Ukuqonda iiNqobo zeeNkonzo zoThutho zeNtsha
Ziziphi iinketho xa kukho iinkxalabo malunga nokuthutha umntwana okhuseleyo kwiprogram engabancedisa? Mhlawumbi ufumene inkqubo yonyango ukubonelela ngoncedo lwakho olutsha oluxhalabileyo olufunayo, kodwa umntwana wakho wenqaba ukuhamba kwaye usongela ukuba ubaleke xa uzama ukubanyanzelisa. Okanye mhlawumbi ukwesaba umntwanakho unokuzama ukuzilimaza ngokwasemzimbeni okanye omnye umntu ukuba uyabathumela kwinkqubo, ingakumbi ukuba ikude.
Kule meko iqeshe ukuthuthwa kwentsha okanye ukuhanjiswa kweenkonzo kunika isisombululo esinokwenzeka.
Iyintoni inkonzo yeThutho yeNtsha?
Iimvakalelo zihlala ziphakamileyo xa zilungiselela umntwana ukuba ahambe ekhaya ukuya kwinkqubo yokonyango. Iinkonzo zothutho lwabantwana zenzelwe ukukunceda ngokubonelela ngokuhamba ngokukhuselekileyo kunye nokuguqulwa kwemithi kwiinkqubo ezinjengeziko lezonyango, amaziko okunyanga okuhlala kwindawo yokuhlala (RTC) okanye unyango lweziyobisi .
Abasebenzi abasebenza kulezi zinkonzo balindele ukuxhatshazwa kwabaselula bathwala, ngoko baqeqeshwe ukujonga iimpawu zokuxhalaba okanye ukuzama ukuqhuba kwaye benze isicwangciso sendlela yokuphendula. Ngamaxesha amaninzi ama-agent angenelelo okanye abongeneleli bathabatha umntwana wakho, ubabambe ngokumangalisa xa kuyimfuneko, kwaye uyabathatha kwinkqubo. Injongo kukuqinisekisa ukhuseleko ngexesha lokothutho kunye nokufundisa nokuxhasa intombazana emoyeni ukwenza utshintsho ukusuka ekhaya ukuya kwinkqubo yonyango.
Yintoni Eyenzekayo Xa Umntwana Ethuthwa?
Iinkonzo zokungenela zihluka kwiindlela zabo kunye neenkqubo, kodwa ininzi ikwabelana ngesicwangciso-qhinga esifanayo esenzekayo ngexesha lamashumi mathathu aphambili:
- Uqhagamshelwano lokuqala. Wena njengabazali uphuhlisa isicwangciso kunye nabasebenzi beenkonzo zothutho eziqwalasela apho intombazana yakho ihamba khona, uxhalabele ngokubafumana apho kunye naziphi na iimfuno ezizodwa zempilo kunye neemvakalelo.
- Ukufika kweqela lokuqala. Udibana neqela elingaphambi komnyango okanye ngaphandle kwendlu ukuze unike iinkcukacha malunga nesimo sakho samanje, mnike iqela lezinto ezifunekayo ekuhambeni kwentombazana yakho kwaye uchaze ukuhlelwa kwekhaya, kubandakanywa nemizila yokuphepha.
- Ukungenelela. Oku kudla ngokuba yinkqubo enzima kunabo bonke abatsha nabazali. Ungena ekamelweni lakho le-adolescents, livuse xa lifuneka, lizisa iqela ngamagama kwaye unikeze inkcazo elula yokuba balapha ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho ufika kwinkqubo ngokukhuselekileyo. Usuke ushiye eklasini ukunciphisa amathuba okwenza umntwana wakho atshabise okanye uzame ukukusebenzisa kwaye uvumele iqela liwuthathe. Iqela lezothutho liya kuzinzisa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba lilawulwa kwaye lihambela umntwana wakho kwisithuthi sezothutho.
- Zothutho. Iqela libeka imida ebantwaneni bakho kwaye ichaza ukuba yintoni imimiselo eyamkelekileyo kunye noko kungenjalo. Iqela lingaqhubela phambili kwiprogram okanye uthathe umntwana wakho kwisibhedlele, apho omnye okanye amabini amalungu eqela aya kuhamba kunye nomntwana wakho kwinqanaba. Ngeli xesha, wakho umntwana uya kufuna ukuzola kunye nokubambisana ngokwaneleyo ukuba ahambe. Ukuba akunjalo, olunye uhambo luya ku funeka luqhutywe kwizithuthi zothutho.
