Ukuphuhliswa komzimba kwasebuncinaneni kubandakanya ukukhula ngokomzimba kunye nophuhliso lwezakhono. Bobabini abazali nabahlengikazi bahlala bejonge ngokuphuhliswa ngokwenyama ukuze baqinisekise ukuba abantwana badibana nemigangatho ethile yokuphucula ngokwenyama njengoko beqhubeka kwiminyaka emihlanu yokuphila.
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Ukuphuhliswa komzimba ngexesha leminyaka emancinci kubandakanye intuthuko enkulu kwizakhono ezizenzekelayo kunye nezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi.
Ukuhamba, ngokusobala, ngenye yezona zinto ziphawulekayo ezibalulekileyo, apho abantwana abaninzi banokufikelela ngexesha eliphakathi kweenyanga ezili-12 neye-15. Kungekudala, abancinci baqala ukubonisa ubuninzi bezakhono eziphambili eziquka ukuhamba ngasemva, ukujikijela ibhola, ukugxuma endaweni, nokukhwela i-tricycle. Iintsana nazo ziba nzima kakhulu kwimisebenzi efuna ukuhamba kakuhle kweemoto ezifana nokubhala, ukubethelela iibhloko, ukusebenzisa i-spoon, nokusela kwendebe.
Isidingo sokuzimela siyakhula ngexesha leminyaka emancinci, ngoko ke abantwana beli lizwe bazimisele ukuzenza izinto ngokwabo. Ingxaki, ngokucacileyo kukuba, ngelixa banokuba nomnqweno wokwenza izinto ngokuzimela, kaninzi ababanalo izakhono zokwenza njalo. Ngenxa yokuba abantwana bahlala bengenalo ikhono okanye ulwazi lokwenza izinto abafuna ukuzenza, bahlala bexhalabile xa befumanisa bengakwazi ukufeza imisebenzi efana nokwenza i-shirt.
Ukuqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqheko kwinto eqhelekileyo kule minyaka, kwaye abazali bebancinci bavame ukujwayela ukuva "Hayi" basebenzisa amaxesha amaninzi ngosuku. Abazali kufuneka bancedise ukuzimela ngokuzimela kunye nezakhono zokuxhobisa ngokunika abantwana imisebenzi abakwazi ukuyenza ngokuzimela okanye ngokuncediswa ngabantu abadala.
Ukuzondla
Iintsana nazo ziba namandla ngakumbi ekuzisondiseni, kwaye abantwana abaninzi banokumisela ukutya ukutya ngaphandle komntu omdala. Ukuzondla kubalulekile kwizizathu ezininzi. Akuncedi nje umntwana ukuba asebenzise ukusebenzisa izandla kunye neminwe, inceda ekuzimele ukuzimela. Inkqubo yokuzondla iqala ngokuqalwa kokutya komnwe okanye ukubethelwa okuncinci kokutya anokuzikhethela yena. Ingaba yinto ephazamisayo, kodwa xa umntwana eqala ukuthabatha kwaye azondle ngokwabo ukutya okuncinci, kungase kube yithuba lokuqalisa izitsha kwiinkqubo.
Kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba umntwana ngamnye uhlukile kwaye ukuba abantwana bafikelela kwiziganeko zentuthuko kumaxesha ahlukeneyo. Nangona omnye umntwana engase akulungele ukuqala ukufunda ukufunda kunye nokupheka eliphakathi kweminyaka elilodwa, omnye umntwana angadinga iinyanga ezimbalwa ukuba alungele ukuthatha le nyathelo. Ukuba umntwana ufikelele kwindawo apho enqaba ukuvumela abantu abadala ukuba bamondle kwaye uzama ukubamba i-spoon ngaphandle komntu omdala, mhlawumbi ulungele ukuqala ukusebenzisa izinto ezisebenzisayo. Nangona ixesha lokutya linga kuthatha ixesha elide kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo liza kuba ngumsizi omkhulu, eli linyathelo elibalulekileyo ekuphuhlisweni.