Unyango, Ukubuyiswa, kunye noLawulo lwexesha elide
Ukuba wena okanye umntu omthandayo unomngcipheko wobuntu (BPD), unokuzibuza ukuba kukho impiliso. Ngelishwa, kukho inkcazelo engafanelekanga apho. Ukongezelela, kunokuthatha ixesha elide ukuqonda imigqaliselo eyenziwa ngabagqirha.
Ukuqonda iMigqaliselo
Umngcipheko wobuntu obunobungozi uphathwe kwaye uphinde uhlaziywe. Nangona iingcali zempilo yengqondo zincinane zisebenzisa igama elithi "uphilisiwe," abantu abaninzi baphila okanye ubuncinane baneempawu zeengxaki zabo ezilawulwayo ukuze bakwazi ukuphila ubomi obuzalisekileyo.
Ukuqonda isigama-magama, kunokukunceda ukuthelekisa i-BPD kunye namanye amachiza. Unyango luyafumaneka, kwaye abantu abaninzi bayawufumana, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba umntu uya kuva ilizwi elithi "uphilisiwe."
Inkolelo yokuba Ukwelashwa akunakunceda iBPD
Enye into eqhelekileyo kakhulu yinto yokuba ukuphazamiseka komntu ongekho kumda awukwazi ukuphathwa. Ngethamsanqa, le ngqungquthela nje ayinyani.
Kwixesha elidlulileyo, iingcali zazikholelwa ukuba i-BPD ayizange iphendule kunyango. Nangona kunjalo, kwiminyaka embalwa edluleyo, uninzi lwezonyango olutsha lwe-BPD luye lwaphuhliswa njengoluphiko lwendlela yokuziphatha , oluye lwaboniswa ukuba lunempumelelo ekunciphiseni iimpawu ze-BPD. Amachiza aye waboniswa ukuba luncedo ekuphatheni ukuphazamiseka komntu ongenanto.
Ukubuyiselwa Kwenzeka
Ngaloo nto, ngaba oku kuthetha ukuba kukho ukunyanga komngcipheko wobuntu? Akunjalo. Ewe, kukho inamba yonyango olululo lwe-BPD. Ezi zonyango zingabangela ukunciphisa amanqaku amaninzi kubantu abathile ekupheleni kokonyango banokucingwa ukuba "bafunyenwe."
Enyanisweni, kukho ubungqina obonisa ukuba abantu abaninzi abafumene ukuba banesifo somngcipheko womntu banokulahlekelwa ukuxilongwa kwiminyaka embalwa kuba bengasayi kuhambelana nemigqaliselo. Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka nangaphandle kwonyango. Ukungahambi kakuhle kweengxaki zengxaki yomntu kubonakala kuyinto eqhelekileyo.
Ulawulo lwexesha elide
Kodwa, akubona wonke umntu obona ukunciphisa amanqaku amaninzi. Abantu abaninzi abafumana unyango lwe-humanline disorder bayaqhubeka benemiqondiso ethile, kodwa bafumane ukuba iimpawu zibe zibekezeleke ngakumbi, kwaye zibike ukuba zinako ukwenza ngcono kakhulu ubomi babo. Ngale ndlela, i-BPD iyafana, ngeendlela ezithile, kwisifo sikashukela. Ngonyango, isifo asihlali, kodwa iimpawu zilawulwa kakuhle kwixesha elide. Unokuva ukuthetha kwakho nge-"long-time control" kwaye oku kuthethwa rhoqo.
I-BPD kunye noTyango, Ukubuyiswa, kunye neNyango
Umgca wezantsi? Ayikho indlela yokwazi indlela umntu onomntu onenkathazo yomntu ongapheliyo uya kuphendulwa kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo zonyango ezikhoyo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho impela unyango lwe-BPD olusebenza ngokuphawulekayo kwaye lunokumisa ezininzi iimpawu kwabanye abantu. Yaye kwalabo abangasayi kubuyiselwa ngokupheleleyo kwi-disorder personality personality, unyango luncedo kakhulu.
Yintoni ongayenza Ukuba ufumanisa i-BPD
Ukuba ufumene i-BPD, kubalulekile ukuba ungakhathazeki malunga nokungabikho kwonyango okanye enye ingcaciso engalungile ekhoyo. Njengoko kuphawuliwe, i-misceragnosis iqhelekile.
Ukufumanisa intlapha yezinto ezilungileyo kubalulekile, kokubili ukuchonga ukuba ngaba unayo i-BPD, kwaye kukukunceda ukuphatha iimpawu ukuba wenza.
Kukho ukungqubana okukhulu phakathi kweemeko zempilo yengqondo. Ngokomzekelo, bacinga ukuba isiqingatha sabantu abaxilongwa nge-BPD nabo banengxaki yokukhathazeka okukhulu. Ukuphucula nokuphucula kuya kufuna ukuba ulawulo lweempawu ezahlukeneyo zeemeko zakho.
Thatha ixesha lokufunda malunga nemeko yakho kwaye ube ngummeli wakho ekunyamekeleni kwakho. Abanye abantu kufuneka bathethe udliwano-ndlebe nabancinci ngaphambi kokuba bafumane umntu onokubanceda ukulawula ingxaki yabo kwixesha elide.
Xa uphucula, uya kubhekana nesinye sezigqibo ezinzima kakhulu. Kufuneka nini ukuyeka unyango ? Impendulo iya kuhluka kumntu ngamnye.
Ukongezelela ekufundeni konke onokukwazi malunga nesifo sakho, qwa lasela izicwangciso zokuncedisa i-BPD . Uninzi lwezakhono zokuphikisana ezisetyenziselwa ukujongana ne-BPD zizakhono ezinokunceda nabani na, ngoko ke unokukunceda ukuba okanye ungaqhubeki uhambelana ne-BPD kwixesha elizayo.
UBPD kunye noBudlelwane beNtsapho
Xa sixoxela unyango lwe-BPD sisoloko sithetha ngabanye, kodwa ukuxilongwa kwe- BPD ilungu lentsapho lichaphazela onke amalungu kwaye kudala imingeni ekhethekileyo. Ukongeza kwiplani yokhathalela yendabuko, unyango lwentsapho lwe-BPD lunokunceda nje kuphela umntu ohlala neengxaki kodwa intsapho yonke.
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