- Utshintsho kwinkqubo yokonyango . Ngokukhawuleza xa wakho umntwana usemotweni, abasebenzi baqala ukuzilungiselela inkqubo yonyango abaza kungena ngayo ngokuzama ukunciphisa uxhalabo lwabo, ukuphendula imibuzo, ukunika ulwazi malunga nokulindela nokukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba avule kwiprogram ithuba. Iqela lihlala kunye nentombazana yakho de ibe yatshintshelwa kwinkqubo yonyango
Ngaba Iqela lezokuThutha liza phakathi kobusuku?
Ngamanye amaxesha bayakwenza kwaye ngulo mfanekiso owona mkhulu wabazali abanokufumana iinkonzo zokuhambisa abantwana abaselula, kodwa akusona kuphela ukhetho. Kwezinye iimeko uthatha intombazana ngokutshatyalaliswa kwaye ubenza bathuthele ngelixa i-groggy ukuxhathisa ingqiqo, kodwa inkampani enokuzikhethela iqulunqa ukungenelela okwenzekayo apho kwaye iya kuba yintoni inomdla wakho kumntwana wakho.
Ngaba Izibambiso Zokwenyama Zisetyenziselwa Ukuhambisa Intsha?
Ezi nkonzo zinegama elithile lokuphatha abantwana ngokukhawuleza, kodwa oku kubonakala ngathi yinto ehlukile ngaphandle kolawulo.
Ekuqaleni, ezi nkampani zazisungulwa ukuba zijongane kuphela nabantwana abanobunzima, kodwa ngoku ezi nkonzo ziye zanda ukuba zixhase ngakumbi abafana nabazali. Olu tshintsho kwifilosofi nalo lushintshile ukuba zininzi iinkampani zenza lula utshintsho.
Ama-interventionists okanye i-ejenti baqeqeshwa ukuba baphathe intsha ngentlonelo, ukuthetha ngokunyusa ukuziphatha okukhuseleyo nokuchasene nokugcina umntwana wakho ukhuselekile ngeendlela zokuthetha, usebenzise ukuzithintela ngokomzimba kuphela xa kuyimfuneko. Uninzi lwama-agentane aphethe izicwangciso zeplastiki okanye izixhobo zokusebenzisa xa zifunwa. Akukho nkampani esemthethweni isebenzisa i-pepper spray okanye enye indlela enobugwenxa kulutsha.
Xa kusetyenziswe iNkonzo yoThutho lwabaNtwana?
Isigqibo sokusebenzisa iinkonzo zothutho ukwenzela ukuba umntwana athathe inkqubo yonyango kufuneka ayenze ngenyameko ngumzali, ngokusekelwe ekuzileni wakho umntwana kunye nokufunda malunga neenkonzo ezikhoyo.
Akukho zikhokelo eziqinileyo zokusebenzisa okanye ukungasebenzisi le nkonzo, kodwa kumaxesha amaninzi, olu hlobo longenelelo lufanelekile kulutsha olunentsholongwane, olunobundlobongelayo, oluxhatshazayo, oluxhatshazayo, oluvuthayo okanye olubi. Abanye abaviwa ukuba bahanjiswe ngabafana abasebenzisa kakubi izinto, nokuba neembali zokuziphatha ezingekho mthethweni okanye ukubalekela. Kubaselula abadandathekileyo , ukusika okanye ukutya okanye ukukhathazeka kwemizwa, abazali bayacetyiswa ukuba balumkele ekwenzeni oku kukhetha kwaye baqwalasele ukusebenzisa isevisi egxile ekuthuthiseni intsha ngendlela enhle, njengoko inokuba yingozi ngaphezu ezilungileyo kwezi meko.
Ukuqeshwa kweenkonzo zothutho lolutsha ngokuqhelekileyo kuyisigqibo sokugqibela kodwa akudingeki ukuba ube namava amaninzi kwaye amaxesha amaninzi ingaba yindlela kuphela yokufumana umntwana okhuselekileyo uncedo olufuna kakhulu. Olu khetho lisetyenziselwa ulutsha olunokuba lukhuni, kodwa kufuneka lucatshangelwe kubafana abafuna inkxaso eyongezelelweyo okanye xa bengenakuqinisekiswa malunga nendlela umntwana angasabela ngayo.