojekthi yakho kunye nomqeqeshi wakho. Kwezinye iimeko, unokufuna ukufumana imvume evela kwiBhodi yokuHlola yeSikolo.
Qala uvavanyo lwakho ngokunciphisa ugxininiso lwakho kumbuzo othize wophando uze uhlakulele ingcinga. Emva koko unokuqalisa inkqubo yokuphuhlisa izinto zakho kunye neenkqubo kunye nokukhetha abathathi-nxaxheba bakho.
Iimpawu eziphambili kunye neenkcazo
Njengoko uceba ukuzama kwakho, qiniseka ukuba uyaqonda ezi ngcamango ezilandelayo:
Imibuzo yophando
- Ngaba izitayela zomculo ezihamba ngokukhawuleza (oko kukudanisa, i-hip-hop, i-rap, njl njl.) Zihambelana nempawu ezithile zobuntu ezifana nokugxeka kunye nokuzithoba ?
- Ngaba abantu abakhetha iindlela ezininzi zomculo eziyinkimbinkimbi ezifana neklasikhi kunye ne-jazz ngaphezulu yokudala?
- Ngaba abantu abathanda izitayela zomculo ezinamandla (okt metal heavy, rap) ngaphezulu?
Phuhlisa i-Hypothesis yakho
Emva kokuba ukhethe umbuzo wophando ofuna ukuwuhlola ngokubanzi, isinyathelo esilandelayo kukukwenza i-hypothesis. I- hypothesis yakho kufuneka ibe yinkcazo ethile ichaza oko uqikelele ukufumana ekuhlolweni kwakho. Umzekelo, i-hypothesis ingabandakanya enye yezi zinto zilandelayo:
- Abathathi-nxaxheba abakhetha i-jazz kunye nomculo weklasiya baya kuphakamisa phezulu kwiimvavanyo zobugcisa.
- Abathathi-nxaxheba abakhetha izitayela zomculo ezihamba ngokukhawuleza baya kuphakamisa phezulu kwiimilinganiselo zokutsalwa kwe-extraversion.
Ukucwangcisa Ingcinga Yakho
Okokuqala, qalisa ngokucwangcisa ngokucophelela amanyathelo kunye neenkqubo ozakuzisebenzisa ekuhlolweni kwakho. Uya kufumana phi inxaxheba? Ziziphi izinto ozifunayo? Unokwazi ukucela abanye ofunda nabo ukuba bakhonze njengabathathi-nxaxheba ekuhlolweni kwakho. Kwezinye iimeko, kufuneka ufune amavolontiya esikolweni okanye kuluntu.
Emva koko, kubalulekile ukufumana nayiphi na ithuluzi okanye izixhobo ozifunayo ukuze wenze ukuhlolwa kwakho. Kule meko, kuya kufuneka ukuba uqokelele iinkcukacha malunga nokukhethwa komculo nobuntu. Uya kuhlolisisa njani umdlalo womculo ngamnye? Kule meko, indlela elula kakhulu kuba kukucela. Yakha i-questionnaire esheshayo ebuza abaphenduli ukuba bathathe iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo zomculo kwizinga ukusuka kwesinye ukuya kweshumi, kunye nomncinci owodwa okhethiweyo kunye neyeshumi.
Ngoku kufuneka uqikelele indlela oza kulinganisa ngayo ubuntu. Ngaba uza kujonga iimpawu zobuntu, ezifana nokuzinza ngokomoya, ukuzithemba, okanye ukuxubusha ? Kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo ongasondela kulo mzamo, ngoko ke ukhetho luya kuwe.
Ngokomzekelo, unokhetha ukujonga ubukhulu bomntu obodwa njengokungeniswa kwe-extraversion kunye ne- introversion . Ngaba izethulo zivame ukukhetha uhlobo lomculo othile? Ngaba ukhangelelwe kwiimpawu zomculo ezikhawulezayo? Le mibuzo embalwa yimibuzo enokuyikhetha ukuyihlola.
Enye inketho onokuzama ukujonga ngayo ubuntu ngokusekelwe kumanqanaba amakhulu . Kule meko, ungasebenzisa uvavanyo olukhoyo olufana nokuLinganisa koBuntu boThi (i-TIPI) eyenziwe ngabaphandi iGosling, Rentfrow, kunye ne-Swann.
Ukuqokelela Iinkcukacha nokuhlaziya iziphumo zakho
Emva kokuba uqokelele yonke idatha yokuzama kwakho, lixesha lokuhlalutya iziphumo zakho.
Ngaba ufumene naluphi na ubungqina obuxhasa inkxaso yakho? Ngaba iziphumo zakho zokuzama ukubala zibalulekileyo? Emva kokwenza uhlalutyo lwakho, isinyathelo esilandelayo kukuba ubhale iziphumo ngendlela echazwe ngumfundisi wakho. Kwiimeko ezininzi, unokufuneka ukuba ubhale ingxelo yengxelo yengqondo okanye wenze i-presentation bulletin board.
Hlola ezinye iingcinga zengqondo ze-psychology kwaye ufunde kabanzi malunga nendlela yokuqhuba ukuhlolwa kwengqondo .