Ngaba uyazibuza ukuba umntwana uya kulungelelanisa njani isikolo esitsha kwaye ukuba unokwenza nantoni na ukunciphisa utshintsho? Kakade unako! Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokukunceda endleleni.
Okokuqala, kuyilungileyo ukuba ulungele utshintsho olunokuhamba kunye noxinzelelo kubo bobabini kunye nomntwana wakho.
Nangona kunjalo, ungalindelanga ukuba kube yimeko eyoyikrakra.
Isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo somzali nomfundi sinokuhamba ixesha elide ekwenzeni utshintsho kwisikolo esitsha impumelelo.
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Ukuqala unyaka wesikolo kwinqaku elihle, kufuneka ube khona kwiintlanganiso okanye ukuqhelaniswa nomntwana wakho.
Ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba aqonde oko kuya kusebenza kunye nendlela yokufumana apho uya khona.
Ukuqonda okuqhelekileyo kunye nokulindela, nokuba nolwazi lwesikolo kunokuncedisa ukunciphisa ezinye zeengxaki zokuqala zesikolo ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuziva. Yiba nesimo esihle kwaye ujabule nomfundi wakho.
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Injongo enkulu ukujonga kwiwebhsayithi yesikolo ngamanqaku amnandi kunye nentsholongwane, ngakumbi ukuba umntwana wakho ujabulela imisebenzi yangaphandle okanye imidlalo.
Iinqununu ezininzi kunye nootitshala banamaphepha ewebhu anika amaqiniso anomdla ngokuphathelele kwabo okanye amava abo.
Uninzi lwewebhu lewebhu liza kuba nemifanekiso yemisebenzi yabafundi abathathe inxaxheba.
Oku kunokunceda umntwana wakho abe nemihlali.
Zibandakanyeke
Ukuba umntwana wakho unomdla kwiimidlalo kwaye unokubona ukuba isikolo siphumelele ekufumaneni izibhengezo kwimidlalo okanye umsebenzi oku kunokuba lunomdla.
Abafundi abasebenza esikolweni baya kwenza abahlobo abatsha ngokukhawuleza kunokuba bangabandakanyekanga kwimisebenzi eyenziwa esikolweni; Ngoko ke, kuluvo olukhulu ukukhuthaza ukuthatha inxaxheba koluntu kwaye uxhasane nomntwana wakho ngexesha lokuthatha inxaxheba.
Unesimo esifanelekileyo
Abazali bafanele bagxininise ukubaluleka kwesimo sengqondo esihle kumntwana wabo nokuba ukwenza abahlobo banokukunceda ukuba isikolo sibe yindawo enokuzonwabisa.
Yenza umntwana wakho azi ukuba uyazi ukuba abahlobo abatsha abanakuyifakela indawo abadala abasalayo esikolweni esidala, kodwa abahlobo abatsha banako ukwenza ubomi kwisikolo esitsha kakhulu mnandi.
Qala Ngexesha lehlobo
Ukwenza abahlobo abatsha bakwazi ukuqala ehlobo ngaphambi kokuba isikolo siqalile. Kukho iinkampu zasehlotyeni okanye ezinye iindawo zokuzonwabisa ezikuloo dolophu okanye kwisixeko esitsha esikolweni apho umntwana wakho angaya khona.
Kulapho, umntwana wakho angenza abahlobo abatsha ngaphambi kokuba isikolo siqale, esiya kukhulisa induduzo. Kuhlala kulungile ukubona ubuso obunobungane, ngokukodwa kwimeko entsha.
Nantoni na oyenzayo, yibani nesimo esihle kodwa uyinyani nomntwana wakho.
Mxelele ukuba kukho iimeko ezithile kwisikolo esitsha esinokubonakala sibandezelekile ekuqaleni kwaye utshintsho lulungile.
Izinto ezingenakwenziwa ngokufanayo kwisikolo esitsha njengoko besesesikolweni esidala, kodwa kulungile kwaye umntwana wakho uya kulungelelanisa nexesha.
Ukuba umfundi wakho uza kuwe uxinzelelo oluhambelana nokuguquka, zama ukuhlala ulungile. Zama ukuba ngumphulaphuli omhle ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna nje umntu ukuba athethe okanye azame ukunikela ngeengcebiso ezilungileyo.
Umntwana wakho uya kufuna le nto evela kuwe.
Ukugxininiswa ngokwakho kuya kubangela ukunyamezela umntwana wakho. Hlalani nizolile kwaye niphume. Musa ukukhathazeka ngoxinzelelo lwakho umntwana uvakalelwa ngayo, nangona kubonakala kungenanto kuwe. Mncede afune iindlela zokujamelana nazo . Ukuba uvakalelwa ukuba unako ukukunceda, udibanisa notitshala, umcebisi wesikolo okanye omnye uqeqesho kwiingcebiso malunga nendlela yokunceda umntwana wakho.