I-COPD igcine Ubomi bam Mama
Ubomi obulahlekile kwiCOPD
Kwinqanaba elinye leli bali, uDonna, ilungu le-forum ye-.com Smoking Cessation inkxaso yabelana ngembali ebuhlungu ngayo umhlaza wesifo somdlavuza wamaphaphu owawuthatha ubomi bukayise.
Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa nje ezimbalwa emva koko, uDonna kunye nentsapho yakhe babhekene nokufa okuhlobene nokubhema kwintsapho. Ngelo xesha kwakungunina owafa ngeCOPD , nangona akazange atshe (ngqo) ngosuku ebomini bakhe.
Kubonakala kunokuba ukuhlala kwikhaya lokubhema iminyaka emininzi kwimpembelelo enkulu ekuphuhlisweni kweCOPD ekugqibeleni yabulala unina kaDonna.
Siyabonga ngokuxelela ibali lakho kunye nathi apha Donna. Isifo esinxulumene nokubhema sisona sizathu esinokuthinteka kwihlabathi namhlanje, kwaye ndiyazi ukuba iakhawunti yakho iya kwenza umehluko kubo bonke abayifundayo.
Evela kuDonna:
Umama wafa ngoLwesine, ngoJanuwari 14, ngo-1: 30 ntambama. Ndasikelelwe ukuba ndilapho xa edlula. Udadewethu wandibiza ngoLwesithathu, wandicela ukuba ndihlale naye kunye noMama de kube "ixesha lifike". Andizange ndicinge kabini ... Ndangena kwisithuthi sam kwaye ndaqhuba ihora elingasentla ngasendaweni yabazali bam.
Isimo somama sasishuba kakhulu kwiveki ephelileyo, kunye nabahlengikazi baka-Hospice bamangaliswa ngokuthanda kukaMama ukuba baphile kwiintsuku ezimbalwa zokugqibela. Wayengathandabuzeki ngokubuhlungu, kwaye umoya ngamnye wawuthatyathwa ngenxa yeentlungu ezinkulu.
Kukho iimpawu zokuphela kokuphila ezivela ekuphelelweni kwezintso, kodwa ezo zeCOPD zingenakunakwenzeka ... Umama wayiguqa kwaye wayiphosa intloko yakhe ngenxa yokuphefumula. Ngethuba leentsuku ezimbini zokugqibela, xa egule kwi-coma, umongikazi wase-Hospice wathatha ityhujini yakhe kwaye wayibeka emlonyeni wakhe. Wayelahlekelwa amandla okuphefumula ngeempumlo zakhe.
Umongikazi we-Hospice usijongile waza wathi, "Kungaba ubusuku okanye ngomso. Ndiphantse ndilingeke ukuba ndihlale apha, ndiqinisekile ukuba uya kusihlwa." Saxelele ukuba siya kulungile, kwaye washiya ngokungahambi.
Ndachitha ubusuku apho. Udadewethu wayelele kwindawo ehamba phambili ecaleni lesibhedlele esibhedlele, ndaza ndalala etaweni ezimbini kwigumbi. Ndandichitha ubusuku phakathi kokulala okungenasiphelo kunye nokuvuvukala, xa ndandifuna ukukhangela embhedeni ndibukele umama wam "ngongoma" entloko njengoko wayenzima.
Amaphupha ahlanjululwa yinto yokubuthwa ndilale. Kwiphupha elinye, umama wayiphonsa iingubo, wayihlalisa imilambo yokulala, wayibopha imilenze yakhe emincinci ecaleni kombhede ukuba ndikhangele.
"Uyazi," wakhala, "Ndicinga ukuba ndiza kuphuma apha namhlanje."
Wandula ke wakhawula, kwaye ilifu lokungaqiniseki lishintshe phezu kweempawu zalo. Wayegubha, waqhayisa i-oxygen tube kwaye wathi,
"Hayi, ungakhathazeki, ndicinga ukuba ndiza kulala."
Yaye yalala phantsi kwakhona, yazigubungela, yatshintshela i-oxygen tube yayo, yaza yaqalisa kwakhona i-comatose state. Ndaphakamisela ukubona umama ogxekayo, ukulala, kwaye ndayigubha. Iphupha lalibonakala linyani.
Ukutshatyalaliswa kwasemini kwakungeke kwenzeke ngokukhawuleza.
