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Kwimbali enkulu ye-5 yobuntu, ukuxubusha (ngokuqhelekileyo kuthiwa yi-extraversion) ngenye yeendlela ezinhlanu ezikholelwa ekubeni zenze ubuntu buntu. Ukuxubusha kubonakaliswa ngokuzentlalo, ukuthetha, ukuxhaswa kunye nokuzibhokoxa.
Abantu abaphakamileyo kwi-extroversion bavame ukufuna ukukhuthaza abantu kunye namathuba okusebenzisana nabanye.
Aba bantu bavame ukuchazwa nje bezele ubomi, amandla kunye nobuhle . Kwiimeko zeqela, i-extroverts (i-extraverts) inokuthetha rhoqo kwaye iqinisekise.
Ngamanye ama-Introverts, ngabantu abancinci. Bahlala bezolile, bagcinwe kwaye bengabandakanyekanga kwiimeko zentlalo. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ukungena kunye neentloni akunjalo into efanayo. Abantu abancinci bangenako ukwesaba kwiimeko zentlalo, bafuna ukuchitha ixesha elide bodwa kwaye abayidingi ukukhuthaza abantu.
Ukugqithisa ngokuqhelekileyo kudla ngokungathandabuzekiyo njengento yokuthetha ngokugqithiseleyo. Enyanisweni, bafumana amandla kuphela ekubandakanyekeni kwintlalo yoluntu. Abantu abaphakamileyo kwi-extroversion badinga ukuvuselela uluntu ukuba bazive benamandla. Bafumana ukuphefumlelwa kunye nemihlali yokuthetha nokuxoxa ngeengcamango nabanye abantu.
Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zokuxubusha
Ukuxubusha kudla ngokuphawulwa ngamanani ahlukeneyo.
Abanye ba ndakanya:
- Ukufudumala
- Ukufuna izinto ezintle kunye nolonwabo
- Ukuthobela
- Ukuqinisekiswa
- Uvuyo
- Ukuthetha
- Uvuyela ukuba yiziko lokuqwalasela
- Ezijoliswe kumsebenzi
- Mhlobo
- Ukubandakanya
Yintoni Ebangele Ukuxubusha?
Isizathu esona sizathu sokuba abantu bathambekele ekugqithiseni okanye xa kungeniswa ngaphezulu kuye kwaba yimbambano enkulu kunye nophando kwizesengqondweni.
Njengokuba kukho iingxabano ezininzi, umbuzo uvame ukubilisa phantsi kubini abachaphazelekayo abalulekileyo: imvelo okanye ukunyusa .
- Ukugqithisa ngokucacileyo kunomlinganiselo ophezulu wobomi . Izifundo ze-Twin zibonisa ukuba i-genetics ifake kwindawo ethile phakathi kwama-40 no-60 ekhulwini kwintlukwano phakathi kokuphambanisa nokuqala.
- Ingqongileyo inokuchaphazela . Izifundo zakwaSibling ziye zaphakamisa ukuba amava ngabanye athatha ubunzima kunokuba babelane ngamava kwintsapho.
- Abanye abaphandi ababandakanyeka noHans Eysenck baye bacetyiswa ukuba ukuhluka okule mpawu kunokudibaniswa nokungafani kwimiba yokukhwabanisa. Ukugqithisa kudla ngokudinga ukuvuselela kwangaphandle xa izethulo zivakala ukuba zivuseleleke lula.
Ukuxubusha nokuziphatha
Ukuthinteka kwempembelelo kuthinteka njani ukuziphatha kwethu? Abaphandi baye bafumanisa ukuba ukuphakama kulo mfanelo wobuntu kudibaniswa nenani leentlobo ezahlukeneyo. Ukongezelela ekunikeni inxaxheba kubuntu bethu, le mpawu inokudlala indima kwindlela yokusebenza esiye siphetha ngokukhetha.
Ngokutsho kwabaphandi, ukuxubusha kunxulumene nokuziphatha kobunkokeli. Ekubeni i-excrots iyakwazi ukuzifakaza ngamaqela, kuyaqondakala ukuba aba bantu bahlala beqhuba iimbopheleleko xa besebenza nabanye abantu.
Uphando luye lwabonisa ukuba i-extroverts ayinakukwazi ukukhathazeka ngenxa yengxelo engalunganga. Abo baphakamileyo ekugqibeleni bavame ukuchazwa njengokuba nethemba elihle ebomini kunye nokuba nobuhlobo, amandla kunye nezilungelelaniso . Zonke ezi zinto zikwazi ukukhonza umntu kakuhle, ngakumbi kwiimeko ezithile zentlalo.
Njengoko unokucinga, amazinga aphezulu okuxubusha angakulungeleka ngokukhethekileyo kwimisebenzi efuna ukusebenzisana okukhulu nabanye abantu . Ukufundisa, ukuthengisa, ukuthengisa, ubudlelwane boluntu, kunye nezopolitiko yimi sebenzi apho i-extrovert ihamba kakuhle.
Ama-Introverts bakhetha ukusebenzisana okuncinci kwentlalontle ukwenzela ukuba imisebenzi efuna imisebenzi eninzi ngokuzimeleyo ihlala ingcono.
Ukubhala, inkqubo yeekhompyutheni, ubunjineli, kunye nokuphendula yonke imisebenzi enokubhenela umntu ophantsi ekugqibeleni.
Kuqheleke Kanjani Ukuxubusha?
Nangona kubonakala ngathi wonk Kwisifundo esashicilelwe kwiScience Psychological Science, abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba i- extroverts ixhomekeke ekugqithisweni kwiindawo zokunxibelelana . Ngenxa yokuba abantu abaphumayo, abantu abadumile bavame ukuba nabahlobo abaninzi, abaxhomekeke ngokungafaniyo kwiintanethi zentlalo.
Umxhandi uDaniel C. Feiler waseYunivesithi yaseDarmouth uthi: "Ukuba ususwe ngokubanzi, unokwenene ukujonga indlela abantu abaye baxoshwa ngayo." "Ukuba usungeniswa kwangaphambili ungenayo ingcamango echanekileyo."
Abaphandi baphakamisa ukuba kukho izinto ezimbini ezibalulekileyo ezibonisa ukuba ngubani oba ngumhlobo naye. Ukugqithisa kuthatha ukuhlalisana kakhulu, kubangele ukuba babe nobuhlobo obutsha kunezethulo. Abantu nabo bavame ukudala ubuhlobo nabantu abanamanqanaba afanayo okuxubusha njengabo ngokwabo.
Nangona i-extroverts inokuba yinto enokwenzeka ukuba ibe ngabahlobo kunye nezinye izinto ezithengiswayo, izethulo zivame ukudala ubudlelwane kunye nobabini bokuqala kunye nokuxhamla. Ukugqithisa, kubonakala ngathi baninzi abantu baxakeka ngenxa yokuba lo mntu unobungqina obuninzi phakathi kweqela labahlobo kunye nabaqhelana nabo. Ngona kunjalo, i-Introverts, ingaba nokuqonda kangcono kwizakhiwo zokunxibelelana kwezentlalo.
Iingxelo
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