U-Erich Fromm wayengumdlali we - psychoanalyst wase- neo-Freudian ocebisa imbono yobuntu ngokusekelwe kwiimfuno ezimbini eziphambili: imfuno yenkululeko kunye nemfuneko yokuba ngumntu. Wacetyisa ukuba abantu bahlakulele iindlela ezithile zobuntu okanye izicwangciso ukwenzela ukujongana noxinzelelo olwenziwa yimvakalelo yokuzimela. Kulo hlobo lweempawu, wachaza ukuba ezine zazo zikhokelo ezingenakuvelisa, ngelixa enye yinto yokuqhelanisa nokuvelisa.
U-Fromm wayekholelwa ukuba umlingiswa into ebonakalayo kokubili kwifa lethu lofuzo kunye namava ethu okufunda. Ezinye iinkalo zobuntu bethu zifa. Ezinye iinkalo zivela kwizinto esizifunde ekhaya, esikolweni nakubantu. Kwaye, kukho inxaxheba phakathi kweempembelelo ezimbini.
I-Fromm nayo yayikholelwa ukuba umlingiswa unento enzulu kwaye iyanzima ukutshintsha. Nangona kunjalo, ukuqaphela ukuthambekela kwethu nokuzinikela ekutshintsheni kunokukunceda ukuguqula utshintsho.
Iimpawu ezahlukileyo ezivela kwiintlobo zemibala emihlanu zizinto zombini ezintle kunye nezimbi. Nangona kunjalo, i-Fromm ibhekwa ngokubanzi iinjongo zokuqala ezine ezingenakuvelisa.
I-Fromm yayikholelwa ukuba abantu bangabonisa iimpawu zolu hlobo olunye kunye nokuba ubunobuntu bunokubunjwa ngokudibeneyo.
Uhlobo lohlobo lweNkokeli
Uhlobo olwamkelekileyo lubonakaliswa yimfuneko yokuxhasa rhoqo abanye.
Bavame ukuba ngabantu abahluphekayo, abahluphekileyo, kunye nokuxhomekeka ngokupheleleyo kwabanye. Aba bantu bafuna inkxaso rhoqo kwiintsapho, abahlobo kunye nabanye, kodwa abayifumani kwakhona le nkxaso.
Iindidi zokuthobela nazo zithintela ukuzithemba ngamakhono abo kwaye zinexesha elinzima lokwenza izigqibo.
Abantu abakhulayo kwimindeni ephazamisayo kunye nokulawula ngokuqhelekileyo banamathuba okuba baxhomekeke kuluntu.
Uhlobo lomntu oxhaphazayo
Uhlobo lokuxhaphaza lukulungele ukuqamba amanga, ukukopela, nokuphatha abanye ukuze bafumane oko bafuna. Ukuze bazalise imfuno yabo yokubamba iqela, banokufuna abantu abanokuzithoba okanye baxoxe ngokuthanda umntu ongenakhathalele ngokwenene. Ezi ntlobo zithatha oko zifuna okanye ngokunyanzela okanye ukukhohlisa kwaye zixhaphaze abanye abantu ukuba zihlangabezane neemfuno zabo zobugovu.
Uhlobo lohlobo oluxhasayo
Uhlobo oluthile luhlangabezana nokungakhuselekanga ngokungalokothi luhlukane nantoni na. Ngokuqhelekileyo baqokelela inani elikhulu lempahla kwaye babonakala bekhathalele ngakumbi ngezinto zabo eziphathekayo kunokuba benze ngabantu.
Uhlobo lohlobo lokuthengisa
Uhlobo lothengiso lubheka ubudlelwane ngokobungenako ukufumana ngokutshintshiselana. Basenokugxila ekutshatweni komntu ngemali okanye kwindawo yezenhlalakahle kwaye bathambekele ekubeni nobunzima obungabonakaliyo. Ezi ntlobo zivame ukuba zilungelelaniso kwaye zitshintshe iinkolelo zabo kunye nezithethe ngokuxhomekeke kwinto abacinga ukuba ziya kubafumana ngaphambili.
Uhlobo lohlobo oluvelisayo
Uhlobo oluvelisayo ngumntu othabatha iimvakalelo zabo ezimbi kunye neziteshi amandla kumsebenzi ovelisayo.
Bajolise ekwakheni uthando, ukukhulisa, kunye nolwalamano olunxulumene nabanye abantu. Oku akusebenzi nje kuphela ubudlelwane bokuthandana, kodwa nakwabanye ubudlelwane beentsapho, ubuhlobo kunye nolwalamano oluntu. Zihlala zichazwe njengeqabane elihle, umzali, umhlobo, umlingani kunye nomqeshwa. Kwimizekelo emihlanu yeentlobo ezichazwe ngu-Fromm, uhlobo oluvelisayo luphela yindlela efanelekileyo yokujongana noxinzelelo olubangelwa ukungqubana phakathi kwenkululeko nenkululeko yokubamba