Xa i-TV newscaster u-Diane Sawyer ebuzwa imfihlelo kwimpumelelo yakhe, wathi, "Ndicinga ukuba isifundo esisifundeyo asikho nendawo yokumamela."
Ngaba ucinga, "Ndiyavuma, kodwa siyithucula njani amandla ethu okugxila kunye nokugcina ingqwalasela-kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni na?"
Ezi ngcebiso ezihlanu ziyakunceda ugxininise bhetele nokuba usebenza kwiofisi exakekileyo, ufunda esikolweni, uhleli entlanganisweni, okanye uzama ukugqiba iphrojekthi.
F = Ulawulo oluninzi
Kukho iintlobo ezimbini zabantu-abo bafunde indlela yokusebenza ngokukhungatheka kunye nabo banqwenela ukuba nabo. Ukususela kwangoku, ukuba uphakathi komsebenzi kwaye uzama ukuyeka, yenza nje EZINYE EZINYE.
Funda amaphepha amahlanu. Ukugqiba iingxaki ezinhlanu zematriki. Sebenza eminye imizuzu emihlanu.
Kanye nje ngokuba abadlali bazama ukwakha amandla okunyuka ngokugqithisela ingongoma yokuphelelwa amandla, unokwakha ingqiqo yengqondo ngokuthi uphumelele ingqalelo yokuphazamiseka.
Njengoko abagijimi bafumana umoya wabo wesibini ngokungayekiyo xa umzimba wabo uqala ukubhikisha, unokufumana "ingqondo yakho yesibini" ngokungayekiyo xa ukukhusela kwakho kukuqala. Ukuqhubeka ukugxila xa ubuchopho bakho bekhatywe yinto ephambili ekutheni uqwalasele ingqalelo kunye nokwakhiwa kwengqondo.
O = Omnye Cinga Ngexesha
USamuel Goldwyn wathi, "Ukuba ndibukeka ndididekile, kuba ndicinga." Uziva uhlakaze-ubhinqa? Ukuxhalabisa ngokusisigxina ngeProgram ye-Godfather-yenza ingqondo yakho ingayinakuyenza.
Ewe, ingqondo ithatha izifumbathiso. Esikhundleni sokutshela ukuba ungakhathazeki ngomnye, okuphambili kweyona nto (okuya kubangela ukuba ingqondo yakho icinge ngeyona nto ayifanele ukuba icinge ngayo!), Nikeze umsebenzi omnye kunye neparameters zexesha lokuqalisa.
Umzekelo, "Ndiya kucinga malunga nendlela yokuhlawula ityala lekhadi lesikweletu xa ndifika ekhaya namhlanje ebusuku kwaye ndinethuba lokudibanisa iindleko zam.
Okwangoku, kwimigangatho engamashumi amathathu elandelayo ukusuka ku-1-1: ngo-30 ntambama, ndiza kugxininisa ngokugqibeleleyo ekusebenziseni le ntshumayelo ngoko ndiyinto ecacileyo kwaye ndiyichaza xa ndibeka esi siphakamiso kubaxhasi bethu be-VIP. "
Usenako ukufumana ezinye izinto ezixhalabileyo entloko yakho? Yibhale phantsi uludwe lwakho ukuze ukhululeke ukulibala. Ukurekhoda iimbopheleleko ezikhathazayo kuthetha ukuba akufanele usebenzise ingqondo yakho njengesikhumbuzo esithi "isikhumbuzo", oko kuthetha ukuba unokunika ingqwalasela engabonakaliyo kumsebenzi wakho ophambili.
C = Unqobe ukuhlaziya
Ngaba uzive uthanda ukugxila? Ngaba ulahla umsebenzi okanye iprojekthi omele usebenze kuyo? Leyo ndlela yokuziyeka. URobert Clyde wathi, "Kuyamangalisa ukuba kuthatha ixesha elide ukugqiba into esingasebenzi kuyo."
Ngexesha elilandelayo uzimisele ukuyeka uxanduva lokuzibuza, "Ngaba kufuneka ndiyenze oku? Ngaba ndifuna ukuba kwenziwe oko kungengqondweni yam? Ngaba kuya kuba yinto elula emva koko?" Le mibuzo emithathu inokukukhuthaza ukuba usebenze ngokwengqondo ngenxa yokuba bakujongene nokujongana nale nto ayiyi kuhamba, kwaye ukulibaziseka kuya kwanezela kwintyala yakho kwaye wenze lo msebenzi ogqithiseleyo usebenze ngaphezulu kwengqondo yakho nexesha .
U = Sebenzisa izandla zakho njenge-BlinkersCinga ingqondo yakho njengekhamera kunye namehlo akho njengophawu lwayo. Ininzi yexesha, amehlo ethu "athatha konke" kunye nengqondo yethu "ekugxininiseni." Singakwazi ukucinga ngezinto ezininzi ngokukhawuleza kwaye sisebenze ngokuchanekileyo ngale ndlela (umz., Cingela ukuqhuba umgwaqo ogcweleyo ngelixa uxoxa nomhlobo, udibana nomsakazo, ugcine iliso kwiimoto ezikufutshane nawe, kwaye ujonge umqondiso wakho wokuphuma .)
