I-BPD inokunyusa ingozi yomfundi wekholejini yokungaphumeleli
Ekubeni ukuphazamiseka komntu ongenamkhawulo kwandisa ingxaki yokuba umntu uya kuba nobunzima ngokulandela izicwangciso zeenjongo kunye neenjongo, abafundi beekholeji ze-BPD bangazama ukuphumelela esikolweni. Umfundi one-BPD angabhalisa kwiiklasi zonke eziwayo zizele ziinjongo ezilungileyo, kuphela ukuyeka ukuya eklasini okanye ukwenza umsebenzi kakuhle ngaphambi kokuba i-semester iphele.
Abantu abanomgca-mgca banokuthi baxakeke njengabahlobo babo kunye nosapho ngenxa yokungaphumeleli ukugqiba ixesha lesikolo.
Abathandekayo babo bangathi ngomfundi, "Unengqondo, uyakwazi kwaye wayenomdla wokuqala kweeklasi." Basenokuthi, "Wenza kakuhle eklasini aze aqonde kakuhle loo nto."
AbaFundi beeNgcaciso beeNdawo banokuQala ngokuQala esikolweni
Uninzi lwabafundi abanomda ongasemgangathweni bangaqala ukwenza kakuhle esikolweni, kodwa ngezinye iinkalo, ukusebenza kwabo kungathatha ithuba elibi kakhulu. Umfundi unokuthi alahlekelwe ngumdla kwisikolo ngokukhawuleza okanye aphelelwe yintlungu ngenxa yokuba akanakuphumelela. Abanye abafundi baqala ukukholelwa ukuba ootitshala nabafundi abafunda nabo ababanqweneli okanye bafunayo eklasini, okwenza kube nzima ukuba baqhubeke bebonisa.
Inani lezinto ezinokubangela ukuba lunokuchaphazela umntu onobungozi bomntu ongenamkhawulo ukungaphumeleli kwiikholeji okanye kwiinkqubo zoqeqesho. Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo ze- BPD , njengokungabikho kwengqiqo yokuzimela, ukuziphatha okuzikhukhumezayo, ukuxhamla, ubudlelwane obuzinzileyo kunye nokwesaba ukulahlelwa, ngamnye unokudlala indima, kunye nokudandatheka kunye nokuxhalaba.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiyiphi inkokhelo, abafundi abanomdla wokufunda esikolweni banokuxhamla xa ikhosi okanye abaqeqeshi behluleka ukukhawuleza. Ukuyeka, kungakhathaliseki ngenjongo okanye ngokungagqibekanga, kunokubonakala ngathi kukuphela kwenketho. Ukuhlawulela ixesha elingaphumelelanga lezemfundo, umfundi ongenamkhawulo angenza isigqibo sokuba abhalise iiklasi ezininzi kangangoko kwixesha elizayo lokufumana.
Kodwa esi sigqibo sinokufumana iresiphi yenhlekelele.
Isicwangciso esiyiyo sokuphumelela
Kubalulekile ukuba isicwangciso semfundo esinqamlekileyo senzeke ngokuqinisekileyo emva kokuncitshiswa kwezifundo. Ukuqwalasela "ukukhawuleza nokugqiba" kunokumisela umntu ukuba angaphumeleli. Esikhundleni sokuthabatha iiklasi ezininzi, ubhalise kwiklasi enye okanye ezimbini ezingenamandla kakhulu. Ukuhamba kwexesha lokubamba iqela kuya kusasa abafundi beemida ekujoliswe kuzo ekujoliswe kuzo, kwaye banako ukunyusa imithwalo yabo yokuqhuba kwelinye ixesha lesikolo.
Abafundi bee-borderline kufuneka bajolise ekudaleni indawo yokuhlala yokuxhasa ukuphumelela kwizifundo. Ukufuduka okanye ukunyuka kwi-dorm nabangamaziyo kunokudala ukuphazamiseka okubangelwa yingozi ekuphazamiseni izicwangciso ezicwangcisiweyo. Nangona kungenakulungeleka, abafundi abaxhomekeke kumda kufuneka baqikelele ngokuhlala behlala kwindawo yabo yokuphila ukuze baphucule iziganeko zabo zokugqwesa esikolweni.
Abafundi bafanele bagcine yonke into ngokufanelekileyo. Izigqibo umfundi ayenayo ukuba liphumelele kwikota elinye liyakwazi ukuhlaziywa kwithuba nganye elizayo. Kungcono ukucwangcisa ukuthatha into encinci, kwaye ngendlela ekhuselekileyo nekhuselekileyo, endaweni yokusilela kwakhona.
Abafundi bee-borderline kufuneka baxoxe ngezicwangciso zabo nomntu abathembayo, njengomgqirha .
Ingcali iyakwazi ukuchonga iinkalo ezinokuba yingxaki ngecebo. Ngokubambisana, umfundi kunye neengcali zingasebenzisa iimvakalelo ezimbi, iimeko zokulawulwa kwexesha kunye nokuhlala zijolise kwiinjongo ezigqwesileyo.