Kuthatha ukuthini ukuba umntu odala?
Ngaba ingcali zengqondo zichaza njani ubuchule? Ukufunda ubuchule kunokuyinkqubo enobuqili. Akukona nje ukudala izinto eziyinkimbinkimbi kunye kwaye ngokwabo, kodwa akukho ncamango yokucacisa ngokuchanekileyo ngokucacileyo ukuvelisa. Uninzi lweenkcazo eziqhelekileyo lubonisa ukuba ubuchule buyindlela yokulungisa iingxaki okanye ukudala izinto ezintsha kwiindlela ezintsha.
Iimpawu zoLuntu
Iziqendu ezimbini zezinto eziphambili zobugcisa ziquka:
- Imvelaphi: Iingcamango mazibe yinto entsha esingekho nje ukongezwa kwesinye into esele ikhona.
- Ukusebenza: Iingcamango kufuneka zisebenze ngokwenene okanye zibe negalelo elithile lokunceda.
Xa Ubunzima Bwenzeka?
Kwincwadi yakhe yokuBaluleka: Ukuhamba kunye neengqondo zeNgcaciso nokuVikela , isazi sengqondo seMihaly Csikszentmihalyi sicebisa ukuba ubuchule buhlala kubonakala kwiimeko ezimbalwa ezahlukeneyo.
- Abantu ababonakala bevuselela, banomdla, kwaye baneengcinga ezahlukeneyo ezingaqhelekanga.
- Abantu abayibona ihlabathi ngombono omtsha, baneengcamango ezinengqiqo kwaye benze izinto ezibalulekileyo ezibalulekileyo. Aba bantu benza izinto zokufumanisa izinto eziqhelekileyo ziyaziwayo kuphela.
- Abantu abenza impumelelo enkulu yokudala eyaziwa kwihlabathi lonke. Abangena kunye nabaculi abafana noTomas Edison kunye noPablo Picasso babeya kula manqanaba.
Iintlobo zobumba
Iingcali zikwahlula ukwahlula phakathi kweentlobo ezahlukeneyo zobuchule. I-"c c" yemodeli yokudala ibonisa ukuba kukho iintlobo ezine ezahlukeneyo:
- "Ubuncinane-c" ubuchule bubandakanya iingcamango ezinengqiqo kunye nokuqonda okuyaziwayo kuphela.
- " Ubuncinane-c" ubuchule bubandakanya ukucinga kwansuku zonke nokuxazulula iingxaki. Olu hlobo lobuncedo lunceda abantu ukuba basombulule iingxaki zemihla ngemihla abajamelana nazo kwaye bavumelane nezimo eziguqukayo.
- "Inkqubo ye-Pro-C" eyenziwa phakathi kwabaqeqeshi abanezakhono kunye nobuchule kwiindawo zabo. Laba bantu baqulunqa umsebenzi wabo okanye umsebenzi kodwa abaphumelelanga ngemisebenzi yabo.
- "Ubukhulu beC-C" ubuchule bubandakanya ukudala imisebenzi kunye neembono ezibhekwa njengento enkulu kwintsimi ethile. Olu hlobo lokudala lukhokelela ekuphakameni kwaye luyamkela kwaye luhlala lukhokelela ekudalweni kwehlabathi njengemveliso yonyango, intuthuko yezobuchwepheshe kunye nokuphumelela kwezobugcisa.
Yintoni Eyayicinga Ukuba Yibumbi?
UCsikszentmihalyi ucetyisa ukuba abantu abadalwa ngokudala bahlala bephethe iindidi ezahlukeneyo ezibangela ukucinga kwabo ezintsha. Ezinye zezi mpawu zibalulekileyo ziquka:
- Amandla: Abantu abakhayo bavame ukufumana ubuninzi bemandla engokwenyama nangokwengqondo. Nangona kunjalo, nabo bathambekele ukuchitha ixesha elide becinga nokucinga.
- Ubulumko: Iingcali zengqondo zide zikholelwa ukuba ulwaphulo-mthetho ludlala indima ebalulekileyo ekudaleni. Kwixesha likaToman elidumileyo lokufunda abantwana abanesakhono, abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba ngelixa i-IQ ephakamileyo yayimfuneko ekudaleni okukhulu, kungekhona bonke abantu abane-IQ eziphezulu. UCsikszentmihalyi ukholelwa ukuba abantu bokudala kufuneka babe ngabahlakaniphile, kodwa kufuneka babe nokukwazi ukujonga izinto ezintshatsheli, nangendlela ehamba ngayo.
- Isiyalo: Abantu abalingileyo abahlali nje behlala bekulindele ukuphefumlelwa ukubetha. Badlala, kodwa baqeqeshwa ngokulandela umsebenzi wabo kunye nokuthanda kwabo.
Nangona abanye abantu bebonakala beza ngobugcisa ngokwemvelo, kukho izinto onokuzenza ukuze ukwandise ubuchule bakho. Njengoko uCsikszentmihalyi uye waqaphela, ubuchule bufuna zombini umbono omtsha kunye noqeqesho. Njengoko uTomas Edison ephakanyiswe ngokukhawuleza, ingqiqo iphefumlelweyo enye kunye neepesenti ezingamashumi asithoba nesithoba kwifizi.
Ukugqibela kweMaya Angelou kwakhona kwacebisa ukuba ukucinga okubalulekileyo kukunceda ukukhulisa ngakumbi:
"Ukudala okanye i talente, njengombane, into engayiqondiyo kodwa into endikwazi ukuyisebenzisa kunye nokusebenzisa. Nangona umbane uhlala ungummangaliso, ndiyazi ukuba ndinokungena kwi-cathedral okanye kwindlu yesikhungu okanye igumbi kwaye ulisebenzise ukuze ulondoloze ubomi okanye okanye ndingayisebenzisa ukuba ndikhethile umntu onjengegesi, ubuchule abuyikho isigwebo.Ndiyakwazi ukuyisebenzisa ngokukhawuleza okanye ekubhubhiseni into ebalulekileyo ukuyisebenzisa. Xa usebenzise ngakumbi, unako. "
> Imithombo:
> Angelou, M., & Elliot, JM (1989). Ingxoxo kunye noMaya Angelou. UJackson: IYunivesithi ye-Mississippi.
> Csikszentmihalyi, M. (1996). Ubuqili: Umsebenzi kunye neBantu abangama-91 abasondeleyo . ENew York: HarperCollins.
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