Abantu baziqhelanisa ngezizathu ezininzi, kodwa injongo ekujoliswe kuyo kukuzisa ingqondo yesikhashana. Ingxaki yokukhawuleza yileyondlela; ukukhululeka okwethutyana, kwaye ekugqibeleni kuthathelwe indawo kunye nexhala malunga nokuba ufuna ukwenzela ntoni.
Ukuba unengxaki yokukhathazeka kwentlalo (SAD) , mhlawumbi unqanda ngenxa yokwesaba ukungafuni okanye ukuhluleka.
Mhlawumbi uyeka ukwenza iifowuni , ukulibala ukuxoxa ngezinto ezinzima emsebenzini, okanye emva kokucwangcisa ukutyunjwa kwezempilo, iinwele, okanye nayiphi na enye into ebandakanya ukusebenzisana nabantu.
Ngelishwa, izisombululo eziqhelekileyo zokumisa izinto azisebenzi kule miba.
Ukuphula imisebenzi emikhulu ukuya kwiincinci ezincinci akusebenzi ngokupheleleyo xa konke okufuneka ukwenze kwenza umnxeba. Ukuba uchitha ixesha emsebenzini uzama ukuxazulula ingxaki ngokwakho ngenxa yokuba ungafuni ukubuza umsebenza naye umbuzo, akukho mali yokucwangcisa okanye inhlangano iya kunceda.
Unokuhlangabezana njani nokugweba ukubangelwa yinkxalabo yentlalo?
Okokuqala, qaphela ukuba ukulinda ixesha elingcono lokujongana nabanye akusisisombululo. Ukulinda kungenza izinto zibe zibi nakakhulu. Ubudlelwane bomntu buya kuhlupheka xa iingxaki zingakhange ziqwalaselwe ekuqaleni. Imiba yomsebenzi inokukhuliswa xa ungaceli uncedo. Ukuba akukho sizathu esivakalayo sokuyeka ukuthetha nomntu, ngoko kulungele ukuyenza ngokukhawuleza.
Ziziphi ezinye zezizathu onokucinga ukuba kungcono ukulinda?
- Ucinga: "Ukuba ndibiza ngoku ngoku, unokuba ngumatasa. Kungcono ukulinda iyure njengoko mhlawumbi ixesha elidlulileyo lokuba"
- Inyani: Ngaphandle kokuba uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umntu uxakekile, akukho sizathu sokulinda. Awukwazi ukuqikelela ngelinye ilanga lomnye umntu.
- Ucinga: "Umntu osebenza naye ubonakala exakeke kakhulu. Andifuni ukumkhathaza ngoku, ndiza kulinda emva kokuhlwa kwasemini"
- Inyani: Nangona osebenza naye sele exakekile ngoku, unokuzixhamla emva kwemini. Ngokumxelela ngoku ukuba ufuna uncedo, unokuphendula ngokukhawuleza, okanye uceba ixesha lokuthetha nawe.
Qaphela iipatheni zakho zokucinga, uze uze neengxabano ezikhuphisanayo malunga nokuba kutheni ufanele uqhubeke phambili. Uninzi lwexesha, ukuthatha inyathelo ngoku kulungile.
U-Nancy Schimelpfening, ingcali ye-.com yokuxinezeleka inikeza izi ngcebiso ezilandelayo zokunceda ukujongana nokukhawuleza:
- Yenza uluhlu lwemisebenzi kwaye ubeke phambili oko kufuneka kwenziwe.
- Zizuze ngokugqiba imisebenzi enzima.
- Sebenzisa iindlela zokuphucula ukujongana nokuxhalaba malunga nokugqiba imisebenzi.
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