ImiSebenzi yeNtlalo Ukudlala iNgxenye ebalulekileyo ngendlela abantwana abazijonga ngayo
Kwabanye abantwana, indlela abavakalelwa ngayo ngokwabo kunye nolwazi lwabo lwezenhlalakahle lunokuba negalelo ekukhuselweni kwabo.
Ukuqonda Ubume Bentlalo
Wonke umntu unobuntu bolwazi, yindlela esiyiqonda ngayo indima yethu eyahlukileyo kuluntu ngokubhekiselele kwabanye. Ingaba kukho ukuhlala kwintlalo, inkcubeko okanye ubuzwe, inzala, iimpumelelo, okanye iinkolelo, abantwana bafumana ukuzikhukhumeza, ukuzixabisa kunye nokuzimela kwabo kwiindawo zabo zoluntu.
Ngoko, xa i-identities yabo yentlalo ishintshile ngokukhawuleza, isongelwa, okanye ibuzwa, akumangalisi ukuba umntwana angasengozini yokudandatheka.
Wonke umntu uhlukile
Akunabo bonke abantwana abafumana utshintsho okanye izinsongelo kwiimpawu zabo zentlalo baya kuba noxinzelelo. Kunoko, kucatshangelwa ukuba abo bachaza inani elincinci lezendima zentlalo basengozini yokuphucula uxinzelelo xa iqela lilahlekile okanye lisongelwa.
Umzekelo, umntwana ozibona nje ngokuba ngumdlali webhola lebhola ekhatywayo angase ahlaziyeke kwaye alahlekelwe yintlungu xa ehlutywa ngokukhawuleza kwaye akakwazi ukudlala ibhola ekhatywayo. Unokulahlekelwa yimo yakhe njengomdlali weenkwenkwezi, uchithe ixesha elincinci kunye nabalingani bakhe beqela kunye nabahlobo bakhe, kwaye ekugqibeleni angabona ukwehla ekuzithembekeni kwakhe, okuvula umnyango wokudandatheka .
Oku akuthethi ukuba umntwana akakwazi ukuvelisa ulwazi olutsha lwezentlalo, kodwa lugxininisa ukubaluleka kwendlela umntwana azijonga ngayo ngokubhekiselele kwihlabathi elikujikelezile.
Abantu Abasizungezile
Ukuze sibe nolwazi lwentlalo, sidinga abantu abasondelene nathi ukuqinisekisa okanye ukuphika. Ukuze uchonge ngokuthi "Umhlobo onguKelly omkhulu," uKelly kufuneka aqinisekise.
Abantu abakujikelezile banempembelelo ekuziphatheni kwethu kwentlalo kunye nendlela esiziva ngayo ngathi. Ukuba umntwana unamahloni kwaye uhoxisiwe , mhlawumbi abanye abantwana baya kuthatha ingqalelo kwiindawo zakhe zentlalo baze bamshiye bodwa, ngaloo ndlela beqinisekisa ubungqina bakhe bentlalo ngokuthi "lihlazo kwaye lihoxiswe." Kananjalo, akanakho ukwaneliseka kwintlalo yakhe yentlalo, uziva unesizungu, okanye udidekile ezama ukuhlukana naso.
Ukuxhasa Ubume Bakho Bentlalo
Njengomzali, unako ukuxhasa iimbopheleleko zoluntu lwakho ngokuvuma ukuba ngubani na obaluleke kuye. Zama ukuba ungagxininisa kakhulu nayiphi na indima inxaxheba yoluntu. Kunoko, mkhuthaze ukuba azame izinto ezintsha nezohlukeneyo, aze amkhumbule ezinye iindima ezibalulekileyo azidlalayo ebomini, njengendodakazi, umzukulu, udade, umzala, umfundi, ilungu lomphakathi, ummeli wesibini, ummelwane, njl.
Kungokwemvelo ukuba umntwana wakho azive edandathekile emva kokudumala okanye ukulahleka kobudlelwane obalulekileyo, kodwa ukuba uyaphawula ukuba unempawu zokudakumba , cela isiluleko kumntwana wezilwanyana okanye nabanye ababonelela ngempilo yengqondo .
Iimpawu zoxinzelelo
Ukuba umntwana wakho uqala ukulahlekelwa ngumdla kwimisebenzi awayeyithandayo, ukulala okungaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi kweqhelekileyo, enenkathazo ekugxileni emsebenzini wakhe wesikolo, ukutya okuninzi ngaphantsi kweqhelekileyo, ukubonisa iimvakalelo zokudakumba okanye ukuphelelwa ithemba, ukukhathazeka ngaphezu kokuqhelekileyo kunye / okanye ukuhlukanisa kwaye, ukuba ngaba kukho enye yale mpawu iqhubekile kwiiveki ezingaphezu kweebini, kusenokuba ixesha lokubonisana nodokotela wezilwanyana okanye ootitshala bezempilo yengqondo.
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