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Ukuba yindlela yokwenza i-polyamorous ukufumana ubudlelwane obuvulekileyo besondo okanye ubudlelwane nomntu ongaphezu komntu omnye ngexesha. Abantu abanepolyamorous bangaba ngabesini esithandana nabo, besithandana nabo, abafazi, okanye abafazi, kunye nolwalamano phakathi kwabantu abanepolitiki banokubandakanya ukudibanisa kwabantu abantu abahlukeneyo ngokwesondo.
Iyintoni i-polyamory kunye nantoni na?
Abantu abanxulumano lobupolisi banokuthi bangatshatanga okanye bangatshatanga, nangona abantu abachonga njenge-polyamorous bavumi ukugatya imingcipheko yendibano yentlalo yomtshato , ngokukodwa, ukulinganiselwa komlingane omnye.
I-Polyamory akufanele idideke kunye ne-bigamy, engumtshato kunomntu omnye, kwaye akukho mthethweni. Akufanele kudideke kunye "nokutshintshwa komfazi," okanye "ukuzongena" apho izibini ezinxulumene nolwalamano luye lwacwangcisa ulwalamano olusenyongweni kunye nolwabelana ngesini esinye nesinye isibini. La malungiselelo amabini aquka ukulala ngesondo ngaphandle kokuzibophezela, ubudlelwane obuvunyelwene ngokusemthethweni, okwenziwe ngepolyamory.
I-polyamory ayifani noluhlobo "oluvulekile", olubandakanya isibini esivumelekileyo sivuma ukuba omnye okanye bobabini abalingani bavunyelwe ukuba balale ngesondo nabanye abantu, ngaphandle kokuba bafumane ukwabelana ngolwazi ngamanye amaqabane, nangona iibini zentlondi zingaba nobuhlobo obuvulekileyo.
Ulwaphulo lwezesondo kunye nePolyamory
Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini akuyona into ecacileyo yepolyamory, kwaye abantu abanokuthi bangabandakanyeki kwisenzo sokuziphatha ngokwezesondo. Nangona kunjalo, abantu abaneengxubeviso zesini esekelwe kwiminqweno yamaqabane amaninzi banokuthi bathatyathelwe ngokukhethekileyo kwingingqi yoluntu.
Ngelixa abanye abantu bepolyamority bagxininisa imfuno yoqhagamshelwano olucacileyo kunye nemida phakathi kwabo bonke abachaphazelekayo, ngokucacileyo ubunzima beentsebenziswano phakathi kobudlelwane bepolyamorhiya bashiye abanye abantu abasengozini yokuxhaphaza.
Nangona kukho abantu abaninzi ababandakanyekayo kwiintsebenziswano ezinxulumene nopolomorous kunye nabalingani ababini okanye ngaphezulu, kukho iindawo ezininzi ezizibonakalisa njengezopolyamorous kwaye zidibana neendlela zokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo.
Uninzi lwabantu base-polyamory lugxeka ingcamango yokuba ipolyamory kunye ne-sex addiction ayenzi nantoni na. Ngokwe-Polyamory Society:
"I-Polyamory yi-philosophy engeyona ingenangqondo, inyanisekileyo, inokwenene kunye neyokuziphatha kunye nabantu abaninzi abanothando." I-polyamory igxininisa ngokukhetha ngokukhetha ukuba bangaphi amaqabane anomnqweno ofuna ukubandakanyeka kunokuba bamkele imimiselo yentlalo efuna ukuba nomntu oyedwa ngexesha. i-ambulance term elidibanisa ubudlelwane bomdlelwane obuninzi kunye namaqela amaninzi aguqukayo. I-polyamory ibandakanya ukulingana ngokwesini kunye noqhelwano lwezesondo ngokubhekiselele kwisangqa esandisiweyo sokuthandana kunye nothando. abaninzi bathanda " okanye i-polyamory. Kakade, uthando ngokwalo luyigama elincinci, kodwa iipolisi ezininzi zibonakala zichaze njengento ebalulekileyo, esondeleyo, ethandanayo, okanye engaphantsi, esondeleneyo nomntu onomnye umntu okanye iqela labantu. Olu bhonkco ngokuqhelekileyo, nangona kungekho njalo, lubandakanya isondo. "I-Sexualove" okanye "eromance" ngamanye amagama ayenayo imali d ukuchaza olu hlobo luthando. Amanye amagama aqhelekileyo asetyenziswa njengama-synonyms ye-polyamory anembopheleleko, i-ethical or intentionally non-monogamy. "