Kwincwadi yabo, "Ukuzaliswa kwabazali ngoku i-ADHD manje: Amaqhinga okuSingatha okuPhezulu ukuXhobisa abantwana nge-ADHD," abalobi u-Elaine Taylor-Klaus noDiane Dempster banikela abazali bekhulisa abantwana nge-ADHD ngobuchule kunye nenkxaso.
Mhlawumbi kuba bobabini abalobi banabantwana abane-ADHD (kunye no-Elaine une-ADHD), ulwazi lwabo, ulwazi nolwazi luyabonakala kuyo yonke iphepha le ncwadi.
U-Elaine noDiane banomxholo wokubonga obizwa ngokuba yi-Impact ADHD apho bafundisa khona kwaye banikeze abazali ukuqeqeshwa ekulawuleni ukuziphatha.
Ulwakhiwo lwe "Uzaliso LWE-ADHD Ngoku: Amaqhinga okuSingeneka okulula ukuXhobisa abantwana nge-ADHD"
"Umzali we-ADHD Ngoku" ulwahlula kwiingxenye ezimbini. Icandelo elinye libizwa ngokuba 'iinqununu' kwaye idibanisa ukuba yiyiphi i-ADHD, ukuba ifunyaniswa njani, iimeko ezinokubambisana kunye ne-ADHD, imimandla engama-6 yemisebenzi yolawulo kunye neyeza eziqhelekileyo ze-ADHD. Icandelo 1 libalaseleyo kubazali abatsha kwisihloko se-ADHD kwaye benza njengento ehlaziyileyo kubafundi abaqhelekileyo ngesihloko.
Icandelo lesibini libizwa ngokuba yiIqhinga. Isiqendu ngasinye kwisahlulo sesibini sigxile kwingxaki engundoqo ye-ADHD, umzekelo, indlela yokulawula, ukunyanzeliswa, ukungacingi, kunye nemizwa. Kukho isahluko sokulungisa.
Kulula kakhulu ukuhamba, njengoko isahluko ngasinye kwisiqendu sesibini sinekhowudi kunye neempawu ezimnandi, umzekelo, onke amaphepha kwisahluko ekulawuleni ukungaxhatshazi kunye nethebhu ebomvu ngesimboli sokukhanya kwendlela.
Amaphepha kwisahluko esilungeleleneyo sinomxholo obomvu kunye nesimboli sephepha lephepha. Ezi zixhobo zivumela ukuba ufumane ulwazi oluyidingayo ngokukhawuleza.
Isitayela sokubhala
Le ncwadi ihambelana nokuhlalutya kunye nomhla wokubhalwa kwaye isitayela esibhaliweyo icacile kwaye icacise ukuba umxholo ulula ukuwuqonda. Ulwazi lukwabonakaliswa ngetoni ephilileyo eyenza ingqalelo yakho.
Ukwakha Ubudlelwane obuqinileyo nomntwana wakho
Unokuziva unesizungu njengomzali womntwana one-ADHD. Abahlobo kunye nezihlobo banokuzama ukuqonda iingxaki zenu, okanye baze banikele iingcebiso zomzali, kodwa abaqondi ngokupheleleyo imingeni kunye noxinzelelo olujongene nalo. Ukusuka kwiphepha elilodwa, uziva ukuba aba balobi baqonda ubunzima bakho, ukukhungatheka nokudideka. Kuhlala kulula ukubona ukuba iingcebiso kunye neziphakamiso ezibonakalayo zivela kwizandla-ngamava kunoko ulwazi lwamaziko. Le nto iyakhuthuzela kwaye ixhobisa.
Ifilosofi engundoqo kwi-'Darenting ADHD Now 'kukuba ukomeleze ulwalamano oluqinileyo nomntwana wakho. Ababhali bachaza ukuba umongo we-ADHD ulawulo olu nxu lumano. Yakha isiseko somntwana wakho impumelelo ebomini babo bonke. Ngokomzekelo, ikhuthaza imisebenzi yokulawula , inceda ngokuthatha izigqibo nokuzimela kwaye isebenza njengomzekelo kuwo wonke ulwalamano oluzayo. Kulula ukuxakeka kwiinkqubo zentlangano kunye nezisombululo ezibonakalayo kwiingxaki zabo, ngoko ukufunda ngokubaluleka kokuxhuma kwenza isikhumbuzo kwaye kukunika imvume yokubeka phambili ubuhlobo bakho.
