Imindeni Ephila Ngomnxila Akunjalo
U-Anon, iqela lokuxhasa intsapho ye-Alcoholics engaziwa, yiprogram ye-12 kwenzalo kulabo abahlala noxinzelelo ekhaya. Isimiso sokuvula okanye sokwamkelwa sivame ukufundwa ekuqaleni kwintlanganiso nganye njengendlela yokwamkela abafikayo kwaye ukhumbuze abanye abathathi-nxaxheba beqela ukuba kutheni iqela likhoyo.
Umngane onokuqala uthathwa njengomntu obaluleke kakhulu kwiintlanganiso.
Kwiintlanganiso ezininzi zoTywala kunye ne-Al-Anon, amalungu afundwa kwiSahluko 5 sencwadi ethi " Utywala Ongaziwayo ," owaziwa ngokuba yiNcwadi eNkulu. Isahluko sinesihloko esithi "Indlela Esebenza ngayo" kwaye iquka amanyathelo angama-12 kwenkqubo.
I-Al-Anon yamkelekile okanye iValent Statement
Ngaphantsi kwimeko yokuvula okanye eyamkelekileyo idla ngokufundwa ngusihlalo kwiintlanganiso ezininzi ze-Al-Anon Family Group. Ichazela abantu abatsha ukuba bangalindela ukuphumeza njani kwiprogram kunye nokuya kwiintlanganiso.
Siyakwamkela kule ntla nganiso ye-Al-Anon Family , kwaye nethemba uya kufumana kule nxaxheba uncedo kunye nobuhlobo esinelungelo lokuzonwabisa.
Thina esihlala, okanye siphila, ngxaki yokusela utywala kukuqonda ukuba mhlawumbi abanye bambalwa. Nathi, sinesizungu kwaye sithintekile kodwa ku-Al-Anon sifumanisa ukuba akukho nto ikhona yithemba kwaye sinokukwazi ukufumana ukwaneliseka kunye nolonwabo, nokuba utywala uselisela okanye awunako.
Siyanikhuthaza ukuba uzame inkqubo yethu. Incede abaninzi banokufumana izicombululo ezibangele ukuthula. Kuninzi kuxhomekeka kwisimo sethu sengqondo, kwaye njengoko sifunda ukubeka ingxaki yethu kwindlela yokujonga ngayo, siyifumana ilahlekelwa amandla ayo okulawula iingcamango zethu kunye nobomi bethu.
Imeko yentsapho iya kuphucula njengoko sisebenzisa i-Al-Anon imibono. Ngaphandle kokuba uncedo olungokomoya oluphila nomnxila lukhulu kuninzi lwethu. Ukucinga kwethu kuphazamiseka ngokuzama ukunyanzela izisombululo, kwaye siyacaphuka kwaye singenangqiqo ngaphandle kokwazi.
Inkqubo ye-Al-Anon isekelwe kwiiNqanaba ezili-12 eziTywala zokuTywala ezingaziwayo , esizama ngazo, ngokuncinci, ngenye imini ngexesha, ukufaka izicelo kwiimpilo zethu kunye nezivakalisi zethu kunye noMthandazo weSerenity. Ukunxibelelana ngothando phakathi kwamalungu kunye nokufunda imihla ngemihla ngeencwadi ze-Al-Anon kusenza silungele ukufumana isipho esingenasisiseko sokuzincama.
U-Anon ngumntu ongaziwayo. Yonke into ekhankanywe apha, kwintlanganiso yeqela kunye nelungu-ilungu, kufuneka ligcinwe ngokuzithemba. Ngaloo ndlela sinokuziva sizikhululekile ukuthetha izinto ezisemqondweni nasezintliziyweni zethu, kuba sisinceda njani omnye e-Al-Anon.
Ukuqulunqa kwiiNqanaba ezilishumi elinesibini
U-Anon uchaza ngokwabo njengentsebenziswano ezimeleyo ngenjongo yokunceda izihlobo kunye nabahlobo babantu abaneengxaki zotywala. Le ngqungquthela inikeza inkcazelo ngokubanzi.
I-Al-Anon Iintsapho zoLuntu zibudlelwane bezihlobo kunye nabahlobo benxilisayo ababelana ngamava abo, amandla kunye nethemba ukuze bazisombulule iingxaki zabo ezifanayo. Siyakholelwa ukuba ukutywala utywala kukugulisa intsapho kwaye ukutshintsha isimo sengqondo kunokunceda ekubuyiseni.
U-Anon akahambelani naluphi na unqulo, inkolo, inhlangano yezopolitiko, inhlangano okanye isikhungo. Akubandakanyeki nakuphi na ukuphikisana, kwaye ayivumeli okanye ayichasani nayiphi na isizathu. Akukho zizathu zobulungu. U-Anon uzixhasa ngokuzixhasa ngokuzithandela.
U-Anon unenjongo enye yokunceda iintsapho zezidakwa. Senza oku ngokuziqhelanisa neZinyathelo ezilishumi elinesibini, ngokuwamkela nokuthuthuzela iintsapho zezidakwa, kunye nokunika ingqiqo nokukhuthaza abantu abanxilisayo.
Imithombo:
I-Al-Anon Family Headquarters, Inc. "Isiphakamiso sokuValiswa kweNkcazo." Inkqubo evunyelweyo yeNkomfa 2016.