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Kubalulekile kwinqanaba lakho loxinzelelo kunye nesabelo sakho sokuzonwabisa ukuba unomsebenzi owodwa owenza rhoqo ukuzonwabisa. Izinto zokuzilibazisa kunye neminye imisebenzi ejabulisayo inika indlela ejabulisayo yokuphucula izakhono, ukuveza ubuchule bakho, okanye nje ukuvuthela umbane. Kwakhona, xa ufumana unomdla okwenzayo, unokwazi ukuza kuthiwa ujikeleze, apho ubuchopho bakho bukummandla osondeleyo, onokuzuza kumzimba wakho, ingqondo kunye nomphefumlo.
(Unokufunda ngakumbi malunga neenzuzo zokuqiqa kunye nokucamngca apha.)
Izinto zokuzilibazisa kunye nezinto ezonwabileyo kunokuvelisa uvuyo kunye nolonwabo ebomini, kwaye lunokuba yindlela enkulu yokunciphisa uxinzelelo. Enyanisweni, abaninzi abantu baxelele ukuba baqala ukufunda malunga nommandla wabo onomdla njengendlela yokwenza uxinzelelo, kwaye ukuba izinto zokuzilibazisa ziyaqhubeka ziba ngumthombo omkhulu wokuphumla nokuxinwa kwengcinezelo. Abanye abantu banako ukuguqula izinto zokuzilibazisa kwiimisebenzi ngexesha elithile, baze baphelise ngendlela yokuphila apho umsebenzi wabo ngumdlalo wabo.
Enye inzuzo yolonwabo yiphakamiso kwimoya engayenzayo. Ngaphandle nje kokuzisa iimvakalelo ezintle ebomini bakho, ukwenza izinto ezenza ukuba ube nomoya ongcono kunokwenza ube namandla ngakumbi ekukhathazeni. Le nto yenzelwe uphando njengenxalenye yengqondo ye-psychology-wide-build -ory; imisebenzi ephakamisa izinga lethu elichaphazelayo , okanye ukwandisa isimo sethu sengqondo esifanelekileyo, kunokusenza sibe nolwazi oluninzi kwizixhobo zobomi bethu ezinokusinceda sihlale sinamandla xa sibhekene noxinzelelo.
Xa sisazi ngakumbi ngezi zinto ezinokubakho, sithatha ukuzisebenzisa ngakumbi, ngelixa sakha ukuzinza kwaye sikhokelela ekunyuseni okunye okuchaphazelayo - oko kudla ngokuba kuthiwa "ukunyuka okuphezulu," okunokukunceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo okhoyo ngoku, kunye noxinzelelo oluzayo.
Ukuzonwabisa kwimisebenzi ehlaziyekileyo, eyaziwa njengolonwabo okanye imisebenzi eyenza umngeni kuwe ngendlela efanelekileyo, eyaziwa njenge- gratification , inokukhokelela ekukhuphukeni oku phezulu.
Ekugqibeleni, ukuzonwabisa nabanye kungabangela ingqiqo enxulumene nolwalamano oluqinisa ubudlelwane kunye nokwakha inkxaso yoluntu. Ukubambisana nabanye ngelixa kukuzonwabisa kukulungele wena, kunye nabasondeleyo kuwe. Kungaphezu kokuphishekela ngokuphangaleleyo; kubalulekile ukuba uphile kakuhle.
Ngaba uyaqiniseka okwamanje? Ukuba kunjalo, izixhobo ezilandelayo ziyakunceda ufumane ezintsha izinto ezithandekayo ezinokubakho uxinzelelo olukhulu. Uyakufumana kwakhona ulwazi malunga nendlela yokuqalisa ngayo.
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Fumana inzondo entsha kuloluhlu loxinzelelo lokunciphisa izinto zokuzilibazisa kunye nezixhobo ezinxulumene nazo. Ezi zinokukunzima ngendlela ekunciphiseni uxinzelelo, kwaye ezininzi zazo zakha ubuchule ngokunjalo.
Ukuxhaswa koxinzelelo
Ukuxinwa kwezixinzelelo kungakunceda ukuba udibanise kunye nomdlalo wakho wokuzonwabisa. Zikulungele ukuzama zodwa, kwaye ezininzi zazo zinkulu njengemisebenzi yeqela, ukuze ukwazi ukunceda ukukhulula uxinzelelo, kwaye uvumele abahlobo bakho okanye abantwana bajoyine kumnandi. Enye yezinto ezilungileyo malunga nokuxinwa kwengcinezelo yongcwangu kukuba kukuba kulula ukuyigcina.
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Ukuzonwabisa izinto ezinokuyilungela kungabalungela amaqondo akho, nokuba (mhlawumbi mhlawumbi ukuba) awuyena umntu ozijonga ngokugqithiseleyo ubuciko. Funda ngokubanzi malunga nokuba kutheni, kwaye ufumane imisebenzi yobugcisa ekhanga kuwe.