Umbuzo: Ziziphi iimpawu zokudandatheka kwentsha ? Ndiyazi njani ukuba umntwana wam osiswini udimazekile?
Impendulo: Ukudandatheka phakathi kwentsha kudla ngokuba yingxaki engaziwayo. Ngelixa abazali becinga ukuba kubonakala nje buhlungu okanye ukunganakwa, ukuxinezeleka kwentsha kuninzi. Iyakwazi ukutshintshwa kwixesha elifutshane eliguquguqukayo kwiimvakalelo ezingapheliyo zokungenakunceda nokungaphumeleli.
Abazali bafanele baqaphele izinto ezidibene nabantwana abasengozini enkulu yokudandatheka kwengcinezelo.
Ziquka:
- ukuzijongela phantsi,
- ukulahlekelwa ngumthandayo,
- iingxabano zentsapho,
- iingxaki nabahlobo okanye ontanga,
- isifo esingapheliyo,
- zobungqingili
- kunye nentsha enentsapho yembali yokudakumba.
Abazali bafanele bajonge iimpawu zokubandezeleka kwentsha:
- Utshintsho kwipatheni yokutya yeselula, njengokwenyuka okanye ukwanda kokutya.
- Utshintsho kwipatheni yokulala yeselula, njengobunzima bokulala ebusuku.
- Ukusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi okanye utywala, njengokusetyenziswa rhoqo kwegayibhi okanye inambuzane .
- Ukungabi nantlupheko nokukhathazeka
- Imiva yokungenanto kunye netyala
- Ukungabi nentshiseko kunye nokukhuthaza
- Ingqiqo enkulu yokungathembeki, ityala okanye ukungonwabi.
- Ukukhathala okanye ukungabikho kwamandla, ukulala lonke ixesha kunye nobunzima bokuvuka ekuseni-nangaphezulu kunokuba uziphatha ngokuqhelekileyo kwentsha.
- Unzima ukugxila
- Ukukhawuleza okanye ukukhala rhoqo
- Iingcamango zokufa okanye ukuzibulala
- Ukunciphisa ukusebenza kwesikolweni, kunokubonwa njengeproduct yezinye iimpawu zokudandatheka kwengcinezelo kodwa isoloko enye yeempawu zokuqala abazali abazibona.
- Ukurhoxiswa okanye ukutshintsha kwabahlobo
- Ukuhoxiswa kwimisebenzi yentsapho kunye nemihla ngemihla
- Ukungabi nomdla kwixesha elizayo.
- Utshintsho oluphawulekayo ebomini okanye ekuziphatheni ezifana nokunyamekela okukhulu okanye ukucasula, kubandakanya intombazana enokuthi:
- sithandwa ngumsindo obushushu obunobundlobongela,
- ephazamiseka lula,
- kwaye iyakhathazeka, ihlaziye okanye inenzondo.
Ukuba ubona ezi zibonakaliso zokudandatheka kwintombazana yakho, nantsi ezinye izibonelelo ezinokukunceda ufumane uncedo lwakho olutsha:
- Izinto Ezifanele Uyenze Ukuba Ucinga Ngomntwana Wakho Uxinezelekile
Ukuba ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho ovelele uxinezelekile, ungawunaki. Ukuba wakho umntwana usemva, ukhona izinto onokuzenza kunye namanyathelo onokuyithatha okuya kukunceda umntwana wakho ukuba anqobe ukudandatheka. Ukuba kuvela ukuba akaxinezelekanga, umbonise ukuba unakekele ngokwaneleyo ukuyihlola. Ngayiphi indlela, wena kunye nentsha yakho yokuphumelela. Inqaku elixinezelekileyo eliseneminyaka eli-10 lunezinto ezinokuthi uyenze ukuba ucinga ukuba wakho umntwana uyaxinezeleka. - Iinkqubo Zonyango Kubantwana Abahluphekileyo Ukuxinezeleka
Ngezinye iintsholongwane ezinengxaki yokudakumba zifuna inqanaba loncedo nenkxaso enokufumaneka kuphela kwonyango lwangoku, unyango lokuhlala okanye inkqubo yesibhedlele. Oku akusiyo inyathelo lokuqala lokuthabatha nentombazana ecinezelekileyo kodwa kufuneka kwiimeko ezithile ukubonelela indawo ekhuselekileyo, ehleliweyo apho umntwana uselula kwaye afunde indlela yokuphatha kakuhle le ngxaki. Funda kabanzi malunga nale nkqubo kule nqaku yokucindezelwa kwentsha . - Ubungozi bokuxinezeleka okungeyiyo intsha
Xa ukudandatheka kwintsholongwane engatshatyalaliswa, imiphumo ingaba nzima, kwaye kwezinye iimeko, ibulawe. Njengayezinye izifo, ukuxinezeleka okungaphendulwanga kuyaqhubeka kuqhubeka ngakumbi kwaye umntwana osemva oqhubeka ehlupheka. Funda oko ungakuphepha ngokufumana umntwana wakho uncedo .
Indlela Ukudandatheka Kwakudala Kubonisa Ukuhlukana Kwenani Lokuxinezeleka Kwabantwana
Njengabantu abadala kunye nentsha ebudeni bobubanzi obuhlukeneyo, kukho amaxesha ahlukeneyo kwiimpawu zokudakumba - bangenza ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Akumangalisi, kuba abadala kunye nabaselula benza izinto ezahlukeneyo ngokuqhelekileyo. Ezi ntlukwano kwiimpawu zingaphaya umzali ekucingeni ukuba umntwana wakho osulelayo usexinezelekile, ngoko ke uqaphelisise:
- Abaselula baya kuzihlukanisa nabazali kodwa basenokufuna ukuba nabahlobo, ngelixa abantu abadala bezama ukuzihlukanisa ngokupheleleyo. Abaselula banokufuna ubuhlobo obutsha kwaye baqalise ukuxhoma kunye nesihlwele esitsha.
- Iintsholongwane 'aziyi kuvakalelwa' kwaye zizifo ezinjengeentloko kunye neziqu.
- Intsha ayiyi kuyenza kakuhle ngokugxeka okanye ukuhluleka. Le nxalenye yesizathu sokuba umntwana wakho ocinezelekileyo angakukhusela njengoko bengenakukwazi ukujongana nokuncitshiswa. Uninzi oluphumelele kakhulu luya kufaka iinjongo eziphezulu kuzo kwaye zixinezeleke xa zingazifihli.
- Bavame ukuba ngumsindo obuninzi kwaye bazaliswe ngumntwana osemtsha endaweni yokudabuka njengabantu abadala.