Indlela Yokucebisa Utywala Lokubuyiswa Emva Kwenziwe I-Slip
Ukuba uzame ukuyeka ukusela okanye ukusebenzisa iziyobisi kodwa ubuyekezela, awuyedwa. Izibalo zibonisa ukuba ukuya kuma-90 ekhulwini abantu abazama ukuyeka baye bancipha kwakhona ngaphambi kokuba bafikelele ixesha elide.
Kwezinye iimeko, kunokuphela kwexesha elidlulileyo apho thina, ekujikelezeni izibonda, sibhekisela njengesiphelo. Ihluke ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngokukhawuleza ukuba umntu uyazisola ngokukhawuleza.
Kungaba ngumphumo wezinto ezenzeke ngokukhawuleza ngexesha okanye xa kugxininiswa komntu. Kodwa, ekugqibeleni ibonakaliswe kukuba umntu ufuna ukulungisa impazamo ngokukhawuleza.
Ngokwahlukileyo, ukuphindaphinda kubonisa ukuba umntu sele ebuyele ekuziphatheni komdala. Ngokuqhelekileyo isetyenziswe ukuchaza xa umntu ohlambele ixesha elithile ebuyela kotywala okanye iziyobisi kwaye akanako ukuyeka.
Izizathu zeSlips kunye nokubuyela kwakhona
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu baya kutshona kuba abanakho izixhobo zokunqoba iimeko ezithile. Basenokuba nosuku olunobungozi kwaye basebenzise njengesizathu sokuqalisa ukusela kwakhona. Ngenye indlela, banokugonywa yiminqweno edlalwa ngokukhawuleza xa kuphulukiswa.
Kwezinye iimeko, abantu baya kusebenzisa utywala okanye iziyobisi ukuze "bahlwaye" abo bajikeleze ukuba "bawaxoshe" ekuziphatheni komdala. Ivumela umntu ukuba abeke ityala phezu komnye umntu kunokuba avume ukuba umlutha uyinkinga yakhe.
Ingongoma ephambili malunga nesiphelo kukuba ukuzisola kusondele ngokukhawuleza. Ingxaki ivela xa isalathisi siphenduka ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngokutsha kunye nokulahlekelwa ngokupheleleyo komntu. Xa kwenzeka, ukukwazi ukujika izinto kuya kuba nzima ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi:
- Xa umntu eqala ukusela okanye ukusebenzisa iziyobisi kwakhona, amandla akhe okwenza isigqibo esicacileyo anciphisa.
- Isishukumiso somntu sokungacatshulwa mhlawumbi siphantsi kwindawo yokuqala, okwenza kube nzima nakakhulu ukuvuna kwakhona ukubuyisela okwesibini.
- Ukuphindaphinda kuza kufakazela kumntu ongenakukwazi ukunqoba umlutha.
- Abo baxhasa ukubuyiswa kwindawo yokuqala bangaba banqwenela ukwenza njalo okwesibini.
- Abanye abantu baya kuzikhohlisa ekubeni bacinge ukuba banokukwazi ukufezekisa kwakhona xa izinto "zingcono" kwaye "kwindawo enamandla."
- Ezinye ziza kuziqinisekisa ukuba zifuna ukubetha "i-rock bottom" ukuze zibophelele ngokuzeleyo, zingakwazi ukuqonda ukuba yinto nje yokuzikhethela ukuthenga ixesha kunye nokuqhubeka nokuziphatha okufanayo.
Indlela yokujongana neSlip okanye ukubuyela kwakhona
Indlela efanelekileyo yokukhusela isimboli ekubuyiseni kwakhona kukuthatha isenzo ngokukhawuleza. Yinto ongeke uyenze yodwa , kwaye ubunzulu be-slip akufanele nanini behlelwe nguwe okanye abo bajikelezile. Nangona kunjalo "ingxaki" okanye "encinci" eso slip sinokuthi, yinto ecacileyo into yokuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo kwaye kukho imicimbi efuna ukujongana nayo ukuze isalathisi ayenzeki kwakhona.
Akwanele ukuba enze ukuyeka ukusela; kufuneka uhlolisise izizathu ezisezantsi kweso slip kwaye uqonde oko kwabangela ukuba kuqala.
Ngaphandle kokufuna ukuphefumula komphefumlo, awuyi kukwazi ukuphepha esinye isalathisi xa kufuneka umbuzo ofanayo.
Ekugqibeleni, akukho nzuzo yokuba uzive unetyala malunga nesaliti. Yintoni ebalulekileyo kukuba uyithatha ngokungqongqo kwaye uyayiqonda ukuba yimpazamo apho unokuthile okufundayo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba uye wafumana ukuphindaphinda kwakhona kwaye ngoku uye wakhuthaza ukuba uphucule, kukho izinto ezininzi zokukhumbula:
- Endaweni yokuziva unetyala, uvuselele umzamo wakho wokufezekisa nokugcina ingqiqo .
- Inyaniso yokuba uyaphakamisa kuthetha ukuba uyaqonda ubunzulu bokugqithisa kwakho.
- Esikhundleni sokuziva uhlazo malunga neempazamo zakho, zijonge ngokukhawuleza uze uchaze oko kufuneka uyenze ukuze uziphephe kwakhona.
- Musa ukucinga ukuba ulahlekelwe yinto yonke kwaye ubuyele kumhla owodwa. Yonke into esenzayo ebomini ikwazisa ukubuyela kwethu phambili. Umntu oye wahlalisa iintsuku eziliqela uhlala efumana ubunzulu ngendlela ecacileyo kunomntu oye wahlalisa iminyaka. Sebenzisa loo mvakalelo ukuze uqhube phambili.
Kwaye, okubaluleke kakhulu, zikhumbuze ukuba ukuphela kokwenene ukusilela kukuziyeka. Sukuncama.