Funda ukungafani phakathi kweNyaniso kunye neFiction xa ifika kwi-BPD
Ingxaki yomntu we-Borderline (BPD) yisifo sengqondo esivakalayo ngokungaqondakaliyo ngokubanzi kunye nabasebenzi abathile bezempilo. Ukongezelela, yintlupheko enokuthi ingathintela kakubi ubomi babanye. Ngenxa yale miba mibini, kukho iingcinga ezininzi ngeBPD ezikhoyo. Ukuba wena okanye umntu owaziyo unayo i-BPD, kubalulekile ukuqonda inyaniso malunga nokugula ukuze uqale ukubuyiswa. Ngezantsi zikhona ezinye zeengcali eziqhelekileyo malunga ne-BPD.
Inkolelo-mfundiso ye-1: Ubunzima be-Personality Disorder Not Treatable
Oku ku buxoki; I-BPD iyaphathwa . Ukuba ucinga ukuba unayo i-BPD, ungavumeli le ngqungquthela ibangele ukwedlula unyango okanye wenze uzive ungancedi. Ukufumana ukuxilongwa akuthethi ukuba uya kuba neengxaki zeBPD ngonaphakade. Umsebenzi onzima kunye unyango olusebenzayo lunokunciphisa kakhulu ubunzima beempawu zeBPD kwaye kunokukunceda uhlale ubomi obuqhelekileyo.
Ngaphandle kwonyango, iimpawu zeengxaki ziza kuhamba kunye nokuhamba kwexesha; Abanye abantu abane-BPD banako ukusebenza kumgangatho ophezulu kunabanye, ngoko ke ukuhlengahluka kwahlukileyo kumntu ngamnye.
Inkolelo yesi-2: Bonke abantu abane-BPD Ngaba baxhotyiswa kakubi kwabantwana
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu abanentsingiselo engaboniyo i-BPD bakholelwa ukuba kubangelwa ukusetyenziswa gwenxa xa umntu ochaphazelekayo engumntwana. Oku kungatshintsha indlela abantu abadibana ngayo okanye bakuthetha nawe ukuba unayo i-BPD, into enokuyikhathaza ukuba awuzange ufumane kakubi. Unokuziva ngathi amava akho aqondanga okanye ahluke. Nangona abanye abantu abane-BPD bexhatshazwa, akunyaniseki kuzo zonke izigulane zeBPD kwaye kufuneka zijongwe ngengqondo evulekileyo.
Akukho nto ibonakalayo yeBPD ngeli xesha. Nangona kunjalo, imbangela ibonakala ngokudibeneyo njengemibutho yezinto eziphilayo kunye nezendalo, kunokuba zidibaniswe nasiphi na isizathu
Inkolelo-ntathu 3: Abantwana kunye nabantwana abakwi-Adolescents abakwazi ukuxilongwa nge-BPD
Abantwana kunye nabaselula banokufumaneka ukuba baneengxaki zomntu. Nangona kunjalo, ngenxa yentsholongwane ekholiswayo yokuba ubuntu buqhubeka kusebuntsheni, ukuxilonga abantwana okanye abatsha abane-BPD kuye kwaba ngquzulwano.
Incwadana yokuHlola yeziThutho, i-5 ye-Edition (iDSM-V) ibeka imilinganiselo ecacileyo yokuxilongwa kwe-BPD. Ukulumka kufuneka kusetyenziswe xa kunika naluphi na ukuxilongwa, kwaye oku kunokuba yinyani ngokunyanisekileyo kwi-BPD njengoko iimpawu zikwazi ukulinganisa ukuziphatha komntu osemtsha. Ingcali yezobuchwephesha abanamava kunye neBPD inokukunceda ukuhlukanisa umahluko. Ukuxilongwa kwangaphambili kunokunceda ekuqinisekiseni ukuba umntu ufumana uncedo olulungele ukuqala ukubuyisela.
Iingoma 4: I-BPD Ngaba uguquko lwe-Bipolar Disorder
I-BPD ne-bipolar disorder ihluke ngokupheleleyo. Nangona iimpawu ze-bipolar kunye ne-BPD zinokubonakala zifana noko, zezi zimbini izifo ezihlukileyo kakhulu.
Ngenxa yokuba nabanikezeli benonophelo bezempilo abanalo ulwazi malunga ne-BPD, abantu abane-BPD badla ngokungafumani kakuhle ngeengxaki ze-bipolar, bongezelela ukudideka. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba imichiza esetyenziswa ekuphatheni i-bipolar disorder ngokuvamile ayisebenzi kwizigulane ze-BPD, ngoko-ke ugqirha onemvelaphi ye-BPD ibalulekile ukuze afumane isifo esifanelekileyo sokuxilongwa kunye nonyango.
Iingoma 5: I-BPD ifunyanwa kuphela kwabasetyhini
I-BPD ifumaneka kumabini omabili, nangona kuyinyaniso ukuba abafazi bavuthiwe bafumana i-BPD ngaphezu kwamadoda.
Oku akuthethi ukuba abafazi banako ukuhlakulela i-BPD; oko kunokuthetha ukuba iimpawu zamadoda zixubusha zihambelana ngokungalunganga kunye nezinye iziphazamiso, ezinjenge-post-traumatic disorder stress or depression. Iimpawu ezibonakalayo ze-BPD zizinzileyo kunye nokulawulwa kwempembelelo embi, ezinokuchaphazela bobabini ngokulingana.
Inkolelo-mfundiso 6: Ukuba Uyazi Omnye Umntu onomntu ophethe i-BPD, Uyabazi Bonke
Wonke umntu uhlukile, kwaye i-BPD ayitshintshi loo nto.
Ngokutsho kwe-DSM-V, umgangatho wokunakekelwa kwempilo yengqondo, imimiselo ethile kufuneka idibeneyo ukuze i-BPD ifumaneke. I-criterium ibandakanya ukungaphumeleli ekusebenzeni komuntu kunye nobudlelwano bobudlelwane . Indlela ezi zinto eziphazamisayo zibonisa ngayo ngokwahlukileyo kuwo wonke umntu.
Ukongezelela, akubona bonke abantu abafumana iimpawu ezithile ngokufanayo. Ubunzima bomntu omnye kunye nobudlelwane buyahlukahluka kunakho. Umntu ngamnye ufumana i-BPD ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.