Iinyanga ezibonakalayo zinokuzisa ezininzi iinzuzo
Nangona ngo-Matshi yiNyanga yokuSebenza, naliphi na inyanga inokuba nethuba lokwakha ukuthambekela kwakho ekuxhaseni ithemba, kwaye uvune ezininzi iingenelo ezivela kulo. Ixabiso linxulumene neenzuzo ezininzi ebomini, kuquka ukunyuka kwezempilo, ulonwabo kunye nobomi obude. Yaye nangona ukuthambekela kokuthembela kuyingcipheko ngenxa yezinto ezizalwe ngamazalwa ezinjengokuvuleka ukuva novumelwane, iipateni zokucinga ezinokuthi ziphuhliswe naluphi na ixesha ngexesha lobomi bakho kwaye zingazisa ezi ntlawulo nazo.
Ukugxila ekuphuhliseni le migaqo yokucinga ingathatha ixesha elincinane, ngoko kugxininisa kubo kwinyanga ethile kunokukunceda wenze lo mkhuba wobomi. Makhe sibone ngokufutshane malunga nokuba kutheni kuthatha ukuthatha ixesha kunye nemizamo yokwenza oku.
Iinjongo Zokuzikhethela Wena
Abantu bahlala becinga ukuba abo banethemba lokuba banokulindela okulungileyo kuba bengakhange badideke ngenxa yeengxaki ezithintekayo. Okanye mhlawumbi bayonwabile ngakumbi kuba sele benokubanandipha ngakumbi. Nangona kunjalo, uphando lubona ukuba abo banethemba lokuba bathe babe nolonwabo ngakumbi ngenxa yeenzuzo abazuzayo ngokuxhomekeka kwabo, kwaye kungekhona ukuba bahlala benethemba lokuba baye bafumana ubomi obulula.
Ezi ziindaba ezilungileyo kuba zivula iingenelo zokuba nethemba kuye nabani na ofuna ukutshintsha indlela yabo. Ezi zinzuzo ziquka impumelelo enkulu, impilo engokwenyama nangokomzwelo, kunye nokuhlala ixesha elide, uxinzelelo oluncinci kunye nokunye.
Kutheni Ubhiyozela Iinyanga Ezibonakalayo?
Ngoxa unako ukugxila ekuxhaseni naliphi na ixesha ukususela kumzuzwana uze uphuculise amava akho angaphandle nangaphakathi, ugxininise ekuxhaseni kwenyanga epheleleyo kunokukunceda ukuba wenze okungakumbi kwinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi bakho. Oku kuyinyaniso ngezizathu ezininzi:
- Ithemba lininzi ngaphezu kokujonga kwicala elikhanyayo. Ukuba nethemba elingakumbi kunokubandakanya uhlolisise iipatheni zakho zokucinga, ukugqiba ngeendlela ezintsha zokufumana, ukuphucula imikhwa emitsha kunye nezinye izenzo. Oku kungathatha ixesha.
- Izenzo zithatha ixesha lokuphuhlisa, nokuba sithetha ngemikhwa yokucinga okanye ngemikhwa yokuziphatha. Zomibini iintlobo zemiqathango inokukunceda ukuba ube nethemba elingakumbi, ngoko kunceda ukuzipha iiveki ezimbalwa ukuqinisa le miba entsha yobomi bakho.
- Ezinye iinguqu zinokusebenza kangcono kunabanye. Ukuba usichitha inyanga ujolise ekwenzeni utshintsho oluthembekileyo kwizinto zobomi bakho, oku kukunika ithuba lokuzama ukulahla izinto ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba ulungelelanise utshintsho oluza kusebenza kakuhle kuwe. (Oku kuyinyaniso ukuba ngaba ugxininise ithemba, unonwabo, ukukhululeka kwengcinezelo, okanye nayiphi na into efuna utshintsho.)
Indlela yokubhiyozela
Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokubhiyozela iNyanga efanelekileyo kwaye yenza ukuba isebenze ngokupheleleyo. Khumbula, ngoMashi yiNyanga efanelekileyo yeNgqungquthela, kwaye ungasebenzisa ukuphakama kweqela ngokujoyina nabanye ukugubha ithemba xa uyigcina ngoMatshi. Nangona kunjalo, uyamkeleka ukwenza nayiphi na inyanga inyanga oye ugxininise kwithemba (okanye uqale ugxininise kwithemba elininzi), kwaye unako ukufumana abahlobo ukuba badibanise nawe, ngoko ungavumeli umhla ungalinciphisa. Oko, ngokukodwa, unokwenza ukubhiyozela, nantsi ezinye iimbono, ngasinye sinokuthi sitshintshe:
- Funda malunga nokuba nethemba kwaye akunjalo . Oku kuya kwenza kube lula kuwe ukwazi ukuba yiyiphi indlela omele uhambe ngayo.
- Hlola indlela ocinga ngayo, kwaye ubone oko unokutshintsha .
- Ukuphuhlisa umkhono wokunyusa ithemba: gcina iphepha lokubonga , iphepha lokuzimela , okanye ibhodi yomboniso .
- Khangela emva koko uphinde uphinde uhlolisise lakho elidlulileyo ngamehlo angakumbi.
- Ziqhelise ezinye iindlela zokuphila zemihla ngemihla .