Ingaba iholide, isithuba esikhethekileyo, okanye usuku lokuzalwa, unokuzibuza ukuba uthenge ntoni kulabo abathandayo ebomini bakho obunokufumana okanye ukubuyisela ukukhubazeka kweziyobisi. Ukubuza into abayifunayo kunokuba yingxaki kuba izipho abazicelayo zingadibana nokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi, okanye zenze ukuba umlutha wabo ube mbi. Yaye ukuba bacela ngokuthe ngqo into ethile ehambelana nokusetyenziswa kwempahla yabo, njengemali, iziyobisi, okanye izixhobo zonyango, kunokukhokelela ekuxabaneni ngexesha ofuna ukuqinisa, ungabuthathaka, ulwalamano lwakho.
Nazi izizathu ezinhlanu eziphakamileyo zezipho zomntu ebomini bakho kunye nokusetyenziswa kwezidakamizwa ezingenakukwazi ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi okanye ukulimaza ukubuyiswa kwazo.
1 - Yabelana ngeZenzo
Abantu abaninzi abanokusetyenziswa kwezidakamizwa basebenze ngokukhawuleza bafumana amava kunye neentlalo zentlalo ngokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi. Ukukwabelana ngamava kunokuba yindlela enentsingiselo yokuchitha ixesha kunye nomntu onesifo sokusetyenziswa kwezidakamizwa. Uhlobo oluthile lwamava lungabavula nje ukuze babone ukuba ubomi buninzi. Kungaba yinto engafanelekanga, njengendiza ebhaleni lomoya oshisayo-ophezulu-okanye into elula njengokutya kwisitoretri esinikeza amava okuvavanya, okufana ne-cafe yokutya eluhlaza okanye enye ebonisa umculo ophilayo. Hlala kude neendawo ezikhonza utywala .
2 - Izipho zeMali ezingenakusetyenziswa kwizidakamizwa
Nangona imali ingasetyenziselwa iziyobisi kulabo abangenakho ukubuyisela, unako ukunika imali ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ukwenzela ukuba kungenakukufanelekela ukulahlekelwa ngumntu wakho othandekayo ukuzama ukuguqula imali ukuze uthenge iziyobisi. Imizekelo emihle izitifiketi zesipho okanye amakhadi wesipho, ngokukodwa kwizinto owaziyo abazifunayo. Unakho ukuhlawula into engenakukhishwa kuyo kodwa inokuphucula umgangatho wobomi, njenga-inshurensi yezempilo, ukubhaliswa kwemagazini, okanye inkqubo eqhubekayo yemfundo.
3 - IiGadi okanye iiKick Knacks eziHlangene neziDakamizwa
Esinye sezibheno ezinkulu zokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi sinento yokwenza ngezandla zakho. Kukho rhoqo umgaqo, nokuba isithethe , esihambelana nokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi ezingashiya izandla ezingenasiphelo. Amacandelo amancinci afana ne-spinner encinci, ene-handheld spinner, ibhola yokucindezeleka, okanye isixhobo somculo esifeza iimfuno ezifanayo. Iphazili encinci efana nekhamera yeRubik inokusebenza. Oku kuyindlela enhle ukuba ungenayo okanye unqwenela ukuchitha imali eninzi, kodwa ufuna ukunikela isipho esonwabisayo.
4 - IiMediya ezibonisa ukuNyuka kweNkqubo
Abantu abanenkinga yokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi bahlala bexhamla ubomi babanye kwimiba efanayo, ngakumbi ukuba umntu usebenzisa isicatshulwa esifanayo. Nangona ezinye iincwadi kunye nee-movie zizenza izipho ezingafanelekanga ngokuqinisa ukuzonwabisa kwindlela yokusebenzisa iziyobisi, abanye benza umsebenzi omkhulu wokubonisa indlela yokubuyisela, kubonisa ukuba abantu bangaphuma ngaphesheya. Omnye umzekelo kaBeorge's autobiographie-wathatha umxhwele kunye neLSD kunye ne-heroine kamva, kodwa waba neqholo njengoko ekhula. Enye i-movie "Yonke Yayihamba I-Pete Tong," into ehlekisayo kunye neyongqongqo kwaye ifikelela kwicala eliyingozi le-cocaine ukuxhaphaza ngaphandle kokushumayela kwaye ngaphandle kwecocaine yinto ephambili yefilimu. I-albhamu "Yokubuyisela" ye-Eminem yinto efanelekileyo.
Ezi zilandelayo ziibhayisikobho malunga neziyobisi, kodwa qaphela ukuba uzibuke ngokupheleleyo phambi kokuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba ngaba ungathumele umyalezo olungileyo kumntu wakho othandekayo:
- 5 ifilimu ye-acid
- 5 amafilimu ajabulisayo
5 - Iinjongo eziNcedo zoNcedo
Ukuba wakho umhlobo okanye othandekayo unomdla ekuziphatheni ngokuzenzekelayo ukuze aphinde aphuluke, umthombo okhethiweyo ngokunyanisekileyo ungabakhuthaza ukuba bazame ukufumana okanye basebenze ekuphuculeni indlela yabo yokuphila ngokubanzi. Uncedo ngokukhethekileyo iindlela zokufikelela kwiinjongo zokusetyenziswa kwezidakamizwa ngaphandle kweziyobisi. Ingqondo Yemvelo nguDkt Andrew Weil kunye neeRhafu zamaHhala: Indlela yokuPhakanyiswa ngaphandle kwezidakamizwa nguDouglas Rushkoff kunye noPatrick Wells yimizekelo emihle. UkuLawula Ukusela Kwakho NguWilliam Miller noRicardo Munoz yincwadi enkulu yokunceda ukunqunywa kotywala. Nangona kunjalo, qaphela ukuba le ncwadi ihambelana neenjongo zomntu ozithandayo okanye unokuziva ugwetywe kwaye unjengeyiphi na into enokuyiphatha ngayo i-agenda yakho kunokuba unike isipho sangempela.