Yintoni eyenza umntu abe neHero?
Ziziphi iimpawu okanye iimpawu ezenza umntu abe ligorha? Ngaba kukho igama lomzimba? Ngokomnye uphando olutshanje, impendulo inokuphumla ngohlobo luni lobuqhawe esijongene nalo.
Abaphandi baye bafumanisa ukuba abantu ababenokusebenza ngexesha elilodwa lobukroti (njengokugqithisa kwisakhiwo esivuthayo okanye ukuhlangula umntu ovela kwindlela yohambo oluzayo) akuthethi ukuba kuhluke kakhulu kumaqela angamaqhawe angamaqhawe.
Ngokwahlukileyo, abantu ababandakanyeka kwiqhawe lobomi (njengabahlengikazi abaqeqeshiweyo abaduduza rhoqo abagulayo kunye nokufa) banokwabelana ngobuninzi beempawu zobuntu ezifana novelwano , uqinisekiso, kunye nesidingo sokuphila ngekhowudi yokuziphatha.
Ingqondo ye-heroism ingenakuqondwa kakuhle, kodwa iingcali ezininzi zikholelwa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba abantu bafunde ukuba ngamaqhawe . Ngaba unayo oko kuthatha? Ezi zilandelayo zimbalwa zeempawu eziphambili abaphandi abachazele amaqhawe.
1. Abantu ababa ngamaqhawe badla ngokuxhalaba ngabanye.
Ngokomphandi, uvelwano, novelwano ngabanye yizinto eziphambili ezichaphazela ekuziphatheni ngobuqhawe. Abantu abakhuselekileyo ekuncedeni abanye ebusweni beengxaki kunye nobunzima bakwenza oko kuba banenyamekela ngokunyanisekileyo ukhuseleko kunye nabanye abantu.
Olunye uphando lufumanise ukuba abantu abanamaqhawe okuziqhenya banesiphakamiso esikhulu.
Abantu ababandakanyeka kwizenzo zobuqhawe baziva bexhalabele kwaye banakekela abantu ababajikelezile kwaye banako ukuziva ukuba abo bafuna uncedo baziva njani.
2. AmaH Heroes alungile xa ebona izinto ngombono wabanye.
Abaphandi bacetyisa ukuba amaqhawe ayenawo nje onobubele nothando; banayo i-knack yokuba bakwazi ukubona izinto kwindlela yabanye.
Bangakwazi 'ukuhamba iikhilomitha kwezinye izicathulo zomntu,' ukuthetha. Xa bejamelana nemeko apho umntu enesidingo, banokukwazi ukuzibona kwimeko efanayo kwaye babone oko kufuneka kwenziwe ukuze bancede.
3. Iigorha ziyakwazi kwaye ziqinisekile.
Kuthatha zombini ukuzithemba nokuzithemba ukunyuka apho abanye besaba ukunyathela khona. Abaphandi bacetyisa ukuba abantu abenza izenzo zobuqili badla ukuzithemba ngokwabo kunye namakhono abo. Xa bejamelene neengxaki , banenkolelo yangaphakathi yokuba bayakwazi ukujongana nomngeni kwaye baphumelele impumelelo kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiziphi iingxaki. Ingxenye yale ntembelo inokuthi ivela kwizakhono zokuphefumula eziphezulu ngaphezulu kunye nokukwazi ukulawula uxinzelelo.
4. IiHlumi zinekhampasi yokuziphatha enamandla.
Ngokomphandi ophando uZimbardo noFranco, amaqhawe aneempawu ezimbini ezibalulekileyo ezibahlukanisa nabangamaqhawe: bahlala ngeempawu zabo kwaye bazimisele ukunyamezela umngcipheko wokuzikhusela ezo zithethe. Iimpawu zabo kunye neenkolelo zabo zibanika inkalipho kunye nesisombululo sokunyamezela umngcipheko kunye neengozi ukuze zihambelane nale migaqo.
5. Ukuba nezakhono ezifanelekileyo kunye noqeqesho kunokukwenza umehluko.
Kucacile ukuba ukuqeqeshwa okanye ukukwazi ukukwazi ukujongana neengxaki kunokudlala indima enkulu nokuba ngaba abantu ababa ngamaqhawe.
Kwiimeko apho abaza kuba ngabahlanguli abanalo ulwazi okanye amandla amandla okwenza umehluko, abantu abanakunceda kakhulu okanye banako ukufumana iindlela ezincinci zokuthatha inyathelo. Kwaye kwimeko ezininzi, le ndlela ingcono kakhulu; Emva kwayo yonke into, ukunyuka kwabantu ngokungenangqondo kwiimeko eziyingozi kunokubangela ubunzima obuninzi kubasebenzi bokuhlangula. Abantu abaqeqeshwe kwaye banako ukukwazi, njengalebo abanokuqeqeshwa ngeenkonzo zokuqala kunye namava, sele bekulungele kwaye banako ukunyuka xa izakhono zabo zifuneka.
6. Amaqhawe aqhubeka nokubhekisana noloyiko.
Umntu oqhubela kwisakhiwo esivuthayo ukugcina omnye umntu akayena nje okhalipheleyo; naye unokukwazi ukunqoba ukwesaba.
Abaphandi bacetyisa ukuba abantu abanamaqhawe bangabalingisi obuhle ngendalo, obangela ukuba bakwazi ukujonga ngaphaya kweengozi yimeko kwaye babone isiphumo esiphezulu. Kwiimeko ezininzi, abo bantu banakho ukunyamezela okuphezulu kwengozi. Uninzi lwabanyameko nolomnene lunokuthi luhlehlise ebudeni bengozi. Abo baxhamla kwizenzo baqhelekile ukuba bafumane ingozi enkulu kwiinkalo ezininzi zobomi babo.
7. AmaHarusi aqhubeka esebenza ngeenjongo zabo, nangemva kokunciphisa amaninzi.
Ukunyamezela omnye umgangatho odlawa ngamaqhawe. Ngomnye uphando luka-2010, abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba abantu abachongiweyo njengeziqhawe babekho amathuba okubeka i-positive spin kwiimeko ezimbi. Xa ubhekene nesifo esichengeni ubomi, abantu abanokuthambekela ngobuqili bangagxila kwizinto ezintle ezinokuvela kwiimeko ezifana nokuxabisa ngokutsha ubomi okanye ukunyuka okufutshane kunye nabathandekayo.
"Isigqibo sokwenza izigorha sinokuzikhethela ukuba abaninzi bethu baya kubizwa ngexesha elithile. Ngokukhulelwa kobuqhawe njengembonakalo yendalo yonke, kungekhona njengento engabonakaliyo" ubuqhawe buba yinto ebonakalayo kwimiba yamathuba omntu ngamnye, mhlawumbi ekhuthazayo ukuba siphendule loo fowuni, "bhala abaphandi banobuqhawe, uZeno Franco noFilipu Zimbardo .
ILizwi
Abaphandi baye bafumanisa ukuba ngeendlela ezininzi, amaqhawe ayengabo bonke abahlukeneyo kubantu abaninzi. Nangona kunjalo, kukho ubuninzi bezakhono onokuzakhela ezinokunyusa iimpawu zakho zeqhawe. Ukwakha uvelwano, ukuba nekhono kunye nezobuchule, kwaye ukuphikelela ekujonganeni nemingcipheko yonke into onokuyenza ngayo ixesha elide. Ngokwenza njalo, unako ukuphucula ikhono lakho lokunceda abanye uze ufike ngexesha leemfuno.
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