I-Halloween ngumcimbi omnandi kubantu abaninzi-kodwa abo banokugula ngengqondo banokufumanisa ukuba ingaba lixesha lokunyuka.
Iholide ngokwayo ifanelekile ukubonakaliswa ngabantu abaninzi, ubugcisa kunye neenkcubeko. Ngoko, mhlawumbi akumangalisi ukuba ukugula kwengqondo kumelelekanga. Iindleko zazo zonke iindidi zihlala zixhamla kwizinto ezihlekisayo zokungaboni kakuhle.
Iindleko zokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo ezijoliswe kubantwana abancinci kunye nolwabiwo lwenkcubeko kunye nokungahloniphekiyo yizona zihloko eziqhelekileyo.
Ngelishwa, iindawo zaseHalloween zikhangele iindawo ezibonisa ukuqhubela phambili kunye nokugxeka ukugula kwengqondo. Ngezinye iinkhathi izindlu ezixhatshazwayo zibizwa ngokuthi "iindawo zokuhlala ezikhohlakeleyo" apho abantu abagula ngengqondo babonakaliswa njengothusayo kunye nogonyamelo. Abathengisi nabo banikezela iingubo ezibonisa abantu abaneengqondo zengqondo "njengeziqhwala," "ziqhwala," "zinobudlova," kwaye zibophe ngeebhatyi ezichanekileyo.
Ukubhiyozelwa kwe-spooky ibhishini elikhulu, njengoko abarhwebi banikela into enokuyibhiyozelayo, kubandakanywa izinto zenkampani, i-candy, iingubo kunye nezinto ezikhangayo zendlu. Ngokwe-National Retail Foundation, uqikelelo lwezigidi ezingama-171 zaseMerika ziya kuthatha inxaxheba kwimikhosi ye-Halloween kulo nyaka. Kwaye kulindeleke ukuba ukuthengiswa kweHalloween kufikelele kwi $ 8.4 yezigidigidi.
Ngoko yintoni eyenza ukubonakaliswa kwesifo sengqondo kuwonakalise kwaye kuyingozi?
Ukuqhubela phambili kwe-Stigma yezeMpilo yengqondo
Ukugula ngengqondo sele sele kuxhomekeke kwisiqhelo esikhulu sehlazo. Abantu abajongene neempawu zesifo sengqondo bahlala befihla iingxaki zabo ngenxa yokwesaba imilinganiselo kwimpilo yabo yobuqu kunye nobugcisa.
Ukubonakalisa iqela elipheleleyo labantu ngabanye njengesabisayo kwaye eliyingozi kuba baneengxaki zengqondo okanye zengqondo ayikho nje inkohlakalo, ayinakulungile.
Isifo sengqondo singasethusa ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba abagula ngengqondo kufuneka babe ngabaxhatshazo kunye nokucalulwa. Ezi zimeko ziyinxalenye yesizathu sokuba abantu bafihle ixesha lokufihla ukugula kwabo kwaye bahluleke ukufumana uncedo olufanelekileyo.
Imizekelo embalwa yeendleko kunye nezobukrini ezibonwayo kwiminyaka yamuva ziquka:
- Izindlu ezinama-haunted eziboniswa "njengeendawo zokuhlala ezingenangqondo" apho izigulane ezizenzekelayo ziphazamisa iindwendwe
- "Isigulane sengqondo" iingubo zeHalloween ezibonisa abagulayo ngengqondo njengento yokwesaba
- Iingubo zokuzibandakanya ngokwesondo ezibonisa abafazi abane- anorexia nervosa njengama-"squelet sexy"
Njengoko ucinga ukuba, ukubonakaliswa okunjalo kunokubangela ukuba abo baphethwe ngumzimba. Akunjalo kuphela, kodwa ezo ziphosololo ziqhubela phambili iimbali kunye neengcamango ezingalunganga malunga nempilo yengqondo.
Ukugula ngengqondo kuboniswa ngamanye amaxesha kunokwesabisa, ukungaqiniseki, kunye nomthombo wobundlobongela. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, ibonakaliswa njengento emnandi kwaye ingabi nzulu. Zombini iziboniso zenza igalelo elide elikhuselekileyo elithintela abantu ukuba bafune uncedo xa belifuna.
Iingozi Ze-Stigma
Intsimi yempilo yengqondo sele ilukhuni ukulwa nokuhlaselwa okubangelwa ukugula kwengqondo. Abantu abaneengxaki zengqondo bahlala bebonakaliswa njengokungaqinisekiyo kunye nobudlova, okudala umqobo omkhulu xa kuziwa ekufuneni uncedo.
Ngokutsho kwe-US Surgeon General, i-stigma enye yezona zinto ziphazamisa ukhathalelo lwempilo yengqondo .
