Ukusingatha intsapho ngexesha leeholide: Ngubani ozakujonga kunye nendlela yokuphatha ngayo
Iholide linamathuba amaninzi okubambisana kunye nosapho, kodwa ngeli xesha lonyaka linokubonisa uxinzelelo olubalulekileyo, ngakumbi xa kuvela ingxabano yosapho. Ezinye iingxabano zivela ekubeni zigqibe isigqibo sokuba zeziphi iindwendwe zokubona, ukuba zikhona. Nazi ezinye iindlela zokwahlula ixesha lakho phezu kweeholide kwaye uphathe iingxabano kunye noxinzelelo lweeholide oluya kuvela.
Thatha uguquka nezihlobo
Ukuba wena kunye nomlingane wakho nifuna ukubhiyozela kunye neentsapho zenu ezivela kwimvelaphi, xa nithe nisingatha imeko yomtshato apho kungekhona wonke umntu ofuna ukugubha kunye kunye okanye ukuba unentsapho eninzi, kunokugxininisa ukugqiba ukuba ngubani na ongayibona, kwaye nini. Ukuguquka isisombululo esilula. Ukuba ubona iqela elinye ngoNovemba, khangela enye ngoDisemba, okanye enye iminyaka. Emva koko unokubona wonke umntu.
Imibhiyozo yoMkhosi KwiNdlu Yakho
Ukuba uxinzelelo lokuhamba unyaka ngamnye lukhulu kunokuba ungathanda ukuluphatha, unokufuna ukuba neentsapho ekuyeni kwieholide. Esi sinesisombululo esihle xa unamaqela amaninzi okanye izalamane zijika ngokubona: mema wonke umntu ukuba abhiyoze kunye kunye, kwaye uya kufumana wonke umntu ngokuqhelekileyo. Ngoxa le nto ayiyi kusebenza kuyo yonke imeko, inokwakha izibophelelo phakathi kwamaqela eentsapho ezingazi kakuhle kakuhle.
Hlalani Nilungelelwano Olunye Ulwaphulo
Ukuba uhlala uxabana xa udibana kunye nosapho lwakho, yinto efanelekileyo yokuzilungiselela. Andiyicetyisi ukuba uya kukhangela inkxalabo, kodwa kunoko, jongene nale meko ngombono wokungokoqobo. Ukuba unyoko uhlala egxekisa imbonakalo yakho okanye umzalwana wakho uhlala ewenza amahlaya angenangqondo, ungalindelanga ukuba batshintshe imikhwa yabo; Mane ube nombono ngehlazo kwaye ukhumbuze oko uthandayo ngabo.
La manqaku malunga nokujongana nabantu abanobunzima nokusingatha imfazwe inokukunceda.
Yithi Cha
Ukuba ukubona intsapho kukubangela ubuninzi bexinzelelo kunyaka ngamnye, kulungile ukuthi hatshi ngamanye amaxesha. Ukubhiyozela kunye neqabane lakho okanye abantwana bakho kungaba yinto ekhethekileyo yokubona abantu abakwenza uzive uhlale uxinekile.
Zizungeze kunye nabahlobo
Zininzi ieholide ezonwabileyo zenziwe ngamacandelo abantu abaye banquma ukubhiyozela nabahlobo endaweni yentsapho. Ingaba awukwazi ukuhamba (okanye usapho lwakho), okanye ngesizathu esithile uzifumana ungenazo izihlobo, ukubhiyozela nabanye abantu obaziyo abangenayo intsapho kwimihla ingaba yindlela enkulu yokubambisana nabahlobo kwaye banandiphe umoya wonyaka.