Njengoko imini iqhubekile, ukuphefumula kukaMama kwakungezantsi kwaye kungabi nzulu, kunye nexesha eliphakathi kokuphefumula ixesha elide kwaye lide.
Ekugqibeleni, emva kokuphefumula okude, akukho phefumulo.
Kwaphelile.
Udadewethu waya ekhitshini waza wachaza ugwayi. Ndema ekhoneni elingasemva, kwaye ngamehlo owomileyo ndiziva ndiqala ukukhala. Andizange ndiziva ndedwa njengoko ndenza umhla wam umzali oseleyo. Ngoku ndiyedwa yedwa ehlabathini.
Akukho namnye kuthi, unokuqiniseka ngokugcwele, ukugqiba ixesha kunye nendlela esiza kugqiba ngayo ubomi bethu. Umama wayengekho. Akazange akhethe ukufa kwe-COPD, kwaye akazange akhethe ukutshaya ... Ukufa kwakhe kwisifo esihlobene nokubhema kwakubangelwa ngumsi wesibini ovela kubaba.
Ngolu buhlungu obuhle entliziyweni yam, ndincincikile ukuba akabi.
Akasekho buhlungu.
Kukho ezinye izinto esinokuzilawula. Siyakwazi ukulawula ukuba okanye asiyi kubhema siguba. Singakwazi ukulawula ukutshatyalaliswa kwethu kokubhema komsi. Siyakwazi ukubambelela kumalungu ethu omthetho ngemithetho eqinile ngokuphathelele iimveliso zecuba, kwimithetho eqinisekisa ilungelo lethu lokucocela umoya, kwaye uqale ukubiza ukuchithwa ngokucacileyo kweruba.
Nceda ungenzi mpazamo, ityhafi ibulala iindlela ezinobungozi . Ndineminyaka engama-36 ubudala, kwaye ngezolo, ndilahlekelwe ngabazali bam phakathi kweenyanga ezili-10, kunye nabo babulawa ngecuba.
Ndibone izithuba eziliqela kwi-forum ye-.com Smoking Cessation inkxaso apho i-quitting new ifunyenwe khona, ngaphakathi kwamagama apha, ukukwazi ukuyeka ukuyeka enye imini.
Nceda, nceda uqonde, into olwayo akuyona nje umlutha. Kukufa okuthethile ophepheyo. Ngokungabhemi, unciphisa umngcipheko wakho womhlaza, we-COPD, ye-emphysema, ye-macular degeneration, yesifo senhliziyo, ukujikeleza kwegazi okukhawulelweyo ... Uluhlu luqhubeka kunye nangaphezulu.
Xa nditshiza, ubuxoki obukhulu ndandixelela ukuba izifo ezinxulumene nokutshaya zenzeka kwabanye abantu . Ewe, abo "abanye abantu" babengabantu ababini abathandayo kakhulu kweli hlabathi. NguTata noMama. Ndibone ubungqina bokufa ezimbini eziya kundenza ndide ndifike ixesha lam.
Ubabalo lwam osindisayo ekushiyekeni kwakuzo iifom, kunye nabantu abaye bayeka phambi kwam, kunye nabantu abaye bayeka kunye nam. Ngokwenene, ndinomvuzo wam kuTerry kunye noomodareyitha namalungu apha. Ngaphandle kwabo, andizange ndiyeke. Ukuba andizange ndiyeke, ukufa okubuhlungu kwabazali bam kuya kuba kukufa kwam.
Kwaye ke, nditshintshe ikusasa lam. Ndicela ukuba wenze okufanayo. Ndikunzima ukuba ungathathi ithuba lokuba "omnye umntu".
Nceda, ukuba ucinga ngokukhanyisa kwakhona namhlanje ebusuku, ungenzi. Sebenzisa izixhobo apha. Yilwela indlela yakho ngokuyeka. Ncoma ezo mpupheko ezicocekileyo, zikhusele, kwaye zithande abo unabo ngenxa yento enokubaluleka ngayo.
Ungabathuthuli abathandekayo bakho ngokufa njengoko ndichazwe kulo myalezo. Phula ngaphandle kwenkunkuma ye-nicotine, kwaye utshintshe i-destiny yakho, nayo. Awusoze wazisola xa ufika "kwelinye icala". Ndiyathembisa.
~ Donna
Ukuba usachumayo nceda sebenzisa izibonelelo ezingezantsi ukuze uqalise intloko kwinkqubo yakho yokuyeka.
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