Ngaba abantu abangakholelwa kuThixo nababantu abangakholelwa ku-agnostics bajonga njani inqanaba le-11?
Utywala obengaziwayo '(AA) Inkqubo ye- 12-nyathelo njengoko ichazwe kwi "Incwadi Enkulu," Isikhokelo se-AA sabantu abaphulukana nokusela utywala, linezinto ezininzi ezibhekisele kuThixo kunye neenkalo zonqulo, kwaye inyathelo 11 alifani. Ngokucacileyo, isinyathelo 11 sithi ukufumana isicwangciso sikaThixo, njengoko uyayiqonda, sinokuphila kwakho kwaye sifumane amandla okukufeza.
I-AA ithi ayikho yonqulo kodwa kunokomoya ngokwakhiwa, kwaye njengelitye lekona, amalungu kufuneka afumane injongo ephezulu okanye amandla angaphezulu.
UThixo unokuthi uchazwe njengokwenkolo, okanye ukungakholelwa kuThixo kunye ne-agnostics, ithetha nje ukuba iqela elinobuchule elinolwazi njengelungu kwintlanganiso ye-AA okanye omnye umntu.
Ukuphononongwa kweNqanaba 11
Isinyathelo 11
Ukufunwa ngokuthandaza nokucamngca ukuphucula ukuqhagamshelana kwethu noThixo njengoko saqonda, sithandazela kuphela ukwazi ulwazi lwaKhe ngathi kunye namandla okuthwala loo nto.
Ngokomoya Kunokuba Unqulo
Kwabaninzi ekuphumeni, nokuba ngaba yizidakamizwa ezingabonakaliyo okanye i-Al-Anon Family Groups, ingqiqo yokomoya ingaba engaqhelekanga, ilahlekile okanye iyanqatshwa. Ukuba ufuna induduzo kwibhotile okanye kwimivalo, unokufumana ezinye iingxaki ezinjengebudlelwane obuphukileyo okanye umtshato odibeneyo, imbali yolwaphulo-mthetho okanye ngokubanzi, ubomi obunzima. Kwabo baye bakhuliswa ecaweni, unokufumanisa ukuba amava akho "ayenayo inkolo" kwaye achazwe kunokuba abekho ngokomoya.
Kuba baninzi abanomdla ekusebenzeni amanyathelo angama-12, ngelixa ufika kwisinyathelo 11 ungayifumana imilinganiselo yokomoya kwimisebenzi ebomini bakho.
Kwamalungu amaninzi e-AA, athi baye bafumanisa amandla abo aphezulu kwaye benza ukuqonda okungcono kwaloo mandla.
Umthandazo okanye Ukucamngca Isikhokelo
Iindlela kunye neendlela zokuthandaza kunye nokucamngca okuphakanyiswayo kwinqanaba 11 lihluka, kodwa injongo yenyathelo ukuxhuma kunye namandla angaphezulu. Abanye banqwenela ukubiza amandla aphezulu "uThixo," abanye bagwema iG-word ngokupheleleyo.
Ingongoma ngamalungu e-AA athola ngokuthatha inxaxheba kwiprogram yokuba kukho amandla amakhulu kunabo, kwaye babone ukuba amandla asebenzayo.
Njengamalungu amkela isimiso "sokuthula" esithi "Akukho nto, akukho nto iyenzekayo kwihlabathi likaThixo ngephutha" kukho ukuvuma kwamandla aphezulu, kwaye kukho icebo lobomi babo. Ngokuthandaza nokucamngca, amalungu angayama ukuphakamisa ukuqonda kwawo loo mandla aze athathe kuwo ukuze aqhubeke nohambo lwakhe lokubuyisela.
Ungathini Umntu Ongakholelwa Kukholelwa KuThixo okanye U-Agnostic Uthandaza?
Njengoko kuphakanyiswe nguHazelden Betty Ford Foundation, unokuthandaza okanye ucamngce ngokuhlala usithule, ubeke, ubeke, ubonakalise kwaye uphulaphule iingcamango zakho. Unokucwangcisa usuku lwakho ngendlela ehlelekile. Zibuze, UThixo, okanye amandla aphezulu kwiimpendulo ezifanelekileyo ukuze ufumane usuku. Ngexesha lokudideka okanye ukungalingani, yima, zibuze okanye amandla aphezulu ngendlela efanelekileyo yokuqhubeka. Qonda, yibone ngeso lengqondo, qhubeka. Kwabaninzi oku kukuzibonakalisa, kubanye, oku kucela kuThixo ukuba akhokele. Isiphumo sokugqibela siphendukela ngokufanayo.