I-Blend Blend
Ababhali babenakho ukudala ukudibanisa okugqibeleleyo kokuxhamla kunye nokubaluleka kwenyaniso.
Akukho gwetyala, ityala okanye liphosakele. Kunoko, bamane bavuma ingxaki, baqaphele ukuba kuphazamisekile baze bathethe izicwangciso.
Kwimeko yomsebenzi wesikolo, umzekelo, abaninzi abazali baye bafumana ixesha eliphazamisayo xa umsebenzi wesikolo usuphelile; Nangona kunjalo, kamva bafunde oko akuzange banikezwe xa beyifumana phantsi kwebhegi yesikolo okanye bafumanisa ukuba ilahlekile.
Nantsi indlela abalobi abajongisa ngayo le meko:
'Ukubuyisela umsebenzi okwenziwe okwenziwe ngumsindo kumntu wonke, kwaye kukho iinyembezi ezibandakanyekayo. Kuqhelekile kunokuba ungacinga. Emva koko zineendlela ezi-3 ezonwabileyo ezilula zokuncedisa oku kungenzeki kwixesha elizayo!
Incwadi igcwele lula ukusebenzisa izicwangciso. Ukuba ngabazali abaxakekile ngokwabo, kucacile ukuba u-Elaine noDiane bayazi ukuba ububomi bentsapho bunokuthinteka njani ngamanye amaxesha. Bayazi ukuba izisombululo ezininzi eziyinkqubo ayisebenzisekanga. Ukongeza, isiphakamiso ngasinye sichazwe ngendlela elula ukuze abafundi bavelelwe ukuba bazame ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Iziphakamiso zivela kwimisebenzi eyenziwa ngumntwana wakho ukuzama iindlela zokukunceda ngexesha apho izinto zingabangela uxinzelelo.
Nantsi imimiselo yemisebenzi ebonakalayo evela kwi-'Candelo lokuLawula ukuCandwa '.
- Nika umntwana wakho umsebenzi ukuze bazive bevelisa kwaye bancede.
- Yenza umsebenzi owenzela imizuzu engama-10 phambi kokuba wenze ingqondo.
- Yakha ibhokisi enomatasa enemisebenzi yokubandakanya umntwana wakho nanini na xa uvakalelwa.
Nasi umzekelo weqhinga lokukunceda, ukusuka 'kwiCandelo lokuChatha' isahluko. Kuza ngendlela yombuzo. '' Ngaba le nto ihlaselayo okanye ingavumelwane? '
Ngabantwana abahlala ne-ADHD, i-neurology isoloko idlala indima ekuziphatheni kwayo. Ukuba benza into enqwenela ukuba bengenayo, bebeyayiphendula imeko ababeyifumeneyo, kunokuthi bangabi nantlonelo. Ngokubuza lo mbuzo, kukuvumela ukuba ume okwesibili. Emva koko unokuphendula kumntwana wakho ngendlela exhasa iimpawu zabo ze- ADHD . Isicwangciso esilula asinceda nje ngexesha; Inceda umntwana wakho ubomi babo bonke ubomi njengoko bengenakukwazi ukuzitsho.
Incwadi ithatha indlela epheleleyo kunye neyobuchule yokuphatha nokulawula i-ADHD, kuquka i-ADHD imithi, ingqondo , ukuvuthwa , ukutya, ukulala nokuhlala esikolweni, njenge-Individualized Education Program (IEP) okanye i-504.
Ngubani le ncwadi?
Le ncwadi iphelele kubazali okanye ngoomkhulu noomkhulu abafuna ukufunda nge-ADHD kunye nendlela echaphazela ngayo umntwana abathandayo. Kwakhona kukho isikhokelo sokuhamba kubazali abaye bafuna isisombululo esinokoqobo kwimingeni yabo yemihla ngemihla.
> Imithombo:
Elaine Taylor-Klaus, uDiane Dempster. I-ADDD kubazali ngoku! Amanyathelo okuSingeneka okulula ukunika amandla abantwana nge-ADHD. I-Althea Press, 2016