Ukuba umntwana wakho okhuselekileyo uvavanywe kwengqondo kungabangela isinyathelo esibalulekileyo ekufumaneni uncedo olufanelekileyo kwintsapho yakho.
Uphononongwa njani ngeengqondo?
Ukuphononongwa kwengqondo yinkqubo ecacileyo yovavanyo kunye nokuhlolwa okulawulwe ngumntwana weengqondo. Izindlela ezisetyenziselwa ukuvavanya ziya kuxhomekeka kwiimfuno zakho zentsha. Ingaba iquka uluhlu lweemvavanyo ezisesikweni okanye ezilungelelaniswa kwengqondo okanye i-neuropsychological tests kunye neengxoxo zonyango ezilungiselelwe ukuba zichonge kwaye zichaze iingxaki zengqondo, zokuziphatha okanye zokufunda ezinokubangela iingxaki zakho eziselula.
Inkqubo ithatha iiyure eziliqela kwaye igqitywa ngeeseshoni ezahlukeneyo. Ukuphononongwa kwengqondo kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo kwiimeko apho kukho ukungaqiniseki malunga nezizathu ezenza umntwana wakho abe neengxaki ngeemvakalelo, ukuziphatha, okanye ukufunda.
Inxaxheba yesazi-psychologist eyenza uvavanyo lufana nomcuphi okhangela izikhombisi zokusombulula imfihlelo. Iinkcukacha ezininzi ezingabonakaliswa, ulwazi oluninzi luya kuqonda ukuba kwenzekani kunye nentombazana yakho kwaye unqume ukuba zeziphi iinketho ezifanelekileyo ukuzinceda.
Ziziphi iinkcukacha eziza kuHlola iNgqondo?
Ukuphononongwa kwengqondo kunokunika ulwazi oluncedo malunga nentombazana yakho ukubandakanya:
- ubunzima beempawu zokudandatheka okanye ukuxhalabisa
- ubukho bokukhubazeka kokufunda
- amandla okufunda kunye nobuthathaka
- iingcinezelo ezibangela iingxaki zengqondo
- izitayela ezinokuthi zenzeke
- izizathu zokuziphatha okubi
- ulwazi malunga nendlela umntwana wakho abona ngayo ihlabathi
- imiba okanye iimbambano zakho ezisenkonzweni ezisenkingeni
- ukuqonda indlela yobunjani bakho yobutsha
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Ingqwalasela yokuphonononga kwengqondo yinkcazelo ebalulekileyo engayi kunika. Ukuphazamiseka kwithuba kunye neendleko ezibandakanyekayo. Ngamanye amaxesha indlela efanelekileyo yokufumana olu vavanyo lugqityiwe kwisithili semfundo okanye njengenxalenye yenkqubo yokuhlola yokuqala xa umntwana esetyenziswe kwinkqubo yokunyanga yokuhlala .
Inani leemvavanyo ezifunekayo ziyahlukahlukileyo ukuze kube nokubaluleka kokuthintana kunye nengcali yengqondo yengqondo ukuba ifumane ukuba zeziphi iimvavanyo ezicetyiswayo kunye neendleko kunye nexesha elibandakanyekayo.
Ukuphononongwa kwengqondo kungabangela isinyathelo esibalulekileyo ekuncedeni ukusingatha ngcono kwiingxaki zakho eziselula. Kungaba luncedo ekuboneleleni ngolwazi olunzulu ukubonelela ngesigqibo malunga nawaphi amanyathelo okufuneka uyenze ekufumaneni uncedo olululutsha lwakho olufunayo.