Kwiingcamango zengqondo ye-psychoanalytic , ukutshintshiselwa kwamanye amazwe kwenzeka xa ugqirha eqala ukulungiselela iingxabano zakhe ezingaphendulwanga kumxhasi. U-Freud , ngo-1910, wayengowokuqala ukuxoxa ngalesi sihloko.
Ukutshintshelwa kweengxabano zabaxumi kumgqirha kuyinto eqhelekileyo yonyango lwe-psychodynamic. Nangona kunjalo, ngumsebenzi weengcali ukuqonda ukutshintshiswa kwamaphepha kunye nokwenza okuyimfuneko ukuhlala ungathathi hlangothi.
Nangona abaninzi banoku kukholelwa ukuba kungenakugwemeka, ukutshintshiselwa kwamanye amazwe kunokulimaza ukuba kungabonakali kakuhle. Nangona iliso elifanelekileyo, nangona kunjalo, ezinye iimithombo zibonisa ukuba ukutshintshelwa kwamanye amazwe kunokudlala indima ebonakalayo ekuthandeni ubudlelwane.
Kukho imiqondiso emine yokudluliselwa kwe-counter:
- Ingqiqo: abagqithisi abanemibandela engaphendululwanga yimbangela (ingaba yingozi xa ingafumaneki)
- Injongo: impendulo yophiba kumenzi we-client maladaptive iinjongo (inokuzuza inqubo yokwelapha)
- Okulungileyo: umgqirha uncedisa kakhulu, uzama nzima ukuba abe ngumhlobo wakhe kumthengi, achaze kakhulu (angonakalisa ubuhlobo bonyango)
- Ukungalungi: umgqirha wenza ngokuchasene neemvakalelo ezingenakukhathazeka ngendlela engafanelekanga, kuquka ukugxeka, nokugweba okanye ukugatya umxhasi
Ukugqithiswa kwamanani ngokugqithiseleyo kubonakala ngokuqhelekileyo kwiphilisi ye-novice, ngoko ke abaphathi baqaphele ngokukhawuleza kwaye bancede babe nolwazi ngakumbi.
Uluntu lwempilo yengqondo luxhasa iikliniki ezinenkqubela ngokubongoza ukuba bafune ukuphononongwa koontanga kunye nokukhokelwa kwintlawulo njengoko kuyimfuneko. Esikhundleni sokuphelisa ukutshintshiselwa kwamanye amazwe, injongo kukusebenzisa loo mvakalelo.
Yiyiphi iQinisekisa njengeCompter-Transfer?
Ukugqithiselwa ukuphikisana nokuphambaniswa ngumphenduli ongafanelekanga kumthengi wakhe.
Umgqirha uyasabela ekungqubuzaneni kokungaxilwanga ngaphakathi kuye umthengi.
Ingcali iyazi njani ukuba ijongene nokutshintshelwa kwamanye amazwe? Uyazi njani ukuba ngaba ugqirha wakho ubonisa iimpawu zokutshintshwa kwe-counter?
Uphawu lokuqala luyimpendulo engafanelekanga kumxhasi. Ngokukodwa, xa umthengi ekhulile, iimpendulo eziqhelekileyo zokuphendulwa kwamagqirha, okanye umxhasi, kufuneka zijonge zibandakanya:
- ukungamthandi ngokungenangqiqo kumxhasi okanye iimvakalelo ezithandekayo malunga nomxhasi
- ukuba nexhala kunye nokuxakeka kwimeko yoluleko phakathi kweeseshoni
- ukwesaba iseshoni yeseshya okanye uziva ungakhululekile ngexesha leseshoni
Ukuba umntwana wakho unyango, unokukhangela ezinye iinkcukacha ukuba uyakrokraza inkathazo ekuthandeni. Xa umxhasi ungumntwana, iimpawu zokulumkisa zokutshintshwa kwe-counter-transferenti yile ngcali ziquka:
- iingcamango zokusindisa umntwana kwimeko yakhe
- ukungahoywa yindlela yokuziphatha engaphaya komntwana
- ukukhuthaza umntwana ukuba asebenze
Ukuchasana-Ukutshintshana kunokuba yinto enhle
Nangona kubalulekile ukuba ugqirha wakho alondoloze iimvakalelo zokutshintshelwa ngokukhawuleza kuwe, inokuvelisa iziphumo ezilungileyo.
Kuhlolisiso oluchanekileyo lwezifundo ezingama-25 zokudluliselwa kwamanye amazwe, abaphandi bafumene ubudlelwane kunye nokutshintshela okulungileyo, njengokuba bazive besondele kumxhasi, kunye neziphumo ezintle, kuquka ukuphuculwa kweempawu kunye nolwalamano oluhle lwezokwelapha.
ILizwi
Ukuqhuba ikhaya lakho lokuqonda ngokudluliselwa kwamanani, nasi umzekelo.
UMike waba nexhala xa ekhusela iimvakalelo ezikhuselekileyo kumxhasi wesifazane. Kwiingxoxo kunye nomnye osebenza naye, waqonda ukuba umthengi wamkhumbuza udade wakhe, ekhokelela ekutshintshelweni kweemvakalelo.
Imithombo:
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