Fumana ngokwakho kwezi zifundo eziguquguqukayo kunye nokuguqulwa kwengqondo
Ukuba uyayithanda iphunga lencwadi esithengiweyo, ukuchithwa komgudu wayo njengoko uvula ikhava okokuqala, okanye isenzo esilula sokuguqula iphepha elitsha lomntu, uyazi ukuba kukho into ekhethekileyo ngokufunda.
Zonke iintlobo zeencwadi zinamandla phezu kwethu, kodwa ezinye zinokusinceda kwiindlela ezininzi ezinokwenza izinto kunye nezesevisi, ezizezona zincwadi zohlobo lwezoncedo. Ezi ncwadi zinokukunceda ufumane ukuthanda kwakho ebomini, kukufundise indlela yokuqinisa ubuhlobo bakho, okanye uchaze indlela onokubuyisela ngayo kwakhona ngokomoya, phakathi kwezinye izihloko eziguqula ubomi.
Ezi ncwadi zentuthuko yomuntu siqu zivela ngokukhawuleza, zifundeka lula kwiincwadi zokufunda kunye neencwadi zeetafile zekhofi. Omnye ujonge kwi-self-help section kwi-bookstore, nangona kunjalo, kwaye ukuhlenga kwiingxabano kunokuziva ngathi akunakwenzeka. Yilapho singena khona: sizenzele iincwadi ezizodwa zokuncedisa kwiimarike ngoku ngoku kukunceda ukuba ufumane enye (okanye ezimbini okanye ezintathu) kufuneka udibanise kwiheyilethi yakho elandelayo.
Abaninzi bacinga ukuba u-Eckhart udibanise enye yeenkokheli ezicingileyo zethu ngexesha lethu. Ngaphambi koMhlaba omtsha , uTolle wabhala I-Power Now , i-best-seller kwaye kufuneka ifunde. Isizathu sokuba umhlaba omtsha wenze olu luhlu lulula: luya ngaphaya kokufundisa indlela yokuphila ngexesha kwaye linceda abafundi bafunde indlela yokuguqula iintlungu zabo ngoxolo. Zonke iintlobo zokubandezeleka zibhekiswe kwincwadi, kwintlungu kunye nentlungu kuba nomona kunye nokuxhalabisa.
Ukuxolisa kuthetha kakhulu nge-ego nendlela yokuzihlukanisa ngayo. Imizekelo yakhe kunye nezenzo ezikhuthazwayo azikho nje i-hocus pocus; bayasebenza kwaye nantoni na into enokuyenza. Ingakhathaliseki ukuba usizi lwakho lube nomona, umsindo, intlungu, ukudabuka, ukuxhalabisa, okanye ukudandatheka, ukunyamezela kuya kukunceda ubone ubomi obuvela kwimibono eyahlukeneyo, ukuvuselela injongo yakho yobomi. Le ncwadi inkulu njengendawo yokubhekisela, nayo. Abo bathabatha ikhophi bayayifunda ngaphambili baze babuyele kwakhona ngamazwi kaTolle ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Abanye baya kuwugcina ngobusuku babo bombane baze bafake isahluko xa beziva ukuba imithwalo ethe xaxa ihamba kwaye ingasebenzisa amanye amagama obulumko.
Kude kakhulu, ukwesaba kuzuza okusemandleni ethu. U-Sincero unceda abafundi ukuba bahambe ngaphaya kweso soyiko kwiNew York Times Bestseller. Yintoni eyenza le ncwadi yokuncedisa ngaphandle kwezinye iindawo zokuzibandakanya zokugqibela-zesahluko.
Esikhundleni sokushiya incwadi ngaphandle kwaye uvumele ukuba iqoke uthuli emva kokuba ufunde iphepha lokugqibela, uya kuphefumlelwa ukuba ubuyele kwaye ucinge ngemisebenzi yangaphambili eyaphendule kuyo. Ukuzivocavoca kwakhona kugxotha ekhaya amaqonga uSincero enza ngokubhala kwakhe. Xa uziva udibanise kwintembelo yakho, ukubuyela ekungeneni kwakho kuya kufaka i-positive spin ngosuku lwakho kwaye kukukhumbuze ukuba kutheni ufanele uzibonise ngokwakho uthando. Qinisekisa ukuba ukhangele incwadi ka-Sincero yokulandelelana: Uyi-Badass ekwenzeni imali .
Abaninzi baye bafunda, okanye ubuncinane bayivile, Imilinganiselo e-7 yabantu abaPhezulu ngokuphumelelayo nguStephen Covey. U-Covey unyana kaSean walandela ezinyathelweni zakhe, wenza i-spinoff version kubaselula abasisebenzisa imigaqo efanayo ukubanceda abantu abadala ukuba bafunde iindawo zokuphila zabo.
Ukwenza le ncwadi yokuzinceda ngokwaneleyo kwaye imnandi ukuyifunda, uCovey uyaphula isicatshulwa kunye neetoto, izicaphuno, ukucamngca imibono kunye namabali avela kubantwana bokwenene ukuzisa le ncwadi ndawonye. Iimpawu ezi-7 zeeNtloko eziPheleleyo zibandakanya izihloko ezinjengomfanekiso womzimba, ubuhlobo, ubudlelwane, ukubeka iinjongo, uxinzelelo lwaontanga, ukuxhatshazwa, ukhuseleko lwe-intanethi nokunye okuninzi. Nika le ncwadi kumntwana wakho oselula, intombi, umntakwabo, umntakwabo okanye umzukulu. Yiyo i-keepsake epheleleyo yokudlulela ezantsi kwizizukulwana ezizayo zolutsha, nazo.
