Xa sibhekene noxinzelelo ebomini, sinokuxhatshazwa ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, kwaye ukuxhatshazwa kunokunyusa. Ukuvakalelwa ngokwenyama kunokunyusa uxinzelelo lwakho lwengqondo kunye nomoya kunye nangoko. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuphumla umzimba wakho ngokwenyama kunokuncedisa ukuxinwa kwengqondo, kwaye ukuphumla kwengqondo yakho kunokukunceda ukuba uphumule kwaye ukhulule umthambo emzimbeni wakho.
Xa impendulo yakho yokunyamezela ingasayi kubangela, kuba lula ukufikelela kwimingeni ngendlela efanelekileyo, enoxolo. Ukufunda ukuqonda ubuchule obunceda zombini iintlobo zokuphumula kuyindlela ephumelelayo yokuxininisa uxolo.
Ukuba uziva ucinezelekile kwaye uzibuza indlela yokuphumla, nantsi amanye amanyathelo alula ukukhulula ukuphazamiseka emzimbeni wakho nangengqondo yakho.
Qaphela ukuba kufuneka Ukhulule
Abantu abaninzi bazama nje ukusebenzisana noxinzelelo lwabo ngokungayihoxayo kwaye banethemba lokuba abaxinzelelo bahamba ngokukhawuleza, nangona iimeko zengcinezelo zakha. Ngenxa yoko, akuqhelekanga ukubanjiswa-kugcinwa ngumxinzelelo xa ufikelela kwindawo yokuziva ukhululekile okanye ugxininiswe kwinqanaba lokuba uthatha umonakalo ngaphandle kokuqonda ukuba kufuneka usebenze ekulawuleni ukuxinezeleka kwakho ubomi kunye nengqondo yakho. Kubalulekile ukwazi xa uxineke kakhulu kwaye ufuna ukuphumla. Thatha le mibuzo ukuze ufumane iimpawu zakho zoxinzelelo kunye nento ongayenza ngayo.
Hlaziya umzimba
Ukuzihlaziya umzimba wakho kungakhokelela ekuphumuleni ngenxa yokuphazamisa kwaye ukuguqula impendulo yakho kwaye unokuyeka umjikelo-mpendulo apho ingqondo yakho isabela kwingcinezelo ngokubonakalisa ukunyamezeleka kwengqondo. Ubundlobongela emzimbeni wakho obuya kubangelwa kule mpendulo kwandisa amanqanaba oxinzelelo ovakalelwa ngayo.
Kukho iindlela ezinobungakanani bokuphumelela ukuxhatshazwa emzimbeni wakho. Nazi ezinye iindlela ezithandwayo ekuphumuleni:
Hlaziya ngeMvakalelo kunye nemizwelo
Amava akho oxinzelelo aquka zakho iingcamango neemvakalelo. Unokucinga ukuba awukwazi ukuphatha ngokwaneleyo iingcinezelo ozijongene nazo (ukucinga), kunye novalo lwesimo (ukuvakalelwa) njengesiphumo, esinokuhamba kunye nokuqhubeka nokuphendula kwakho uxinzelelo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuphonononga kwakhona iingcamango zakho kunokukunceda ukhululeke ngokomoya. Oku kulandelayo kunokukunceda uqonde ngakumbi iingcamango zakho kwaye utshintshe lo mjikelo njengoko ufunda indlela yokuphumla xa ujamelana noxinzelelo lwakho:
- Sitshintshe ukuthetha kwakho okungalunganga kulungile
- Funda indlela yokuhlaziya kwakhona iingcamango zakho ukwenzela ukuba indlela oyiqonda ngayo ingcinezelo ebomini ebomini bakho iyingozi kwaye ingacindezelekanga
- Yichaza ukuba ukuphazamiseka kwakho kwengqondo kukuphi, njengokucinga konke-okanye akukho nto, ukucinga ngokugqithiseleyo, ukuxhuma kwizigqibo, ukugxila kwiingxelo ezimbi, zokubhaliweyo, kunye neendlela "ezifanele", kunye nendlela yokuzilungisa
- Sebenza ukuphucula ithemba elikhulu
Nceda Uhlale ukhululekile
Emva kokuba ufumene indlela yokuphumla, kufuneka ufumane ubunzima obungaphantsi.
Isinyathelo esilandelayo sifunda indlela yokugcina imeko yokuphumula nokufunda indlela yokuphumla kwakhona ngokukhawuleza emva kokujongana neengcinezelo ezizayo. Ukongeza iimpawu eziphambili kwiindlela zakho zokuphila kunokukunceda ukuba uhlanganise izixhobo ezininzi zokujongana nezixinzelelo ozijongene nazo, kwaye ungaphantsi kancinci kulezi zixinzelelo. Oku kulandelayo kunokukunceda ukuba uhlakulele indlela yokuphila ekunceda ukuba uphumule kwaye ululawule ngokulula ukucinezeleka kobomi:
- Yenza imizamo yokuphila ubomi obuphantsi koxinzelelo , njengokufunda ukuphefumula, ukuqhuba umzimba, ukucamngca, ukubhala kwirekhodi, nokuhlakulela ubudlelwane
- Funda indlela yokwenza uxhomeke ngakumbi emoyeni