Ezinye zeeNkcazo eziqhelekileyo
Iingcamango zinokumangalisa, ezingaqhelekanga, zididekile, okanye zidibanise. Ngaba wake wabelane ngephupha kunye nabahlobo bakho kwaye waphawula ukuba abantu abaninzi babika ukuba baneentlobo ezifanayo okanye ezifanayo zamaphupha?
Iingcamango zibonisa ukukhathazeka malunga nobomi bemihla ngemihla
Ngokomphengululi wephupha uCalvin Hall, oqokelele kwaye wahlaziya amaphupha angaphezu kwe-10,000, ininzi lamaphupha ethu athetha ukukhathazeka ngobomi bemihla ngemihla.
Imali, isikolo, umsebenzi, intsapho, abahlobo kunye nempilo zizinto ezimbalwa zezinto eziqhelekileyo abantu abaphuphayo ngazo.
Yintoni abaphandi abaye bayayiqaphela kukuba kukho inani "leengongoma zephupha" ezinokuthi ziqheleke kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo. Iziganeko ezinjengokuxoshwa, ukuwa, okanye ukuhamba kunye noluntu ziqhelekile ngokuqhelekileyo kubantu abavela kwihlabathi lonke.
Ziziphi ezinye iincwadi eziye zafunyanwa ngabaphandi?
Nazi ezinye iinombolo zophando abaphandi abazitholayo:
- Abantu bavame ukuphupha ngeziganeko ezimbi ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokuba zenze ntoni ngeemeko ezilungileyo. Ngokomzekelo, abantu banakho ukuphupha malunga nokuhlaselwa okanye ingxabano kunokutshintshisana nomnye umntu.
- I-stimuli yangaphandle ihlala ichaphazela amaphupha. Ngokomzekelo, umntu olala egumbini elitshisa ngokwenene angase aphuphe malunga nokuba kwi-sauna okanye ukhonxwe kwintlango ehlambulukileyo engenamanzi. Ukuba iwashi yakho ye-alamu iyacima, unokufaka nje ingxolo kwibali lephupha lakho kunokuba uvuselele isandi.
- Amaphupha omntu athambekele ekudibaniseni, kodwa abafazi banokukwazi ukuphupha malunga nokuba ngamaxhoba obundlobongela okanye ukuhlaselwa ngokomzimba.
Iingqumbo eziqhelekileyo kwiinkcubeko
Ngoko zeziphi ezinye zezinto eziqhelekileyo abantu abaphuphayo ngazo? Kwisifundo esinye esakhangela ukungafani phakathi komxholo wephupha labafundi baseMerika nabafundi baseJapan, abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba:
- Ukuxoshwa okanye ukuhlaselwa ngumzimba kwakuyinto ebalulekileyo kakhulu yokuphupha kwi-American and Japanese students.
- Eminye iminqophiso emihlanu ephakamileyo yokuphupha yayiwa, iphindaphinda isenzo ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ukuhambelana nesikolo, umzekelo, malunga nootitshala, abafundi okanye umsebenzi wesikolo, kunye neqhwaba kunye noyiko.
- Ezinye iziganeko zephupha eziqhelekileyo kubafundi kwiintlanga zombini zibandakanya isondo, ukukhawuleza kweso siganeko esibalulekileyo, kubone abantu abafayo njengokuba bephila kunye nokufa kwabathandekayo.
- Okumangalisa kukuba, ezinye zeengongoma eziphambili zephupha zaziquka ukundiza, ukuhluleka ukuvavanya nokuhamba.
Iphupha elingavamile mhlawumbi aliqhelekanga
Ngexesha elizayo unayo into ebonakala ngathi yiphupha elingavamile, khumbula oku: awukho yedwa. Kukho iincwadi ezininzi apho ukuze uzame ukutolika umfanekiso ophuphayo wamaphupha ukuze ufune iinguqu ezifihlakeleyo, ezingaqondi. Kodwa kukho konke, iphupha lakho mhlawumbi lihambelana nento ethile yobomi bakho bemihla ngemihla kwaye inokwenzeka ukuba ikwabelana ngezinto ezifanayo kunye namanye amaphupha abantu.
Funda Okunye Ngeengcamango
Ngaba ufuna ukufunda okungaphezulu ngamaphupha? Ngoko ungaphuthelwa oku:
- Kutheni sifuna?
- Ziyintoni Iingcamango?
- Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zeengcamango
- Iimpawu Eziqhakamshelayo Ngeengcamango
Imithombo:
U-Empson, J. (2002) Ukulala nokuphupha (3 mhlaka .). ENew York: iPalgrave / St. Press Martin.
IHolo, CS & Van de Castle, uRL (1966). Uhlalutyo lwamaphupha . ENew York: Appleton-Century-Crofts.