Ukwandisa uluhlu lwezinketho kunika inkxaso ngoncedo
Nangona uyazi ukuba yinto efanelekileyo yokwenza, isigqibo sokufuna uncedo lwezobuchule kwintsholongwane yakho enokukhathazeka ingaba nzima. Into yokuqala okuya kufuneka ukuba uyenze njengomzali ukuvuma ukuba kukho ingxaki. Kuphela ke ngoko unako ukwenza ukhetho olungcono kukunceda umntwana wakho anqobe naluphi na ubunzima engabhekana nayo.
Nangona kukho ukwandiswa kweenkqubo ezininzi zonyango ezifumanekayo kubantwana abathintekayo, kunzima ukukwazi ukuba ngubani ofanelekileyo kumntwana wakho. Isiqalo sakho sokuqala sinokukhetha ukhetho "olulula" -ukungaguquleli ubomi ngokugqithiseleyo-kodwa kungenakuze kube yinto efanelekileyo. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba wenzeni, sebenza nomcebisi womntwana wakho, ugqirha, kunye nodokotela ukuba uqikelele ubuchule kunye neengxaki zenketho nganye ekhoyo njengento engqinelanayo nangothando nangokunokwenzeka.
Ukuthetha ngokubanzi, iinkqubo zonyango zinikezelwa ngokusesikweni, ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba ahlale ekhaya, okanye kwiprogram yokuhlala yokuhlala.
Iintlobo zeeNkqubo zoTyango zonyango
Iiprogram zezigulane zilabo banikezela unyango ngelixa umntwana wakho eqhubeka ehlala ekhaya ebusuku. Ezi khetho zihlala zilungele ukuqala ukuba wena kunye neqela lakho lokucebisa likholelwa ngokupheleleyo ukuba:
- Umntwana osemtsha akayi mngcipheko yena ngokwakhe okanye abanye ekhaya.
- Intsapho ye-dynamics ayiyi kuphazamisana nokukwazi ukutshintsha iingxaki zakhe.
Intake iqala ngokuphonononga kwengqondo , equlethwe ngokulandelelana kweemvavanyo zengqondo okanye ze-neuropsychological. Umntu wangaphambili unceda ukufumanisa ubunzima beemvakalelo, zokuziphatha okanye zokufunda ezinokubangela ukuba yingxaki, ngelixa i-final ifuna ukuchonga ukuba kukho inxalenye yegazi engachaza, ubuncinane inxalenye, yokuziphatha komntwana okanye iinkqubo zokucinga.
Ngokuxhomekeka kwimiba yemiba ebhekane nayo, iqela lakho lingancomela unyango ngamnye, intsapho okanye iqela.
Kwezinye iimeko, ukhetho luya kugunyazwa ngokomthetho ukuba umntwana usebanjwe okanye anetyala lolwaphulo-mthetho. Ukuba unyango luyalelwe, uya kufuneka usebenze nomcebisi otyunjelwe yinkundla okanye igosa ukuba usebenze iinkcukacha zonyango (ngezinye iincwadi ezibizwa ngokuba yi-program diversion). Unokufuna ukwenza njalo ngoncedo lommeli ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyakwazi ukufumana uncedo olungcono.
Kubantwana abasenkingeni esikolweni okanye abasengozini yokuphuma, unyango lunokubandakanya ukuhlolisiswa kwezikolo ezingcono ezikwazi ukujongana nokuhlangabezana neemfuno zabantwana abathintekayo.
Iintlobo zeeNkqubo zoNyango zoLuntu
Iiprogram zokuhlala zibonelela ngoncedo lwexesha elipheleleyo kwindawo ekhuselekileyo yokuhlala. Olu hlobo lwenkqubo lufanelekileyo kakhulu kubafana abanokuziphatha okunobungozi, unyango lwabo oluphululelwe unyango luye lwangaphumelelanga, okanye lubeka umngcipheko kumntu othile ekhaya.
Nangona ukubeka umntwana osemva kwiprogram yokuhlala kungabangela ukhetho olubalulekileyo kunomzali onokuyenza, lungaba lunobulumko. Iingxaki zengqondo zentshazana zihlala ziphazamiseka kwiwebhu yeempembelelo ezingqongileyo-ekhaya, esikolweni-ezinokusenza ukulungiswa komntu ukuba kunzima kunzima.
Ngokukhupha umntwana wakho kummandla, umntwana unokukwazi ukuhlukanisa kunye nokujongana neengxaki ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka, isigwebo, okanye ukuphazamiseka.
Iinkqubo zonyango zokuhlala zingachazwa ngokubanzi ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:
- Amakhaya eqela awanika unyango lweeyure ezingama-24, ulawulo, kunye nenkxaso kwisimo esifana nekhaya. Uninzi lwalezi zibonelelo zikhuselekileyo kwaye zikhangela isheke / khangela iinkqubo zalabo abanesikolo okanye banikwe ikhefu. Bokuba yinto enhle ukuba umntwana usemngciphekweni wokubaleka, unikeze ukhuseleko kunye nokulawula ngaphandle kokwenza umntwana azive ngathi "usejele." Abanye baquka ukunikwa kwengcebiso njengentsingiselo yentsapho njengenxalenye yonyango olulungisiweyo.
- Izibonelelo zonyango zokuhlala ziqhutyelwa kwindawo elawulwayo, ehlala yinklinikhi. Ziye zenzelwe ukubonelela ngononophelo oluncinci olutsha oluneenkathalo eziphezulu zokuziphatha okanye iingxaki. Ezi zingabandakanya iinkqubo zotywala kunye neziyobisi, ukunyamekelwa kwendawo yokuhlala, izibonelelo zokunyamekela, okanye iinkampu ze- teen- boot (ezibandakanya indawo engaphandle, indawo yangaphandle kunye nokusebenza komzimba).
ILizwi
Iimfuno zomntwana ngamnye zizodwa kwaye zizodwa. Xa ukhetha ukhetho olululo olungcono kumntwana wakho, jolisa kulawo maziko anokuhlangabezana nezidingo ezithile. Ngethuba kungekho nto inokuthi ibe yinye indawo ephawula zonke iibhokisi ezifunayo, ukusebenza kunye neqela elinika iingcebiso kunokukunceda wenze ukhetho olufanelekileyo kunye noluncedo.
Unokwenza okanye ungenako ukubandakanya umntwana wakho kwisigqibo, kodwa uya kuqinisekiswa ukuba umntwana wakho ufutshane kunye nexesha elide-oko kukuthi, ukuphucula nokuphuhlisa ube ngumntu omdala-osebenza kakuhle.
> Umthombo:
> DeAngelis, T. "Iinketho ezingcono kubantwana abathintekayo." Umbhalo we-American Psychological Association. 2011; 42 (11): 69.