Abantu nabo banamathele ukwenza lo mhlathi, okwenza kube lula ukuba bafune uncedo. Ndiyabulela ukubonakalisa abantu abagula ngengqondo njengendlela engaqinisekiyo kunye nobudlova, abantu banokuziva benentloni ngokugula kwabo. I-Stigma idla ngokuquka ukuziva uhlazo, ukusola, kunye nokuzihlukanisa. Labo abanesifo sengqondo banokuzama ukufihla abanye iimpawu zabo, kanti abanye banokuxhatshazwa ngenxa yokugula kwabo.
Kunokuba bafune uncedo kwiimpawu zabo, abantu banokuzama ukuzinyanya okanye bazinyamezele iingxaki zabo ngenxa yokwesaba ukubhala.
Oku kuyilusizi kuba kukho ezininzi iindlela ezikhuselekileyo zonyango ezifumanekayo. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza abantu bafuna unyango, kungekudala bangakwazi ukuqala ukufumana uncedo.
Ukutyelela okunjalo kunye nezindleko ezinokubangela
Khawufane ucinge ukuhamba ekhaya ukusuka emsebenzini emva kwemini emva kokubona ukuba omnye ummelwane wakho udale indawo yaseHalloween ephambi kwendawo yakhe ebonisa umzimba ongenampilo oxhomekeke emthini. Nangona ummelwane wakho engenakuthetha ukukhubekisa, iziganeko ezinjalo zingabangela amanqanaba amaninzi. Ngaphandle kokusoloko ekhumbula engqondweni, iimpawu ezinjalo zingabangela uxinzelelo olukhulu kunoma ubani owake wecinga, wazama okanye walahlekelwa ngumntu othandekayo ukuzibulala.
Ngethamsanqa, njengoko i -Washington Post ibika, iindawo zokuhlala ezikhungweni zengqondo kunye neengxaki zokugula ngengqondo zijongene nemingeni njengoko abavakalisi bebeka uxinzelelo olongezelelweyo kubathengisi kunye nabaphathi bepaki. Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, abathengisi abakhulu baye bathabatha izambatho ezibonisa ukuba abagula ngengqondo kunye noloyiko kwiishefu zabo.
Kungekudala, abameli bempilo yengqondo babonisa ukuthukuthela ekuphenduleni ipakishe yokuzonwabisa e Knott's Berry Farm ebizwa ngokuthi "Ukwesaba i-VR: 5150" eyabonisa ukukhokelwa kwintsholongwane njengento ebonisa ukukhohlakala. Ipaki ivalile ukukhanga ekuphenduleni ukuphikisana, kodwa iinjongo ezinokuthi zikhusele iindawo ezikhuselekileyo ziqhubeka zikhula rhoqo ngonyaka.
Ungenzani?
Ngaphandle kokungabonakali kwamashishini kunye neenkonzo eziqhubekayo ezibonakalisa ukugxekwa nokukrakra kokugula ngengqondo, yintoni enye ongayenza ukulwa nale ngxaki? I-NAMI (iNational Alliance kwiMpilo yengqondo) iphakamisa ukufikelela kwamashishini kunye nokwabelana ngokukhululekile ngeemvakalelo zakho ngento ekhubekisayo, udibana neendaba zendaba zendawo, kwaye ucela uncedo lwabanye. Bakhuthaza ukuba balungiselele ukulungiswa kokunye njengoko abanye banokubonisa ukuba unonophele okanye ulungelelanise nezopolitiki.
Isibalulekileyo ukuhlala uzolile kodwa uhlale uguquguqukayo. Kungathatha ixesha lokuba iinkampani ziphendule. Kodwa ngokuphakamisa ulwazi malunga nale ngxaki, unokukunceda ukuyeka ukugulisa ingqondo yengqondo. Cinga ngolu hlobo njengethuba elifundisekayo lokunceda uqaphele ukukhathazeka kokukhathazeka kwezempilo yengqondo kunye nemingcipheko yonyango olulolo hlobo.
> Imithombo
> Byrne, P. Stigma yokugula ngengqondo kunye nendlela zokunciphisa. Ukuqhubela phambili kwiZonyango zengqondo. 2000; 6 (1): 65-72. INGXELO: 10.1192 / apt.6.1.65.
> I-National Retail Federation. Indlunkulu yeHalloween. 2016.
> I-NAMI: Ukusebenzisana kaZwelonke kwiMpilo yengqondo. Ngaba uhlaselwa yiHalloween? Nantsi yintoni oyenzayo. 2013.
> US Surgeon General. Impilo yengqondo: Iingxelo zeGqirha Jikelele. 1999.