Kuthekani ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha kwi-telephoto kugxininiso? Kuthiwani ukuba kufuneka ulungiselele uvavanyo kwaye ufuna ukuxinwa kwe-100%? Iqela lezandla ezungeze amehlo akho ukuze ube "nombono we-tunnel" kwaye ukhangele kuphela kwincwadi yakho yombhalo. Ukubeka izandla zakho kwicala lobuso bakho lukhupha ngaphandle kweemeko ukuze "bangaboni, bangabikho kwengqondo." Cinga ngokubaluleka kwamazwi.
Ngaba ufuna iindaba ezingcono ngakumbi? Ingaba igama elithi Pavlov rrr-lifaka intsimbi? Ukuba ubeka indebe zakho ngeenxa zonke amehlo akho xa ufuna ukutshintsha ukusuka kwi-angle-angle ukuya kwi-telephoto kugxininiso, ukuba isiqhelo somzimba siba yi-Pavlovian trigger.
Khumbula? UPavlov walila intsimbi, wondla inja, wandila intsimbi waza wondla inja, kwaze kwaba yilapho inja yaqalisa ukukhawuleza emva kokuva isandi sensimbi. Ngokufanayo, ukusebenzisa izandla zakho njengento yokuqhawula rhoqo xa ufuna ukunciphisa ugxininiso lwakho kufundisa ingqondo yakho ukuba ishintshele "kwingoma eyodwa" ingqondo kwaye igxile kumyalelo wakho.
S = Khangela Njengexesha lokuQala okanye lokugqibelaUfuna ukwazi ukuba "apha naphahla" kwaye ubonise ngokupheleleyo endaweni yokungahambi ngqondweni apha, apho, naphi na? UFrederick Franck wathi, "Xa iliso livuka ukuze liphinde liphinde liphinde libone, ngokukhawuleza liyeka ukuthatha nantoni na." U-Evelyn Underhill wathi, "Ngenxa yokungabi nandaba, iindidi eziyinkulungwane zobuncwane zisicaciseki nsuku zonke."
Ndihlala ndihlala ndifunda le sifundo. Ngesinye ixesha ndandinika oonyana bam ubusuku bobusuku bokubuyela. Nangona ndihleli phantsi kufuphi nabo, mhlawumbi ndibe ehlabathini elizayo kuba ndicinga ngentshukumo yokusa ekuseni, ndakufuneka ndiyithathe ngosuku olulandelayo ndize ndizibuze ukuba ngaba ndiphethe i-hand outs, ukuba ithikithi lam kwesikhwama sam, njl
Ngokukhawuleza, lam amehlo angabonakaliyo awela phezu kwam oonyana bam kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ndabona uTom noAndrew ngokungathi ngaba ndijonge kubo okokuqala. Kwaoko ndandingcangcazela ngomsindo wokubulela aba bafana abaphilileyo nabaphilileyo. Ndandiziva ndivuyiswe gqitha ukuba ndabanikezwa ngabantwana abanobuhle kangaka. Ngethuba elithile, ndanduluka ekubeni ndingekho-ngqondweni ukuba ndizaliswe ngoloyiko kunye nokuxabisa ngobomi babo.
Ngexesha elilandelayo ingqondo yakho iyigidi eziliwaka ukusuka kude, jonga nje ngeenxa zonke uze ubone iindawo ezikuyo. Fundisisa iindidi ezimnandi kwi-vase. Sukuma kufuphi nomfanekiso udongeni kwaye umangalise ubugcisa bomculi.
Hlala kwaye ukhangele kumntu obathandayo uthabatha ukuthatha ngokungenanto. Oku kuya kuthi "iVelveteen Rabbit" lakho hlabathi kwaye lenze liphile ejongeni lakho.
Oko abantu bathethe ngokugxininisa- "Ndandisoloko ndicinga ukuba ingqondo yomntu yayiyinxalenye ebalulekileyo kakhulu yomzimba, ndaza ndaqonda, 'Yintoni anditshoyo?'" - Emo Phillips
- "Ndiya kuba ngqondweni kwaye ndilibala. Ngamanye amaxesha phakathi kwesivakalisi, mna ..." - UMilton Berle
- "I-iron iyaxhamla ekusebenziseni ukungasebenzi, amanzi amaninzi alahlekelwa ukuhlambuluka kwayo kwaye kubanda kwimozulu ebanda, kwaye kungenjalo ukunyanzelisa ingqondo." ULeonardo da Vinci
- Ndixelele ukuba uyayithobela ntoni, kwaye ndiya kukuxelela ukuba ungubani. " - Jose Ortega y Gasset
- Ndiza kuhamba ngaphandle kwekhati okanye isangulo kungekudala ukulahlekelwa yiminithi yamacala ahlukeneyo entloko yam. "- URudyard Kipling
- "Akunjalo ukuba andifuni ukuphulaphula abantu. Ndifuna kakhulu ukuphulaphula abantu." I-jut ayikwazi ukuyiva ngaphezu kokuthetha kwam. " - Paula Poundstone
Ukuziphendulela: Ulwazi oluqulethwe kule ndawo lujoliswe kwiinjongo zemfundo kuphela kwaye alithathi indawo yeengcebiso, ukuxilongwa okanye unyango ngumgqirha onelayisenisi. Akunakuthetha ukukhusela zonke iindlela zokulondoloza, ukusebenzisana kwezidakamizwa, iimeko kunye nemiphumo emibi. Kufuneka uncede unyango lwangonyango ngokukhawuleza kuyo nayiphi na imiba yempilo uze ubonane nodokotela wakho ngaphambi kokusebenzisa elinye iyeza okanye wenze utshintsho kwi-regimen yakho.