Yilungelo elihle kunye nomxinzelelo ofihlakeleyo kangangokuba abaninzi bethu banamathuba amaninzi ahlukahlukeneyo okukhetha oko sifuna ebomini. Ingxaki yokukhathala-ukuxhalaba obunayo ngenxa yokuba neeninzi ezininzi izigqibo ozenzayo ngosuku-ungakha ezindleleni ezifihlakeleyo kwaye udale uxinzelelo olungakunqumla. Ngokunciphisa inani lezigqibo ezingabalulekanga ozenzayo ngalunye suku, unganciphisa kwinqanaba lesigqibo sokukhathala olujongene nalo, kwaye unciphise amanqanaba akho okhuseleko ngexesha elifanayo. Nazi ezinye zeendlela eziphambili ekunciphiseni uxinzelelo olubangelwa isigqibo sokukhathala.
1 - Yakha imikhuba kwiShedyuli yakho
Usuke unento eninzi oyenzayo ngalunye suku ngaphandle kokucinga-njengokuphuma ebhedeni, uhlamba (ndiyicinga), kwaye nditya ukutya kwasekuseni. Mhlawumbi ungacingi kakhulu malunga nendlela yokwenza ezi zinto zenziwe; uyenze nje. Ukuba unako ukufakela ezinye izigqibo kwi-routine yakho esele isekelwe, ukwenza ukuba ngumkhwa, awuyi kucinga ngazo, nokuba. Ukuba unokufumana into efanayo kwidlo sasekuseni imihla ngemihla, mhlawumbi unokumisela ukuba yeyiphi umsebenzi oya kuyenza kwiintsuku, apho uza kufumana umsebenzi wakho ngalunye suku , yintoni na oya kuyenza ngayo impahla yakho yokuhlamba kunye nezinye ezininzi izigqibo onokuzenza okanye ongazange uzilungiselele. Nantoni na into ongayenza ngayo kwishedyuli yakho ibe yinto encinane kufuneka uthathe isigqibo kwixesha elizayo!
2 - Yenza Ukhetho uze Ugqibe Ilungelo
Enye yezinto ezixakekayo ngokwenene zokwenza izigqibo kukuvakalelwa kukuba isigqibo osenzileyo asinokuba sesilungileyo, kwaye mhlawumbi kufuneka ubuye ubuye. Ukuziqhelanisa okwesibini kungathatha inkokhelo enkulu kunokuba ungayiqonda. Kunokuba uzibethe ngenxa yokwenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo, yenza isigqibo sokuba ukhetho luyenziwe kwaye luqhubekele phambili. Kukho uxanduva kunye nolwaphulo kunye nazo zonke izigqibo, ngoko xa ukhetho lwakho lwenziwa, gxininisa ikakhulu kwiintlobo , kwaye ungacingi ngento yokuba kukho ukuphazamiseka kuzo zonke iimeko, kwaye ukuba iziganeko ezikhethiweyo zakho zimbi , mhlawumbi uza kwenza isigqibo esithile kwindawo yokuqala.
3 - Gcina izigqibo ezikuvuyisa, khawula oko unokukwenza
Abanye abantu (njengoSteve Jobs kunye noMark Zuckerberg) banxiba ngokukhawuleza impahla efanayo imihla ngemihla. Benze isigqibo sokubeka nje umgudu omncinci ekukhethweni okokugqoka ukuze bakwazi ukugcina amandla abo okwenza izigqibo ngokubalulekileyo. UDkt. Oz uncoma ukuba udle ukutya okufanayo kunye neentsuku zonke iintsuku, kwaye ube nokujikeleza kokutya nganye ubusuku beveki, ngoko akudingeki ucinge ngokutya okuphilileyo okupheka.
Kubafowistas okanye i-foodies, ezi zikhetho ziya kuziva zixakeke kakhulu, kodwa kumntu oqhelekileyo, zinokuthi zisebenze ngendlela efanelekileyo kunye nezoxinzelelo zokunciphisa kwinani lokukhetha umntu kufuneka enze imini, kunye nosuku. Ngoko ndikukhuthaza ukuba ucinge malunga nokukhetha kwakho kwansuku zonke, kwaye ukuba awuyithandi ngokwenene ukwenza loo mkhetho (Ndiyathanda ukugqoka iimeko zemihla ngemihla, kodwa ndivuyiswe ngokuzenzekelayo isicwangciso sam ukutya), uze wenze ukhetho oluphinda, kwaye uqhubele phambili kwizinto ezikhethileyo.
4 - Khetha Umzekelo Womzekelo uze Usebenzise "Abahlobo Bomngcali"
Awunayo ukuvuselela ivili; kukho abantu belapho apho, kwiimeko ezininzi, benza oko ungathanda ukukwenza, kwaye bayayenza ngempumelelo. Unokuzijonga kwaye ufunde. Landela umzekelo wabo wokuphumelela ukuba ucinga ukuba kuya kusebenza kuwe. Abantu abaninzi banolonwabo ngakumbi ukwabelana ngezinto ezisebenzelayo, baze bazive behloniphekile xa ucela, ngoko ukuba uqala into entsha (okanye uzibuza ukuba kukho indlela engcono yokwenza okuthile), fumana iiplani ezingcono zabantu, usebenzise abo babonakala ngathi baya kusebenza, bahlengahlengise ukuba kuyimfuneko, baphinde baphinde. Oku kusebenza kunye nokufunda, izicwangciso zengqesho, izicwangciso zempilo, kunye nokulawula uxinzelelo.
5 - Fumana uxolo nge "Hayi"
Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukugqiba isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukwenzani nento ongayenziyo. Ngamanye amaxesha, uyazi ukuba wenzani kwaye awufuni, kodwa kufuneka ube nempembelelo yokuthi yebo no-no kulunye uluhlu lwezinto ezifunayo kunye neemfuno. Ngokukodwa kubazali, i-juggle yokwenza izigqibo iyanda kakhulu kwinani lamalungu entsapho, kunye nenani labangane kumnatha wabo, kwinqanaba. Xa ukungafuni ukuhlaziya izicelo zabanye abantu kuza kudlala, ungaba neveki ehleliweyo ukujika ibe yiveki ebandakanya ukuhlaselwa kwezigqibo ezintsha ezifunekayo zenziwe ngokusekelwe kumatshintshi omzuzu wokugqibela okanye ishedyuli epheleleyo. Unokwenza oku kube lula ngokukhululeka kunye nenkqubo yokuthi cha . Kulula ukutsho kunokuba wenze, kodwa xa unokwicacisa into efanelekileyo entloko yakho into onokuyenza kwaye akunakuthi u-ewe, isigqibo sokuba ingaba yinto elula okanye ayikho into, kwaye nayo yonke into ingawela kwindawo ngokulula kunye .