Funda malunga ne-Introvert's Characality Traits
I-Introversion yenye yeendlela ezintle zobuntu ezichazwe kwiinkalo ezininzi zobuntu. Abantu abafakela phambili bathambekele ekuphenduleni kwangaphakathi , okanye bajolise ngakumbi kwiingcamango zangaphakathi, iimvakalelo kunye nemizwelo kunokuba bafune ukuvuselela kwangaphandle. I-Introversion ibonwa njengento ekhoyo njengenxalenye yokuqhubeka kunye kunye ne- extraversion . I-Introversion ibonisa ukuphela komlinganiselo wesikali, ngelixa i-extraversion imele enye iphelo.
Ingqwalaselo yeSkychology of Introversion
Amagama okuqala kunye nokuchithwa kwempahla kwakusasazwa ngomsebenzi kaCarl Jung kwaye kamva waba ziinxalenye eziphambili zezinye iimbali ezivelele kubandakanya i- theory 5 yobuntu. I-introversion-extraversion dimension nayo enye yezona ndawo zichazwe yi- Myer-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). Ngokutsho kweengcamango ezininzi zobuntu, wonke umntu unomlinganiselo othile wesibini kunye nokuqhaqha. Nangona kunjalo, abantu bahlala bexhomekeke kwindlela enye okanye enye.
Ama-introverts athambekele ekuphumeni, egcinwe, kunye nokucacisa. Ngokungafani nabangenayo abafumana amandla ekusebenzisaneni kwezentlalo, izaziso kufuneka zisebenzise amandla kwiimeko zoluntu. Emva kokuya kwindibano okanye ukuchitha ixesha kwiqela elikhulu labantu, abavakalisi bavakala ukuba banesidingo "sokutshiza" ngokuchitha ixesha elilodwa.
Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo ze-Introversion
I-Introversion ibhalwe ngamanani amancinci:
- Uyazi kakuhle
- Ucinga
- Ndiyakufumana iinkcukacha zokuqonda
- Unomdla kwi-self-knowledge nokuziqonda
- Uvame ukugcina iimvakalelo zangasese
- Ukucima nokugcinwa kumaqela amakhulu okanye malunga nabantu abangaqhelekanga
- Unonxibelelwano olungakumbi kunye nokudibanisa nabantu ababaziyo kakuhle
- Ufunda kakuhle ngokuqwalasela
I-Introversion Influence behavior?
Ukuziphatha kwe-introversion impembelelo njani?
Enye into ebalulekileyo ukuyikhumbula kukuba akuyiyo yonke intshayelelo efanayo. Abanye abantu basenokungeniswa kakhulu, abanye bancinane nje, okanye bephakathi.
Ezinye iindlela ezenza ukuba u-introversion inokuchaphazela ukuziphatha ziquka ezi zilandelayo:
Ama-Introverts anokuba nabahlobo abancinci, abasondeleyo . Abaphandi baye bafumanisa ukuba abantu abaphezulu kule mpawu bafumana ukuba neqela labangane. Nangona i-extroverts ngokubanzi inomxholo obanzi lwabahlobo kunye nabaqhelana nabo, ama-introverts akhetha abahlobo bawo ngokucophelela. Ubuhlobo babo obusondeleyo buhlala bunzulu kwaye bubalulekile. Bakhetha kwakhona ukusebenzisana nabantu ngesinye ngesinye kunokuba kubekho iqela elikhulu.
Ama-Introverts angasigcinwa, kodwa akuthethi ukuba bayaziintloni okanye bazixhalabe kuluntu. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba i-introversion ayifani ngokulingana neentloni. Kwincwadi yabo, uPhuhliso lweentloni kunye nokuHlulwa kweNtlalo , abalobi uSmidtt noBuss babhala, "Ukuzibandakanya kubhekisela kwisisiseko, esomeleleyo okanye ebuthakathaka, yokufuna ukuba nabanye, ngoxa iintloni zibhekisela ekuziphatheni xa abanye, bevinjelwe okanye bengavinjelwe, kunye neemvakalelo zokuxhatshazwa kunye nokuphazamiseka. "
Ientloni zibonisa ukwesaba abantu okanye iimeko zentlalo.
Ama-Introverts, ngakolunye uhlangothi, aqhele ukufumana ukusebenzisana nabanye abantu. Nangona kunjalo, bayakuxabisa ukuhlala nabantu abasondeleyo kubo. Bafumana ukubandakanya "incoko encinci" inyanzelisayo, kodwa banandipha incoko neencoko.
Abavakalisi bavame ukucinga ngezinto ngaphambi kokuthetha. Bafuna ukuqonda ngokupheleleyo ingcamango ngaphambi kokuba bathethe uluvo okanye bazama ukunikela ngengcaciso. Nangona i-extroverts ngokuvamile ifunda ngokusebenzisa iilingo kunye nephutha, i-introverts zifunda ngokugqithiseleyo ngokuqwalasela.
Iingoma kunye neengcamango ezingalunganga malunga ne-Introversion
Kwinqaku elihle kakhulu kwi- Atlantic Monthly , umlobi uJonathan Rauch wathatha ezinye zeengcamango eziqhelekileyo kunye neengcamango ezingalunganga malunga neentetho.
Nangona ama-introverts adlalwa njengamahloni, angabonakali, kwaye azikhukhumezile, uRauch uchaza ukuba le ngcamango ibangelwa ukungaphumeleli kokubakho ukuqonda ukuba i-introverts isebenze njani. "Ukwandisa [ama-verts ayinanto encinci okanye ayiqondi kakuhle," uRauch ubonisa. "Bacinga ukuba inkampani, ingakumbi eyabo, iyakwamukelwa njalo.Ayikwazi ukucinga ukuba kutheni umntu efuna ukuba yedwa; ngokwenene, bahlala bexhala ngesiluleko. i-verts, andizange ndive ukuba nayiphi na into eyiqonda ngokwenene. "
Ngokomqikelelo, i-extraverts ingaphezulu kwezingeniso malunga neyesithathu ukuya kwenye. Abavakalisi bafumana ukuba abanye abantu bazama ukutshintsha okanye bacebise ukuba kukho into "engalunganga" nabo. Akukho nto ingaba yinyani kwi nyaniso. Nangona i-introverts yenza i nxalenye encinci yabemi, akukho hlobo lomntu olungalunganga okanye olungalunganga. Esikhundleni saloo nto, bobabini izethulo kunye neziqu kufuneka bazama ukuqonda ukungafani komnye nomnye.
Njengoko ucinga ukuba, imisebenzi efuna ukubanxulumana nentlalontle ingahlali isithandabuzo kubantu abaphakamileyo kwi-introversion. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, imisebenzi ebandakanya ukusebenza ngokuzimela ngokuqhelekileyo yinto ekhethekileyo yokukhetha izethulo. Ngokomzekelo, i-introvert ingakujabulela ukusebenza njengomlobi, umgcini-mali, umprogram wekhompyutheni, umyili wezobugcisa, i-pharmist, okanye umculi.
Iingxelo
Rauch, J. (2003). Ukunyamekela i-introvert yakho. Ngenyanga yeAlantiki . Kubuyiselwa kwi-http: //www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2003/03/-car---our-introvert/2696/#
Inkemba, uL. (2002). The Introted Introvert. Ifunyenwe kwi http://talentdevelop.com/articles/GiftIntrov.html