I-Deepak Chopra ngu-self-help guru yexesha lethu kwaye nayiphi na incwadi yakhe inokucetyiswa ngezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo. Yintoni Olambileyo? kuya kunceda ubone ubuhlobo bakho kunye nokutya ngokukhanya okutsha.
Nangona le ncwadi yokuncedisa ingabonwa njengesikhokelo sokuncedisa ukulahleka kwesisindo, kunene kakhulu. UChopra uthetha ngokunciphisa umzimba kwaye unika nesinconyiso esihle kakhulu sokutya. Kodwa ucinga ngokugqithiseleyo ekucingeni emva komnqweno wethu wokufuna le nguqulelo, kwaye ukuzaliseka kukuphambili kweli ngxabano. Ekubeni ukuguqulwa akulula kubaninzi, le ncwadi inika iingcebiso ezininzi zokulungiselela ukulungiselela abafundi ukuba banqwenele iinjongo zabo kwiinjongo zabo. Ukudibanisa imvakalelo kwizinto ozilindeleyo ebomini, ezinxulumene nempilo okanye okunye, kwenza kube lula ukuhlala kwiklasi xa uhamba uya kuba nzima.
Umxholo weli ncwadi unika ingqiqo enkulu entliziyweni yencwadi: Indlela yokuyeka ukukhathazeka, ukukhulula uxhalabisayo nokuphelisa ukucinga okubi. Declutter Ingqondo Yakho yincwadi enezandla kakhulu kunye nomfundi wayo kwaye ugcwele imizekelo eyahlukeneyo yokubandakanya ingqondo yakho. Uza kufunda izizathu zengqondo yeengqondo, indlela yokutshintsha iingcamango ezingalunganga kwizinto ezintle, izicwangciso zokunceda ubudlelwane obuqilileyo, indlela yokuchonga oko kubalulekile kuwe, ukubaluleka kokucamngca, indlela yokubeka umgomo kunye nokunye okuninzi.
Ukuba uziva ukhululekile uxinzelelo, ukukhathazeka, okanye ukuxhalabisa, le ncwadi enamandla iya kwenza inxaxheba ekunikezeni iindlela ezahlukeneyo, iingcebiso kunye neengcaphephe zokujongana nengqondo engapheliyo. Ababuyekezi baqaphele ukuba banokuthandwa kangakanani na ukusetyenziswa okusebenzayo kwincwadi kunye nokuba ababhali bezobambiswano banikela ngaphezu kweentshumayelo ngokubaluleka kokuphila ngengqondo nangomzuzu.
Ngesizathu esinye okanye esinye, ezinye zacinywa nguGilbert's Bestselling Eat Pray Pray Love . Kodwa ungakuvumeli ukuba oko kukujikise ekufundeni ezinye izinto, ngokukodwa, iBig Magic . Ukuba ungumculi okanye umdali waluphi na uhlobo kwaye unzima ukukhusela okukuthintela ukusukela ekufowuneni kwakho ngokupheleleyo, uya kufuna ukunika oku kufundwe.
Ukususela ekudaleni imikhuba (kunye nokukhupha abantu abadala) ukunqoba ukwesaba nokuzungezela nabantu abanjengomntu ofanayo, uGilbert utshitshisa isikhonkwane ekhanda njengoko ekhupha izithintelo umntu onokuyilungele ukujamelana nazo ekuphishekeleni amaphupha akhe. Inkolelo yakhe, incoko, ingabikho-BS iya kukhanyisela umlilo emphefumlweni wakho, kwaye kukunceda ukuba ube nomphambili kuwe malunga nezinto ozifunayo ebomini. Okugqithiseleyo kule ncwadi kukusetyenziswa kwemizekelo yangempela yempilo evela kwindoda kunye nabasetyhini abahlala kulo lonke ilizwe abaye banyamezela ubunzima babo.
U-Oprah ngukosikazi we-intanethi yodliwano-ndlebe kunye neenkokheli zehlabathi, oogqirha, oogqirha kunye nezinye iinkokeli ezicingayo. Ubulumko beeCawa zithatha i-best-of-best in ezi ngxoxo kwaye zidibanisa zibe zifundo eziphakanyisayo.
Incwadi ngamaphepha angama-240 agcwele izitekisi ezivela ku-Oprah ngokubhekisele ekutshintsheni ubomi. Abalobi kwi -Wisdom yeeCawa baquka uShonda Rimes, uCheryl Strayed, uTony Robbins, uTchch Nhat Hahn, uWayne Dyer, kunye nezinye ezininzi. Ababuyekezi bale ncwadi batusa ukuthatha ixesha lakho kunye nephepha ngalinye ngabanye ukuze uqinisekise ukuba awuyi kugqitha ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na ingcamango ebalulekileyo kunye nengcamango ngaphakathi.
Ukwazisa
Ngengqondo, abalobi bethu beengcali bazibophezele ekuphandeni nasekubhaliseni iimpendulo ezizimeleyo nezihleliweyo zeemveliso ezilungileyo kubomi bakho nakwintsapho yakho. Ukuba uthanda oko sikwenzayo, unokusinceda ngokusebenzisa iinqununu zethu ezikhethiweyo, ezithatha ikhomishini.