Ixesha lembuyekezo libhekisela kwindlela yokukhusela apho abantu bangaphaya kommandla omnye ukuhlawulela ukungaphumeleli kwelinye. Ngokomzekelo, abantu abaneentsapho ezihluphekileyo bangabangela amandla abo ukuba baphumelele ngaphezu kwezinto ezifunekayo emsebenzini. Isicwangciso sengqondo sivumela abantu ukuba badibanise ukungalingani, ukukhungatheka, ukunyanzeliswa okanye ukucebisa ngokuqondisa amandla kummandla ogqwesileyo okanye ukufikelela kwezinye iindawo.
Ukuhlawulelwa kwiMpilo yemihla ngemihla
Eli gama lisetyenzisiweyo ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwimihla ngemihla. "Yona / mhlawumbi umele ukugqithisa into ethile", ibinzana eliqhelekileyo lisetyenziswe ngabantu ukubonisa ukuba umntu uzinikezela ngaphezu kweendawo ezithile zobomi babo ukuze afihle ukunganeliseki ngezinye iinkalo zobomi babo.
Kwezinye iimeko, le ntlawulo ingenzeka ngokuqaphela. Ukuba uyazi ukuba unetyala lokuthetha koluntu, ungase uzame ukuhlawula ngokugqwesileyo kwimibhalo yakho ebhaliweyo emsebenzini. Ngokwenza oku, ubeka ingqalelo kwingingqi apho unamandla ngakumbi kwaye unciphise indawo obuthathaka kuyo. Kwamanye amaxesha, imbuyekezo ingenzeka ingazi. Akunakukwazi ukubona iimvakalelo zakho ezifihlakeleyo ezikhokelela kuwe ukuhlawulwa kwezinye iindawo.
Imizekelo yeMbuyekezo
Isihlomelo singabonakalisa ngeendlela ezimbalwa ezahlukeneyo. Ukuxhatshazwa kwenzeka xa abantu banqumla kwiindawo ezilodwa ukuba benze izilungiso kwenye inxalenye yobomi.
Ukuxhaswa, ngakolunye uhlangothi, kwenzeka ntoni xa abantu bejongana neziphoso ezinjalo ngokuxhomekeke kuninzi kwabanye.
Umzekelo:
- Umfana uvakalelwa kukuba ngumdlali ohluphekileyo kwaye akaze athathe iinqununu kwiiklasi ngexesha lemfundo yakhe yemfundo. Uyaxhomekeka ngokuzibandakanya ngokujulile kwiminye imisebenzi yesikolo kuquka ibhola le drama kunye nephephandaba le sikolo.
- Umfundi uzizwa engaphantsi kweklasi yeemathematika kwaye engaphantsi kokuxhomekeka ngokunyanisekileyo ngutitshala wakhe kunye nabafundi abalingana nabo ekwenzeni uncedo lwemfundo.
- Ukuziva kakubi ngokungabi ngumpheki omhle kunye nokugqithisa ngokuba nekhishini elihle kakhulu, elihleliweyo.
- Ukuhlawulela umkhwa wezempilo ombi wokutshaya ngokuzibophelela ekudleni okunempilo nangokusebenza yonke imihla.
I-Pros and Consence of Compensation
Ukuhlawulelwa kunokuba nempembelelo enamandla kwiimpawu zokuziphatha nezempilo. Nangona imbuyekezo idlalwa ngokukhawuleza, ingaba nemiphumo emihle kwezinye iimeko. Isazi sengqondo sengqondo u- Alfred Adler siphakamise ukuba nayiphi na indlela abantu bevalelwa ngayo ukungathandabuzeki, bafumana ngokuzenzekelayo isidingo sokuhlawulwa. Ngenxa yoko, abantu bayazibhokoxa ukunqoba ubuthathaka babo baze bafezekise iinjongo zabo.
Ngokomzekelo, cinga ukuba inkwenkwe encinci ivakalelwa iimvalelo zokungabi phantsi kwezinto ngenxa yokuba ayikwazi ukwenza iibhasikiti ezininzi njengoko oontanga bakhe benza xa bedlala ibhola. Ngenxa yale mvakalelo yokungafaneleki, uyazibhokoxa ukuze anqobe lobuthathaka. Ubonisa iimpawu ze-basketball kwaye uqala ukuziqhelanisa ngokwakhe emva kwentsuku emva kwesikolo. Ekugqibeleni, uba ngumdlali webhasi webhokisi webhasi olungcono kunabo abaninzi abahlobo bakhe.
Khawucinge ukuba uqale uthabathe iklasi yaseZumba. Ekuqaleni, unokuba uzive ungaphandle kwinto yakho kwaye mhlawumbi unomntu oswelekile ekubeni wonke umntu ubonakala enobuchule kunye namava. Ngenxa yale mvakalelo yokuqala yokungaphantsi, ungagqiba ukunikela ixesha elide kunye neengqalelo kwiklasi lakho elitsha uze uqale ukuqhuba ekhaya kunye nokusebenza kwamaDVD. Ngenxa yesibongo sokuqala sokunciphisa iimvakalelo zakho zokungahlambuluki, unako ukuphuhlisa izakhono ezintsha kwaye unamathele kwisiqhelo somsebenzi ophelileyo wokuzonwabisa.
Nangona kunjalo, isinxephezelo sinokubathintela abantu ukuba bazame izinto ezintsha okanye bazame ukulungisa iziphene.
Ngokomzekelo, makhe sicinge ukuba umfundi osele klasini uvakalelwa iimvakalelo okanye ukungahlambululi ngenxa yokuba unabohlobo abasondeleyo. Nomaphi apho ahamba khona, ubona oontanga bakhe bexoxa ngeentetho zabo kunye nabahlobo babo. Uhlawulela le mvakalelo ngokuthi, "Mna ndingabi nabaninzi abasenyongweni, kodwa ndibe namabakala aphezulu!" Esikhundleni sokufuna uxhulumaniso, uyaziphonsa emsebenzini wakhe wesikolo aze adlale ixesha elincinane okanye ehamba kwimicimbi yoluntu. Kulo mzekelo, imbuyekezo iye yamthintela ekunqobeni iimvakalelo zakhe zokungaphantsi.
Abantu abanokwenza i-narcissistic banokugqithisa xa befumana ukuzithoba kunye nomona ngokufuna amandla kunye nokuqwalaselwa.
Eyaziwa ngokuba: Ukuxhaswa