Ngaba ufuna isikhali semfihlo sokunciphisa uxinzelelo ? Ukulungelelaniswa. Ukufaka umgudu wokwenza ulungelelaniso, ingakumbi ukuba le ntlangano idlulisela kwiindawo ezininzi zobomi bakho, inokukunceda ukunciphisa amanqanaba oxinzelelo kwixesha elide ngokufuna ukugqitywa kweminithi yokugqibela kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zemihla ngemihla. Ku no kuziva ukuxhotyiswa, ngoko ufumana amatsha amatsha "njengolonwabo" kunokuba "uxinezeleke," onokunciphisa amandla kunye nobude bokuba uxinzelelo lwakho, okanye lugcine lukhutshwa kwindawo yokuqala.
Nangona kunjalo, ukulungelelana kunzima kunokuba kuyandila ekuqaleni. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uhleliwe kufuneka ube njani? Uyazi nini xa 'uhlelekile ngokwaneleyo'? (Ngaba iimpahla zakho kufuneka zixhonywe ngokwemibala, okanye nge-alfabhethi? Ngaba kufuneka ukuba yonke imizuzu ihlelwe kwaye ilandelwe kwikhalenda kwindawo ethile?) Ziziphi iindawo ezibalulekileyo zobomi ukuze zilungiswe?
Iingcebiso ezilandelayo zokufumana ikhava ehleliweyo ukuba ihlelwe kanjani, yiziphi iinkalo ezineenzuzo ezinkulu, nendlela yokuqalisa:
Hlela indlu yakho
Indlu ekhunileyo ingakunqumla ngamandla; ukuba luninzi ulwazi oluqhelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho ezinye iindleko ezifihliweyo ze-clutter ngokunjalo. (I-Clutter inokukhupha imali yakho kunye neshedyuli, nayo.) Yingakho kubalulekile ukuhlela ikhaya lakho. Nangona akudingeki ukuba neencwadi zakho ze-alfabhethi okanye izihlangu zakho zifakwe ngokumalunga nomhla owawathengileyo, kubalulekile ukuba nakho konke kwindawo yayo kwaye ube nendawo ethile kwindawo efanelekileyo.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokugcina ikhaya elihlelekile .
Hlela ixesha lakho
Ngaba uhlala ukhawuleza? Ingaba ingqondo yakho inomdla kunye nayo yonke into onokuyenza? Ngaba unenkathazo yokukhumbula konke? Ukuba kunjalo, sele uyayazi ukuba ukuhlala okunje kunokuba nzima kakhulu, akunjalo? Ukuzilungelelanisa nexesha lakho kunokukwenza impembelelo enkulu ebomini bakho: Ukwenza uludwe lwenu lungenza konke, kwaye lunokuyeka ukuhlala kwiingcamango zakho.
Xa ufumana ishedyuli yakho ehleliweyo, khumbula izinto ezimbalwa ezibalulekileyo. Okokuqala, ungazibhali. Cwangcisa imisebenzi eninzi njengoko unayo ixesha. Kwakhona, qaphela into oyifunayo ukuba uyenze kwaye xa - ngendlela ngaphandle kokuyigcina yonke entloko yakho. (Ndincoma uDavid Allen's Getting Things Made for a plan cohesive management plan.) Ekugqibeleni, cwangcisa ngexesha lokuphumula. Ukuba uhlala usebenza, usebenza, usebenza, ungase usebenze ngaphantsi ngokupheleleyo ngenxa yokuba ukhathele konke ukuqhuba. Ishedyuli ngexesha elithile lokuphuhlisa, kwaye unokugxininisa ixesha lonke.
Qhubeka
Ewe, unokucinga ukuba usebenza kakuhle neengxaki zakho ukuba ube yingxenye yokulungelelaniswa ekubeni kukunyamekela ukulungelelaniswa nendlela yakho yokuxinezeleka, enokuba lunamandla. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela kunye nokuphelisa iipateni zokuxinzelela ukuze ukuphendula kwakho uxinzelelo kungabikho rhoqo. Umzekelo, ukuba unenkathazo nabantwana bakho, musa ukujamelana nemeko nganye njengoko kwenzeka okokuqala ngqa; zama ukujonga iipatheni zokuziphatha kwaye udibanise iipateni, ngoko aziyi kuhlala ziqhubeka. (Ndiyakuthanda ukubiza ukuba 'ulungelelaniswe ngqeqesho.') Ukuba ufumana uhlale ugxininiswe kwindlela, jonga ukucinga ukuba kutheni, kwaye uyayilungisa loo miba.
(Eli nqaku malunga nokuthukuthela komgwaqo unezinye iingcebiso kule ndawo.)
Unokulungiswa ebomini bakho ngeendlela ezininzi. Ezi zintathu eziphambili. Banike umzame, kwaye uqale uzive ungagxininisekanga namhlanje.