Ukwabelana ngokucebisana luhlobo lonyango apho amaqabane omabini aya kwiingcebiso kunye nomcebisi omnye, ngexesha elifanayo. Injongo yezibini ezicebisayo kukusombulula iingxaki ebuhlotsheni, oku ngamanye amaxesha kunokubandakanya umlutha okanye ingxaki yokusetyenziswa kwezinto ezisetyenziswayo omnye okanye bobabini abalingani. Ukunxiliswa kokubambisana kungasetyenziselwa ezinye iimeko kunye kwaye kunceda xa izibini zifumana ukuxabana okanye zicinga ngokuhlukana.
Ulwaphulo lujoliswe ekuphuculeni ubudlelwane, nangona eso sibini sisenza isigqibo sokuhlukana okanye ukwahlukanisa.
Yintoni Echaphazelekayo Ngamaqabane Ocebisi?
Olu hlobo lonyango lubandakanya bobabini abalingani bobudlelwano obusondeleyo obumba ubudlelwane bokwelapha kunye nomcebisi oqeqeshiweyo, ngeeseshoni malunga neyure, abaya kunye kunye, ngokuqhelekileyo malunga neveki kwiinyanga eziliqela. Ekuqaleni, kuya kubandakanya isibini esenza iqeshano lokudibana nomcebisi ukuba uthethe ngento ebenokubangela unyango, zithini ithemba labo kunye neenjongo zonyango, kwaye banokugqiba ukuba ngaba babini abalingani kunye nomcebisi, bafuna ukuqhubeka besebenza kunye kunyango .
Ukuba benza, umcebisi uya kunceda isibini sibone iinjongo zeeseshoni ezizayo. Bobabini abalingani baya kuba nethuba lokunxibelelana neengcamango zabo, kwaye umcebisi uya kunika ingxelo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha umsebenzi wesikolo umtshato uzalise phakathi kweeseshoni.
Oku kunokusebenzisa uhlobo oluthile lokunxibelelana okanye ukuthatha okanye ukuchasana nezenzo ezithile eziye zabangela ubunzima.
Kuthiwani Ukuba Asiyithandi I-Therapist?
Ngamanye amaxesha, elinye iqabane okanye bobabini abalingani bakhetha isigqibo sokuba bangaqhubeki kunye neengcebiso ezinobini. Kukho izizathu ezahlukeneyo zezi.
Ngamanye amaxesha, ukungafani kwimvelaphi okanye ukubuka kwehlabathi phakathi komcebisi kunye nesibini isibini sinokuba sikhulu kakhulu ukuba isibini sibone ukuba siyayiqonda ngokwenene ngumcebisi. Ngamanye amaxesha, elinye iqabane lingathanda umcebisi, ngelixa elinye lingazive lincinci. Ngelixa iingcebiso zabalingani zingasebenza nangona kukho ukungalingani kwintsebenziswano phakathi kwamaqabane amabini, ukuba umntu omnye uvakalelwa, kwaye unikwe inxaxheba "yeqabane elibi" , kwaye kwenza kube nzima ukufumana nayiphi na inzuzo kwinkqubo.
Ngamanye amaxesha, umcebisi angenza isigqibo sokungaqhubeki ngokunika iingcebiso kwiqela elithile. Ukuba elinye iqabane okanye bobabini abalingani baxhaphaza kwaye isibini sibonakala singakuboni oku njengengxaki, umcebisi unokuvakalelwa kukuba baya kuqhuba inkqubela phambili. Ngokufanayo, ukuba omnye okanye amaqabane omabini anemicimbi engathandekiyo yokuxhatshazwa abaqhubekayo yokukhanyela okanye ukunciphisa, umcebisi unokuba nomuzwa wokuthi balwa imfazwe elahlekileyo.
Njengoko kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba isibini kunye nompilisi basebenzisane ekujonganeni neengxaki ebubudlelwaneni, inkqubo yokufumana umgqirha onokulungelelanisa loo mbhangqwana kufuneka ihlonishwe.
Akuthethi ukuba esi sibini asikwazi ukuphumelela ngomnye umcebisi, mhlawumbi ngexesha elithile.
Indlela Yokunceda Umlutha
Ubunzima bobudlelwane buhlala bunciphisa imiba yokuxhatshazwa - nangona ukuba iingxaki zobudlelwane ezihambelana nokugqithisa zibuyele ebuntwaneni, ziyakwazi ukuqhubeka zidlala ekuthandaneni kwabantu abadala. Ngokufanayo, iingxaki zomlingo zihlala zichaphazela umgangatho wobudlelwane. Ukucebisa kunokunceda bobabini amaqabane baqaphele ezi mpateni, kwaye banokufunda iindlela ezintsha zokuthetha kunye nokuziphatha ukuba inkxaso yokuhlala ngaphandle kwemilutha.
Ukucebisa abantu ngokubodwa kudla ngokuyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yonyango oluchanekileyo lwezilungo, nangona zonke iinkqubo zonyango zibonelela ngeengcebiso zomtshato.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, unokufumana iingcebiso zesibini ngaphandle kweenkqubo zakho zonyango, nangona kungengcamango efanelekileyo ukuvumela umcebisi wakho wokulutha umlutha ukuze abaphathi bezobini bangabambisana ukuze basebenze kwiinjongo ezihambelanayo.
Ukujoliswa kweengcebiso kubalingani ekuphuculeni umgangatho wobudlelwane bobabini abalingani. Ukwabelana ngokucebisana kubheka imiba efana nokunxibelelana, ukunyaniseka, uxanduva, ukuzinikela kunye nokuxhasana. Iingxaki ezifana nokusetyenziswa gadalala ziya kubhekiswa.
Uninzi lwentsebenziswano lunokuzuza kwiibini zengcebiso, kuquka izibini ezitshatileyo, izibini ezilungiselela umtshato, izibini ezitshatileyo, imibhangqwana yokuthandana, imibhangqwana ehlukeneyo, kunye nezibini ezilungiselela ukuqhawula umtshato. Nangona kwasekuqaleni kuphuhliswe njengonyango lomtshato, izibini ezicebisa ngoku ngokufanayo ziyabona kwaye zisebenza kunye nezibini ezingatshatanga, kunye neengqingili zesini, zesini, zesini nesini kunye neengxaki ze-transgender.
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