Ukubonisa imiqondiso kunye neempawu
Nangona abaninzi abantu bacinga ukuxinezeleka ngenxa yokugula kwabantu abadala, abantwana kunye nabaselula banokuba nokudakumba. Ngelishwa, abaninzi abantwana abanexinzelelo abazange baphathwe ngenxa yokuba abantu abadala abaqapheli ukuba bacinezelekile.
Kubalulekile kubazali, ootitshala kunye nabanye abadala ukuba bafunde ngokudandatheka kwabantwana. Xa uqonda iimpawu zokudandatheka kunye nezizathu zokuphuhlisa abantwana, ungenelela ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Abantwana abaxhomekeke kuXinzelelo
Ngamanye amaxesha abantu abadala bacinga ukuba abantwana abafanele baxineke ngenxa yokuba akudingeki bakhathazeke ngemicimbi yabantu abadala, njengokuhlawula iindleko okanye ukuqhuba indlu.
Kodwa abantwana banokuxinezeleka kwakhona. Kwaye kunye nabantwana abaphila ubomi obunokuxinzeleleka kwengcinezelo banokuba noxinzelelo.
Abantwana abakhuliswa kumakhaya amahle nabazali abanothando banokudandatheka.
Ukunyanzeliswa kwabantwana kubonakala ezahlukeneyo
Nangona abantu abadala bexinezelekile bahlala bebukeka bebuhlungu, abantwana kunye nentsha yokudakumba ingabonakala ikhungathekile kwaye inomsindo .
Unokubona utshintsho ekuphatheni, njengokunyuka kokunyaniseka okanye ukuncipha kweebakala esikolweni.
Umntwana wakho unokugxininisa ukuba ulungile okanye angaphika ukuba uhlangabezana nazo iingxaki. Abazali abaninzi banqumla ukuphoxeka njengesigaba okanye bacinga ukuba yinxalenye yentuthuko evamile. Kodwa, ukucaphukisa okuhlala ixesha elide ngaphezu kweveki ezimbini kunokuba ngumqondiso wokudakumba.
Abanye abantwana abanexinzelelo bahlala bekhalazo. Bangabika i-stomachache ngaphezulu kunye neentloko ezingaphezu kweontanga zabo.
Abantwana Bangamelana Nokuthetha Ngezempilo Zengqondo
Abantwana abancinci baninzi banalo ulwazi lwezakhono zokubhala ulwimi. Basenokungakwazi ukuchaza indlela abavakalelwa ngayo okanye oko bahlangabezana nazo.
Abantwana abakhulileyo abanokuqonda kangcono into ekudandathelweyo kuthetha ukuba banentloni okanye banokukhathazeka ukuba bahluke.
Ngokuqhelekileyo kungcono ukubuza imibuzo eninzi. Endaweni yoko, gcina idayari elandelela utshintsho kwimoya okanye indlela ozijonga ngayo. Emva koko, uya kuba nerekhodi ecacileyo ukubonisa ugqirha ukuze ukwazi ukulungisa iingxaki zakho.
Unokhetho lwezokwelapha
Ngamanye amaxesha abazali bayesaba ukuba unyango lwexinzelelo luya kubandakanya imithi enzima. Kodwa, amayeza ayisoloko efunekayo ukuphathwa kwengcinezelo. Ukuthetha ngonyango kunokunye ukhetho.
Ekugqibeleni, kuya kubagcini ukuba banqume ukuba yeyiphi indlela yokwelashwa abafuna ukuyisebenzisa. Kubalulekile ukuba abazali kunye nabantwana bazifundise ngokweenyango kunye nobungozi obuhle kunye neenzuzo zenketho nganye.
Ukuba uyakrokrela ukuba umntwana wakho ucinezelekile, udokotela wezilwanyana yindawo efanelekileyo yokuqala. Cwangcisa i-aphoyintimenti kunye nogqirha uze uthethe ngeengxaki zakho.
Udokotela wezilwanyana unako ukulawula izinto ezinokwenyama zempilo ezinokuthi zibe negalelo kwiimpawu ozibonayo. Ukuba uvumelekile, umntwana wakho unokuthunyelwa kwi-professional health professional.
Uxinzelelo alukho uphawu lobuthathaka
Nawuphi na umntu unokuhlakulela ukudandatheka kwaye akusiyo uphawu lobuthathaka. Kwakhona akuyiyo iphoso xa umntwana wakho ecinezelekile.
Nangona iimeko ezixinzelelekileyo zobomi, njengokuqhawula umtshato, zinokubangela ukuba uxinzelelo, luyinto encinane nje yepuzzles. Ezinye izinto ezininzi, kuquka i-genetics, nazo zidlala indima.
Unako Ukusebenza Ngengqondo Yomntwana Wengqondo Yakho
Awukwazi ukuphelisa ukucindezeleka kubantwana rhoqo. Kodwa, ungathatha amanyathelo okuphucula impilo yengqondo yengane yakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuba unempilo yengqondo.
Thetha malunga nokunyamekela umzimba wakhe kunceda ingqondo yakhe. Ukutya ukutya okunomsoco, ukufumana ukutya okuninzi, nokulala inani elinconywayo leeyure nganye ubusuku obuhle kwimpilo yengqondo yakhe.
Ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuphucula ubomi obutyebi bentlalo ngaphandle kokucwangcisa ixesha lakhe. Ukunikezela uxanduva kwaye umvuzo ngenxa yokuba uxanduva.
Mfundise indlela yokusombulula iingxaki, ukulawula iimvakalelo zakhe ngendlela ephilileyo, nokuphuhlisa izicwangciso eziza kumnceda ukujamelana nokuhluleka kunye nokuncitshiswa. Xoxa ngempilo yakho yengqondo kwaye wenze uhlale unempilo ebalulekileyo kwintsapho yakho.
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