Ngaba uyathanda ukuhlangana nabantu abatsha? Ingaba umcimbi omkhulu wentlalo ushiya uziva unamandla kwaye uhlaziywa? Ukuba unako ukuphendula ewe kule mibuzo, ngoko kunokwenzeka ukuba unokuba yi-extrovert.
Kukho intetho eninzi kule mihla malunga nokuhlukana phakathi kwezinto eziphambili kunye neentetho, ezihlala ziphathwa njengento / okanye impawu. I-Introversion kunye ne-extroduction enye yezinto ezibalulekileyo zobuntu ezenza imodeli yezinto ezihlanu .
Ngokwale ngqungquthela, ubuntu bubunjwe ngobubanzi obuhlanu. Umlinganiselo ngamnye, kubandakanywa ukukhushulwa / ukungeniswa, kukhona kwi-continuum. Nangona abanye abantu banokuthi babe nesigxina esiphambili kwicala lokuqhubeka, abaninzi abantu banendawo ethile phakathi.
Ngoko ngoxa unokuba nempawu ezininzi ezenza ube yinto enqabileyo, unokuzifumanisa ngamanye amaxesha ubonakalise impawu evezwe ngokwendalo.
Yintoni Eyona Ntsingiselo?
Kwimeko elungileyo, i- extroverts ivame ukuchazwa njengento yokuthetha, intlalontle, i-action-oriented, inomdla, inobungane, kwaye ihamba phambili. Ngalinye icala, ngamanye amaxesha bachazwa ngokufuna ingqalelo, bephazamiseka lula, kwaye abakwazi ukuchitha ixesha bodwa.
Ezinye zeempawu eziqhelekileyo ezinxulumene nokuxubusha ziquka:
- Ininzi, ebanzi
- Uthanda ukuthetha ngokuthetha
- Uvuyela ukuba phakathi kwinqanaba lokuqwalasela
- Uqala ukwenza okokuqala ngaphambi kokucinga
- Uvuyela umsebenzi weqela
- Iintlungu zodwa zichitha ixesha elide lichitha lodwa
- Ubheka abanye kunye nemithombo yangaphandle yeengcinga kunye nokuphefumlelwa
- Uthanda ukuthetha ngeengcamango neemvakalelo
Ukuxubusha kuye kwahambelana nombolo yeziphumo ezahlukileyo. Phakathi kweziphumo ezintle, i-extroverts idla ukuchitha ixesha elininzi nabanye abantu, ichithe ixesha elongezelelweyo kwimisebenzi yentlalontle, kwaye ithambekele ekubeni nabahlobo abangakumbi.
Uphando luye lwacebisa ukuba ukugqithisa kubonakala kukuvuyisa kunokuba kungeniswa kunye nokungaxhomekeki kwezinye iingxaki zengqondo .
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, i-extroverts nayo iyakwazi ukubandakanya iimpawu zokuziphatha ezinobungozi, kubandakanywa nezenzo zokuziphatha ezinobungozi.
Cinga ukuba unokuba yi-extrovert? Khangela uluhlu lwethu ezintlanu zeempawu eziphambili eziqhelekileyo kulolu hlobo lobuntu .
1) Uthanda ukuthetha
Awunandipha nje ukuthetha nabahlobo, amalungu omndeni, kunye nabasebenza kunye nabo; Uyakuthanda ukuqala iingxoxo kunye nabantu abangaziwayo. Uthanda ukuhlangana nabantu abatsha kwaye ufunde ngokuphila kwabo. Ngokungafani nabaqalayo abathandayo ukucinga ngaphambi kokuba bathethe, baxhomekeke bathetha njengendlela yokuhlola nokuhlela iingcamango zabo neengcamango zabo.
I-Extroverts nayo ithambekele ekubeni ne-circle circle of friends. Ekubeni ulungele ukuhlangana nabantu abatsha, ukuxubusha iingxoxo, kwaye uyonwabele ngokwenene inkampani yabanye, mhlawumbi akumangalisi ukuba ukufika kwabahlobo kulula.
2) Ukuzibandakanya kukunceda ukuba uzive unamandla kwaye uphefumulelwe
Ngaba uhlala uziva 'uhlawuliswa' kwaye uphefumlelwe emva kokuchitha ixesha kunye nabanye abantu? Ukuxhamla kudla ukufumana intsebenziswano enxulumene nentlalontle kwaye iyabuyisa amandla ekuthenganeni.
Xa kutyhutyha ukuchitha ixesha elininzi, baqala ukuziva bengenasiphelo kwaye bengenanto. Ukuba unikwe ukhetho phakathi kokuchitha ixesha lodwa kunye nokuchitha ixesha nabanye abantu, i-extrovert iya kuhlala ikhetha ukuchitha ixesha kunye neqela.
3) Uthanda ukuxazulula iingxaki ngokuzixoxa
Xa ujongene nengxaki, ukhetha ukuxoxa ngemiba kunye neenketho ezahlukeneyo nabanye. Ukuthetha ngento kukunceda ukuba uhlolisise umba obunzulu kwaye uqaphele ukuba yeyiphi indlela enokusebenza ngayo. Emva komsebenzi onzima emsebenzini okanye esikolweni, ukuthetha ngawo kunye nabahlobo okanye intsapho kunokukunceda uzive ukhululekile.
Ngamanye uhlangothi, ukhetha ukucinga ngeengxaki kwaye uchithe ixesha elilodwa emva komhla wokuzama.
4) Abantu bavame ukuchaza ukuba unguMhlobo kunye nofikelelekayo
Ekubeni abantu abanalo hlobo bathanda ukusebenzisana nabanye abantu baninzi, abanye bathambekele ekufumaneni izinto ezinokuthandwa kwaye zilula ukuthetha. Kwiqela, i-extrovert mhlawumbi iya kuba ngowokuqala ukuya kwiindwendwe ezintsha kwaye wenze izethulo. Kungenxa yesi sizathu esicacisa ngokuqhelekileyo ukufumana lula ukuhlangabezana nabantu abatsha kwaye wenze abahlobo abatsha.
5) Uvule kakhulu kwaye abantu bakuthola kulula ukukwazi
Nangona amaxesha angeniswa ngamanye amava njengento evaliweyo kwaye engabonakaliyo, i-extroverts evulekile kakhulu kwaye ikulungele ukwabelana ngeengcamango zabo neemvakalelo zabo. Ngenxa yoko, abanye abantu bafumanisa ukuba i-extroverts ilula ukuyifumana.
ILizwi
Khumbula ukuba ukuxubusha akusiyo yonke into okanye akukho nto; ngokwenene kuqhubeka kunye nabanye abantu banokuba baxakeke kakhulu xa abanye bengaphantsi. Ukugqithisa kuyinto eqhelekileyo kunokuba kungeniso kwaye kudlalwa kuba yinto exabisekileyo kuba i-extroverts ithambekele ekubeni nekhono ekusebenzisaneni nabanye. Oku akuthethi, nangona kunjalo, ukuba uhlobo lomntu luhle 'lungcono kunolunye. Uhlobo ngalunye luqukethe i-pluses kunye ne-minuses yayo, kwaye unokufumanisa ukuba udibeneyo kwezinye iimeko kwaye unokungeniswa kwabanye.
> Umthombo:
> Lucas, R. Extraversion. Kwi-RF Baumeister & KD Vohs (i-Ed.), I-Encyclopedia yeNtlalo yengqondo. Los Angeles: I-SAGE Publications; 2008.