Ukuxhaswa kukubaluleke kangakanani ekubuyiseleni
Iinkqubo ezilishumi elinambini zeNkqubo yokuPhuza i-Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) yindlela yokubuyisela isisiseko esingokomoya sokubuyiswa komntu siqu, esasetyenziselwa kuphela izidakwa kodwa ngabahlobo kunye nosapho lwabo kwi-Al-Anon naseAlateen.
Abantu abaye bamkela i-Step Step Manifesto baye bafumanisa ukuba awaniki nje kuphela iindlela zokuyeka ukusela kodwa uzinike isakhelo esakhiweyo ukuba siphila ubomi obunemveliso nobunelisayo.
KwiiNqanaba ezilishumi elinesibini, isinyathelo sesithathu singabhekiswa ngokubhekiselele kwindlela yokuzinikela. Iqinisekisa ukuba ixesha lokuphila liza kufezwa kuphela ngokwenza isigqibo sokuguqula ukuthanda kwakho ukuya phezulu. Izinyathelo ezintathu zichazwe kwiZinyathelo Ezilishumi elinesibini njengoko "(ukwenza) isigqibo sokuguqula ukuthanda kwethu kunye nokuphila kwethu ekunakekeleni uThixo njengoko saqonda."
Isiseko seZishumi elinesibini
Nangona i-AA ichaza inkqubo yayo njengengenayo inkolo, ixhomekeke ngokukodwa kwiinkolelo zamandla aphezulu, awayebizwa ngokuba yi-colloquially as God. Oku akuthethi ukuba nguThixo ongumKristu kodwa kunoko nawuphi na umntu ophezulu ongokomoya onokubeka kuyo ukholo lwakhe.
Nangona i-AA imele ijikeleze iikota ezintathu zeenkqubo zonke zokubuyisela iziyobisi kunye neziyobisi, loo mqondo kaThixo, esetyenziswa ngokuqhelekileyo kwisicatshulwa, unokwenza abanye abantu bangakhululeki. Ngoxa i-AA yamkela ngokucacileyo abantu bazo zonke iinkolelo zonqulo kunye neenkonzo, iziqendu kunye neembonakaliso zisekelwe ngokusemthethweni kwizithethe zakwaYuda-zamaKristu apho uqobo lwamoya luba ngumntu ("Yena") kwaye igama elithi "umthandazo" libonisa uxhamlwane olusondeleyo kumandla aphezulu.
Kwalabo abangakholelwa kuThixo okanye abangenakuxhamla ngeenkolelo ezisiseko, zikhona ezinye iinkqubo zokubuyisela ezinokuthi zisebenze kwaye zifanelekileyo ngakumbi.
NgeSigaba Sithathu
Amalungu e-AA kunye nezinye iiprogram zeNqanaba elinesibini zizama ukufumana indlela entsha ngokuvuma ngokomoya nokuvuma ukuba yedwa ayinakukwazi ukulawula umlutha wabo.
Nangona uhambo luqala xa umntu ehamba ukuya kwintlanganiso yakhe yokuqala, ukuhlaziywa ngokwenene kuqala xa isigqibo senziwe ukuba "siyeke" kwaye sivumele amandla amakhulu ukuba athathe.
Kungaba yinto enzima ukuyenza, ingakumbi kwinkcubeko apho abantu bafundiswa khona ukuba bayingcali yabo, kodwa baninzi bayathuthuzelwa kwaye bahlaziywe xa bethatha ngokunyanisekileyo kwiNyathelo yesithathu. Ngokusebenza ngaphakathi kwintsebenziswano, kunokuba yedwa, Isinyathelo sesithathu sivumela umntu ukuba amkele ukholo njengendlela yokufezekisa into engenakwenzeka.
Ekugqibeleni, ngaphandle kokholo, akukho mntu-ongeyotywala okanye nawuphi na umntu onamathele kwimeko engonwabi-unokuthatha le ntshukumo. Ukukholelwa kunye nokwamkela amandla angaphezulu yinto yesenzo sokuzinikela kunye nesibindi.
Xa sifinyelela kwiNyathelo yokuqala (ukungena kwamandla) kunye neNyathelo yesiBini (ukuvuma ukuba kukho, inene, amandla angaphezulu), Inyathelo lesithathu lihamba ngaphezu kwamagama kwizenzo. Ivula umnyango kuwo wonke amanyathelo kwaye ivumela umntu ukuba aqale inkqubo yokuzibonakalisa ngokwakhe ( Isinyathelo sesine ) kwaye avume uhlobo lwesenzo esingalunganga ( Inyathelo lesihlanu ).