Kukho iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo zokuqiniswa , kodwa xa kuziwa kubantu, enye yezona zixhaphake ngokuqhelekileyo zintlalo zengqungquthela zentlalo esiyifumana nazo zonke iindawo ezizungezile imihla ngemihla. Ukuqiniswa kwezentlalo kubhekisela kubanqineli abanjengokumamatheka, ukwamukelwa, indumiso, ukubongwa, kunye nokuqwalaselwa kwabanye abantu. Kwezinye iimeko, ukuba nje ebusweni babanye abantu banokusebenza njengokomelezwa kwentlalo.
Usebenziso Lokuqinisa Uphuhliso Lwezenhlalakahle?
Kwisifundo esivelele esenziwa ngo-1968, abaphandi babheka abantwana abaneminyaka esikolweni abachitha ixesha elithile bafunda. Abantwana banikwa udumo kwaye baqwalasela iimvavanyo zabo. Abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba abantwana bafunda ngokuphindwe kabini xa benikwa ukuqiniswa kwentlalo kunokuba babenako ngaphambili xa bengenako ukuqiniswa okunjalo.
Kwezinye iimeko, le ngqalelo ayifuni ukuba ivela kumthombo ongaphandle. Ukuziqinisa ngokuzimeleyo kuyinkcazo ehambelana kakhulu nokuqiniswa koluntu okubandakanya ukuzinikela imvume yokuziphatha kwakho. Sivame ukusabela ekuziphatheni kwethu ngokuvunywa okanye ukungavumi, ukugweba izenzo zethu njengaye sifuna ukuba omnye umntu.
Xa wenza into efanelekileyo, unokuzidumisa kwaye uzive uziqhenye ngokufezekisa kwakho. Ukuba wenza kakubi, unokuzibandakanya ngokuzihlaziya okanye ukuzigxeka. Kwezinye iimeko, unako ukuzivuza ngokugqithiseleyo xa ufeza i-goa l oyibeke yona.
Umzekelo, unokuzithenga i-jean entsha entsha emva kokuba ufikelele kwisicatshulwa sakho sokujolisa okanye ungazithobela isidlo sakusasa emva kokugqiba iprojekthi yesikolo esinzima.
Ubaluleka bokuQiniswa kweNtlalo
Abaphandi baye bafumanisa ukuba ukuqinisa uluntu kunokudlala indima ebalulekileyo kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo, kuquka nempilo.
Impembelelo yabantu kwiintanethi zethu zentlalo zinokuchaphazela uhlobo lokukhetha impilo kunye nezigqibo esizenzayo. Ngomxholo we-2010 ovela kwi -New York Times , umbhali uNatasha Singer uthi, "Ubungakanani bokuqiniswa koluntu owanikezela abantu ukuphucula imikhuba yabo yempilo kubaluleke ngakumbi kunokuba ngubani owakhuthazayo ukuba enze njalo. Ngamanye amazwi, uluntu lwasekuhlaleni Uthungelwano lwabahlobo kunye nabamelwane kunokubaluleka kunokuba isithethi sikhulu esidala ekunqandeni ukusasazeka, esithi, izifo ezithathelwana ngesondo phakathi kwentsha. "
Ukuqiniswa okunjalo kwentlalo kunokuba luncedo xa uzama ukufezekisa injongo enxulumene nempilo njengokuba ulungele ngokwaneleyo. Ukubhalisa uncedo lwabahlobo kunye nokufumana abantu ukuba basebenzisane nabo kunokunceda abantu baqhubeke nokunyamezela nokufezekisa iinjongo zabo.
Imithombo:
IHolo, uRV, uLund, D., & Jackson, D. (1968). Iimpembelelo zengqalelo kwathisha ekuziphatheni kokufunda. Umbhalo we-Applied Behavior Analysis, 1 , 1-12.
Springer, N. (2010). Impilo engcono, ngoncedo oluncinane kubahlobo bethu. I-New York Times .