Iikhowudi ezili-12 zezoNxila ezingabonakaliyo kunye no-Al-Anon
Ngokuzixhasa kunye nokunciphisa iminikelo yangaphandle, amaqela angama-12 akhusela isakhiwo sobambiswano kunye neziseko ezisisiseko zokomoya. I-Tradition 7 yoTywala engaziwayo (AA) ithi, "Iqela ngalinye lifanele lizithobe ngokupheleleyo, liye linciphise ngaphandle."
Ukuzixhasa
Enye yeenqununu zamaqela angama-12 enkxaso inkxaso kukuba ilungu ngalinye lijongene nokubuyiselwa kwakhe.
Inxalenye yokuqala yeNkolelo yesi-7 yenza ukuba kucace ukuba uxanduva luya kubalandeli beqela ngalinye lendawo njengoko lidlula ibhasikidi ngeminikelo yokuhlawula irente kunye nokugcina ithala leencwadi.
Ukuba iqela liqokelela ngaphezu kokufunekayo ukuhlangabezana neendleko zalo, iqela liyakwenza inxaxheba kwi-World Service Office, elandela le nkcubeko ngokuvuma ngaphandle kweminikelo yangaphandle. Nangona iminikelo enjalo iwile kwiminyaka yamuva , ibalulekile ekuncedeni ukuthwala umyalezo emhlabeni jikelele.
Ukulahla Iminikelo yangaphandle
Inxalenye yesibini yale nkcubeko idibanisa umba wobudlelwane obungabandakanyekanga kunye nemibandela engaphandle okanye ukungqubuzana okungavela ngokuvuma "iminikelo yangaphandle." Ukuba loo mnikelo yamukelwa iqela kwaye amalungu ayo angaziva enyanzelekile ukuba enze uhlobo oluthile lokunikezela kumntu okanye inhlangano eyenza umnikelo.
Ukunciphisa le mivuzo igcina ubudlelwane obuzimeleyo ngaphandle kweempembelelo zangaphandle. Ikwaphula kwakhona imfuno yokugxotha rhoqo inkxaso-mali kunye nabaxhaswa nguRhulumente.
Njengoko i-intanethi yaba yinxalenye yobomi bemihla ngemihla, amalungu amaqela angama-12 aqhelekileyo aqala ukudibanisana ndawonye kwi-intanethi yokuxhasa.
Uninzi lwamaqela ase-intanethi (kodwa awanakho konke) akwazi ukuhambelana kwiNkolelo yesi-7 kwaye ahlale exhasa, egcina ukukhangisa kwangaphandle kwiiwebhusayithi zabo nakwiintlanganiso zabo ze-intanethi.
Kuthatha uxanduva
I-AA ilungu le-Althea lichaza amanqaku amaninzi alo masiko kumnxila , iqela, kunye ne-AA ngokubanzi. Abaninzi beza ku-AA kwinqanaba elisezantsi, kungekho msebenzi okanye indawo yokuhlala. Akukho ntlawulo efunekayo kwi-AA, kodwa njengoko unxilisayo ehlamba kwaye eqala ukwenza inkqubela kwezinye iindawo zobomi bakhe, unako ukubeka umnikelo kwibhakethi kwintlanganiso. Yenza uxanduva lokuqala (ezininzi) ukuba azikhathalele kwaye abuyisele kwiqela.
Abo ba-AA abaye kwiprogram yeeminyaka bangacinga ukuba bancedise ngokwaneleyo kwaye bashiya umthwalo wokuba uxanduva lwezemali kubaxhamli. Abaququzeleli be-AA baqonda le nto kunye neNkolelo yesi-7 ikhusela inkqubo ngaphandle kokuncedisa ngaphandle. Le nkqubo ibonisa indlela umntu onxilisayo owayengenakuxanduva lokujongana noluntu waba nexanduva.
Ukwandisa iSithunzi
Isidima selungu sakhiwa ngokumvumela ukuba anakekele iimfuno zeqela. Ilungu le-AA uTigger uthi, "Kwangexesha elide abanye bethu 'babenxilisayo.' Abanye abantu babecinga ukuba sasifuna kuphela ukunikezelwa kwempilo ebomini.
Mhlawumbi abanye bethu bekunjalo, kodwa akukho. Ngoku kunye neepennies zethu, sinceda ukugcina yethu ingqiqo . Sidinga kuphela ukuzithemba thina kunye nomnye ngezipho ezixabisekileyo: isidima kunye nokuzithemba. "
U-AA ilungu le-AAA uthi, "Asizange sithathe imali ngaphandle, kungakhathaliseki ukuba sinomusa okanye sinenjongo enobani.