Amanyathelo angama-12 e-AA ne-Al-Anon
Abaninzi obomi babo baphenjelelwa sisifo seentsapho sokusela utywala bafumana ithemba kwakhona xa bebeka ukholo lwabo ngamandla amakhulu kunabo. Le nyathelo lesi-2 leZenzo ezili-12:
Isinyathelo 2
Wayekholelwa ukuba uMandla omkhulu kunathi usenokusibuyisela kwisinyulu.
Amalungu amaninzi oMnxila angaziwayo okanye i-Al-Anon Family Groups aya kwiprogram ngokholo oluqinileyo kuThixo, kwaye ngokukhuthazwa kwamanye amalungu ebudlelwane ngokukhawuleza bafunde ukusebenzisa loo mfundiso kwiimeko ezinobomi babo obudalwe utywala.
Ngobulumko obonelelwe yinkqubo, ubuhlobo kunye nenkxaso yamanye amalungu, inkqubo yokuphulukisa iqalisa ngoncedo lukaThixo onothando, njengoko bayayiqonda.
Ama-Agnostics kunye nama-Atheists kunye neNyathelo 2
Abanye abaye baziswa kwiiprogram ze-12 ziyi-agnostics okanye abangakholelwa kuThixo, abaligatye ingcamango yobuThixo. Uninzi luvaliwe ngokukhankanywa kwegama elithi "UThixo" kunye nezinye izibilini nakwizinto ezinokomoya. Kodwa, njengoko kuthethwa kwincwadi ethi, "Utywala Ongaziwayo," kwisahluko esithi "We Agnostics," sinxusa ukuba ubeke eceleni ucalulo ... "kwaye unike iprogram ithuba.
Iiprogram ze-12 zinyathelo zingokomoya, kungekhona zonqulo. Akukho nkcazelo yeenkolelo zonqulo, imfundiso, okanye imfundiso kwiintlanganiso okanye kwiincwadi ezivunyiweyo. Amalungu awafunwa ukuba amkele ingcamango yomnye umntu, kuphela ukuthembela ukuba kukho amandla "amakhulu kunabo" nangona bafuna ukuchaza okanye ukuyiqonda.
Kubonakala kuyinyaniso yokomoya, ukuba ngaphambi kokuba amandla angaphezulu aqale ukusebenza, kufuneka umntu akholelwe okokuqala ukuba unako. Kufuneka uyikholelwe, ukuba uyifumane. Izigidi zeeprogram zephondo ngeminyaka, ekugqibeleni "zikholelwa" zifumene zikumangalise ukuba zifumene amandla ekusebenzeni kwabo ubomi ngendlela ebonakalayo imangalisayo.
Othembekileyo neNyathelo 2
Kwabo banamandla kwikolo yabo yonqulo, isinyathelo 2 sinokubonisa umngeni. Ukuba unesigqibo sokuthi uThixo unjani, kunokuphazamisa ukuva "amandla angaphezulu" asetyenziswa kunokuthi "uThixo." Unokuba nobunzima ekwamukeleni uhlobo lwamandla angaphezulu kwamanye amalungu eqela. Ukuva ukuba kulungile ukusebenzisa i-worknob yamandla aphezulu ukuba yiloo ndlela uyayiqonda ngayo, kunokuba nzima ukuwamkela. Unokufumanisa oko.
Nangona kunjalo, ukunika i-12-step-step program ithuba, kufuneka uvimbele loo mpendulo kwaye ungayivumeli ukuyiyeka ukusebenzisa inkqubo ye-12-nyathelo. Ubandlululo lwenkolo luya kufumana indlela.
Amava eSigaba 2
Amalungu eendidi ezili-12 ezahlukileyo awabelane ngamava, amandla kunye nethemba kuwo onke amanyathelo. Nazi ezinye zamabali abo.
- UCarol utshela indlela awakhulela ngayo kwintsapho eyayisebenza ecaweni. Xa wayezama ukuqonda, wabuyela ebandleni lakhe. "Ngokukhawuleza, ndifumene ukuba uThixo enkonzweni yam unobuso obukhethileyo abonisa kuphela izidakwa." Ndamfumana emagumbini aseTywala angabonakaliyo , ukhona apho elindele ukuba sicele uncedo lwakhe. ubomi bam AA. "
- I-Sox yafunyanwa ukuba ibe khona kwiintlanganiso ngokufunda "Le ncwadana ye-AA". "Ndabiza enye yeenkampani ezinkulu kummandla wam kwaye ndaya kwintlanganiso ngalobo busuku. Kodwa kwacaca kum ukuba ndiphendulele kuThixo kuqala, ndaza ndathatha iNyathelo 1. Ndazi ukuba ubomi bam bubuqili kwaye ndazi ukuba Kwakungamandla amakhulu kunam, kodwa kwada kweso sihlandlo, ndandisoloko ndamcaphukisa uThixo ngenxa yokungena apho afunanga khona. Ngoku ndamfuna, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo, wandithumela apho ndifuna khona. "
- UBuddy, ilungu le-Al-Anon, uthi, "Kwintlanganiso yam yokuqala, emva kokufunda ezinye zeencwadi, ndenze igalelo lokuba ndineengxaki 'ngokubhekiselele kwamandla'. ndithi: 'andiyikusho ukulibala iinkolelo zakho zonqulo, kodwa zibeke nje zimbambe ixesha kwaye zinike uAl-Anon ithuba.' Kwaye kwakukho ubulumko obukhulu into endixelele yona. Ukuba wayengazange athathe ixesha lokuba ndixelele oko, mhlawumbi andingeke ndibuyele kwaye ndibe ndiye ndilahlekelwa yinto endibekele yona uThixo. Ubulumko, uncedo, ubuhlobo, ukukhuthazwa kunye nokukhula ngokomoya endikufumene e-Al-Anon, ndiza kuphinda ndilahlekelwe ngenxa yobandlululo lwam inkolo. Ngoko ke, ukucetyiswa kwam abatsha kuyafana noko ndifumene: faka iinkolelo zakho, okanye ukungakholelwa ekubanjweni kwaye unike yonke inkqubo ithuba. Ngenxa yokuba u-Al-Anon akayiyo inkolo yonqulo, kodwa unokomoya. "