Ukuqiniswa okulungileyo kunokusetyenziswa ukufundisa iimpawu ezintsha
Kwimeko yokusebenza , ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo kubandakanya ukongeza kokuvuselela ukukhuthaza ukuziphatha okukwenza ukuba kubekho ukuziphatha okuza kubakho kwakhona kwixesha elizayo. Xa isiphumo esihle, isiganeko, okanye umvuzo kwenzeka emva kwesenzo, impendulo ethile okanye ukuziphatha kuya kuqiniswa.
Enye yeendlela ezilula ukukhumbula ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo kukucinga njengento edibeneyo .
Ngokukucinga ngale migaqo, unokufumana kulula ukubonisa imizekelo yehlabathi yangempela yokuqiniswa ngokuqinisekileyo.
Ngamanye amaxesha ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo kwenzeka ngokuqhelekileyo. Umzekelo, xa ubamba umnyango uvule umntu onokufumana udumo kunye nobulelo. Ukuqinisekiswa okunjalo kuyomeleza ngokuqinisekileyo kwaye kungenza kube lula ukuba uya kubamba umnyango uvule abantu kwakhona kwikamva.
Kwezinye iimeko, umntu unokukhetha ukuqinisa ngokuqinisekileyo ngokuzikhethela ukuze aqeqeshe kwaye aqhubeke nokuziphatha okuthile. Umqeqeshi wezilwanyana, umzekelo, unokuhlawulela inja ngokuphatha rhoqo xa isilwanyana siphazamisa isandla somqeqeshi.
Imizekelo yokuKhuthazwa okuKhuthazayo
Kukho imizekelo emininzi yokuqiniswa ngokufanelekileyo kwisenzo. Cinga ngemimiselo elandelayo:
- Emva kokuba wenze ikhefu ngexesha lesifundo se-ski, umfundisi wakho uyamemeza, "Umsebenzi omhle!"
- Xa usebenza, udlula i-quota yenyanga yokuthengisa, ngoko umphathi wakho unika ibhonasi.
- Ngokwenqanaba lakho lezengqondo, ubukela ividiyo malunga nobuchopho bomntu kwaye ubhale iphepha malunga noko ufunde. Umqeqeshi wakho unika ama-credit points angaphezulu kwezi-20 zomsebenzi wakho.
Ngaba unokufumanisa ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo kwimizekelo nganye? Umqeqeshi we-ski uhambisa indumiso, umqeshi unike ibhonasi, kunye nootitshala abanikezela ngamanqaku ebhonasi ngabo bonke abaqinisekisileyo abanokwenza.
Kwimiba nganye, ukuqiniswa kukuvuselela okongezelelweyo emva kokuziphatha okunyusa amathuba okuziphatha okuza kwenzeka kwakhona kwixesha elizayo.
Into ebalulekileyo ukuba uqaphele kukuba ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo akusoloko kulungile. Ngokomzekelo, xa umntwana ephosakeleyo kwisitoreji, abanye abazali banokubanika ingqalelo ngakumbi okanye baze bathenge umntwana umdlalo wokudlala. Abantwana bafunda ngokukhawuleza ukuba ngokwenza izinto, banokufumana ingqalelo kumzali okanye bafumane nezinto abazifunayo. Okubalulekileyo, abazali baqinisa ukuziphatha kakubi.
Kule meko, isisombululo esilungileyo sisenokusebenzisa ukuqiniswa kakuhle xa umntwana ebonisa ukuziphatha kakuhle. Esikhundleni sokuvuza ukuziphatha kakubi, abazali bafuna ukulinda de kube umntwana eziphatha kakuhle aze avuze ukuziphatha okuhle ngokudumisa, ukuphatha okanye ukudlala.
Iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuQinisekisa abaPhezulu
Kukho iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo zengqungquthela ezingasetyenziselwa ukwandisa ukuziphatha, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba uhlobo olusetyenziswayo luxhomekeke kumntu kunye nemeko. Ngelixa iinkwenkwezi zegolide kunye neenkonkco ziyakwazi ukuqiniswa ngempumelelo kwi-second-grader, aziyi kuba nomphumo ofanayo kwisikolo esiphakamileyo okanye umfundi wekholeji.
- I-reinforcerers yemvelo yileyo eyenzeka ngokuthe ngqo ngenxa yokuziphatha. Ngokomzekelo, intombazana ifundisisa nzima, inika ingqalelo kwiklasi, kwaye yenza umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo. Ngenxa yoko, ufumana amabakala aphezulu.
- Iimpawu zokuqinisa iimboyi zikhomba okanye amathokheni anikezelwa ngokwenza izinto ezithile. Ezi zikhutshana ziyakwazi ukutshintshana ngento ethile yexabiso.
- Ukuqiniswa kwezentlalo kuquka ukubonisa imvume yokuziphatha, njengotitshala, umzali, okanye umqeshi ekuthiwa okanye ebhala "Umsebenzi omhle" okanye "Umsebenzi ogqwesileyo."
- Abaqinisekisi bokubonakalayo baquka ukuveza imivuzo ebonakalayo, emzimbeni njengokwesebe, ukuthatha, amathoyizi, imali kunye nezinye izinto ezifunwayo. Nangona ezi ntlobo zembuyekezo zingakhuthaza ngamandla, kufuneka zisetyenziswe ngokukhawuleza kwaye ziqaphele.
Xa Kunokubakho Ukomeleza Kuninzi Kunempumelelo?
Xa zisetyenziswe ngokuchanekileyo, ukuqiniswa ngokuqinisekileyo kunokusebenza kakuhle. Ngokwezikhokelo zovavanyo zokuziphatha ezipapashwe yiYunivesithi yase-Utah State, ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo kusebenza kakhulu xa kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza emva kokuziphatha. Izikhokelo zincoma nokuba ukuqiniswa kufuneka kufakwe ngentshiseko kwaye kufuneka ukuba kwenzeke rhoqo.
- Ngaphantsi ixesha eliphakathi kweendlela zokuziphatha nokubonisa ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo, unxibelelwano olunzulu luya kuqina.
- Ukuba ixesha elide lidlula phakathi kokuziphatha kunye nokuqiniswa, obuthakathaka umnxibelelwano uya kuba.
- Xa ixesha elide lide, kuba lula ukuba indlela yokuziphendulela ingaphakanyiswa ngengozi.
Ukongeza kwindlela yokomelezwa esetyenzisiweyo, ishedyuli yesethulo nayo inokudlala indima kumandla impendulo. Ezi shedyuli zokuqiniswa zingaba nempembelelo enamandla ngendlela impendulo enamandla ngayo kwaye kwenzeka kaninzi kangakanani.
ILizwi
Ukuqiniswa ngokufanelekileyo kungenakho ukusetyenziswa kokusetyenziswa ngokufanelekileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha lolu hlobo lokufunda lwenzeka ngokwemvelo ngokusebenzisana ngokuqhelekileyo kunye nendalo. Kwezinye iimeko, abantu banako ukusebenzisa le ndlela yokuziphatha ukuze bancede bafundise ukuziphatha okutsha. Ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe xa usebenzisa ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo ziquka uhlobo lwabaqinisekisi abaza kusetyenziswa kunye neshedyuli eya kuqeshwa ukuqeqesha indlela entsha yokuziphatha.
> Imithombo:
> Coon, D & Mitterer, JO. Isingeniso kwiSkychology: Ingenelelo kwengqondo nokuziphatha. EBelmont, CA: iWadsworth Cengage Learning; 2010.
> Salkind, NJ & Rasmussen, K. Encyclopedia ye-Psychology yezemfundo, uMqulu 1. amawaka ama-Oaks, i-CA: i-SAGE Publications; 2008.