Ukuba ngumntu okhutheleyo (HSP) akuyona into embi. Kusho ukuthi uthetha ukwenza izinto ngokucace ngakumbi, njengamacebo, iimvakalelo kunye namava. Uyazi kakuhle iindawo ezikuyo kwaye unesipho esibalulekileyo sokuba uqokelele kwiingcinga ezifihlakeleyo apho abanye bangaboni.
Ekubeni unakho ukuthabatha ezi zinto zifihlakeleyo kwaye usebenze ngakumbi ngakumbi kunabanye abantu, akumangalisi ukuba ucinge ukuba ungazixhalabisa ngexesha lamava angabonakaliyo.
Izinto ezinjengezwi elikhulu, ukutshintsha kweqondo lokushisa, izihlwele, okanye iimeko ezixinzelelekileyo zengqondo kunokudala uxinzelelo ngenxa yokuba inkqubo yakho iya kuba nzima. Unokufumana nokuba unamaxesha amaninzi okuphulukisa emva kwamava okubandakanya ukutshutshiswa, ukulahlekelwa okanye ukulahlwa.
Gcina ukhumbule ukuba ukuba yi-HSP nje yindlela yokuba ehlabathini. Abantu abaninzi abachonga njenge-HSP kungenzeka ukuba babe namava ebomini babo kwabanye abantu ababaxelela ukuba "banomdla," okanye "abanakuvumela izinto ukuba zihambe." Ezi zinto zinokuba zizinto ezibuhlungu ukuva, ingakumbi kulabo esizikhathalelayo, kwaye zisishiye sivakalelwa ngathi asiqondwa kakuhle okanye, ngokubhekiselele, zibuthathaka okanye zingenakukwazi.
NjengoElaine Aron, PhD, uchaza ngokucacileyo kumsebenzi wakhe nabantu abanentlonelo, "Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngovelwano oluphezulu." Ubuninzi bobuchule kwiimeko ezininzi kunye neenjongo ezininzi, kodwa ngezinye iimeko. yinto engathathi hlangothi, isiqhelo esiqhelekileyo esizuzwe yinxalenye enkulu yabemi, nangona kungengona ininzi. " UDkt. Aron uqikelela ukuba le mpawu yobubele obuphezulu ifumaneka kwi-15-20 pesenti yabemi.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba uya kuthathwa njengomntu okhutheleyo? Thatha le mibuzo nguDkt. Aron ukuze ufunde kabanzi.
Ukucela Uncedo njengoMntu oPhezulu
Njenge-HSP, usenokuba neemeko kunye nabantu abashiye uzibuza yona, iimpono zakho kunye namakhono akho. Oku akusiyo into efanelekileyo, kwaye unokukushiya uzive ulahlekile ngandlela-thile.
Sivame ukudana nokuvumela abantu ngaphakathi, ukwesaba ukukhashelwa, ukulahlekelwa okanye ukulahlwa. Ingaba nzima ukuba i-HSP icele uncedo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba baninzi kangakanani ukuvalelwa kwaye banokuzabalazela emsebenzini, ebomini babo okanye kubuhlobo babo.
Xa sineenxeba ezinzulu ezidinga ukuphulukiswa, ezifana nokuxhaphazwa okanye ukuxhatshazwa, kunokuba kunzima ukuba sicinge ukuba sizakufuna ukuthembela kumntu ngamabali ethu namava ukuba asincede sithole ukuphilisa noxolo. Ezi zilandelayo zicebiso malunga nokufikelela kunye nokufumana ugqirha oya kuqonda indlela yokusebenza nomntu onomdla kakhulu.
Ukuqalisa Ukukhangela Kwakho
UDkt. Aron ukhankanya amanyathelo athile ekufumaneni uphando kwincwadi yakhe, "Incwadi Yomntu Ophakamileyo Ovelelekileyo: Isikhokelo Esisebenzayo Sabantu Abasondeleyo kunye namaqela oNcedo lwe-HSP." Esinye seziphakamiso zokuqala azenzayo "kukuqonda ukuba esi sigqibo siya kuba nefuthe elibi ebomini bakho." Thatha isigqibo entliziyweni uze uthathe ixesha lokuphanda ukhetho ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo. Umgqirha wakho uya kuba ngumntu ofaka kuyo ebomini bakho ixesha elithile, ngokukhawuleza ukukunika indawo ekhuselekileyo yokwabelana ngamava kunye nenkqubo ngeemvakalelo ezinzima.
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Nangona abantu abaninzi banika iinkonzo njengoncedo lobuchwepheshe , kubalulekile ukukhangela ababoneleli abanemfundo efanelekileyo, uqeqesho kunye nelayisenisi ukuba baqhutyelwe kwintsimi yabo.
Imizekelo yale nto iza kuba ngabagula ngengqondo, izazi zengqondo, iiphilisi zecala kunye nabasebenzi bezentlalo. Kukho imigaqo yebhodi yombuso ekhoyo kule mi sebenzi kwaye, nangona ababoneleli behluke kakhulu, ukhetho lomntu oqeqeshwe ngokusemthethweni kwaye uqinisekiswe yiBhodi yabo yelizwe uya kukuvumela ukwazi ukuba baye badibanisa iinkqubo ezithile zokusebenza kwiindawo zabo ezikhethiweyo. Abanikezeli abaninzi banikeza le ngcaciso kwiiwebhusayithi zabo okanye ezinye izihlomelo kodwa, ukuba awukwazi ukufumana loo nkcukacha lula, ungesabi ukumbuza umntu malunga neziqinisekiso kunye neelayisensi.
Kuphi Ukujonga
Unokufumana ulwazi oluninzi malunga nabagqirha be-intanethi.
Kukho amaninzi amanqaku e-intanethi nakwezinye iiwebhusayithi ezizinikezele ukwabelana ngolwazi malunga neengcali zeengcali kwaye zingatshitshiswa ngendawo, ngoko unokubona ukuba zeziphi iindlela ezikhoyo ezikufutshane nawe. Khumbula ukuba mhlawumbi uza kumbona lo mntu rhoqo ixesha elide, ngoko qhubeka ukhumbula engqondweni njengoko ucinga ukuhlela nokuhamba.
Imizekelo yezihlomelo ze-intanethi ziquka:
- Ulwaphulo oluhle
- Ulwaphulo
- Iwebhusayithi Ephakamileyo Yesizwe
Ukufikelela kunye nokuqokelela ulwazi
Abanye abaphengululi banikela ukubonisana kwamahhala, ngokufutshane kumntu okanye ngefowuni. Ukuba ufumana umboneleli obonakala ngathi uya kulungeleka, kwaye abatsho ukuba bayabonisana ngokukhululekile, musa ukoyika ukubuza. Uninzi lwabaphehli baya kuvuyela ukuchitha imizuzu eyi-15 phezu kwefowuni, okanye nakwi-imeyile, ukuphendula imibuzo malunga nokuqeqeshwa kunye namava abo. Hlalani nikhumbula ngethuba lokubonisana lingafuneka ukuba lihlelwe kwangaphambili, kwaye abanye banokukhetha ukuba ungene eofisini yokubonisana nomntu.
UDkt. Aron uphakamisa ukuba i-HSP yenza inkcazelo yokwabelana ngolwazi olwaneleyo ngexesha lokubonisana okanye iseshoni yokuqala ukuqokelela ulwazi malunga nendlela umphathiswa uphendula ngayo kwiseshoni. Izinto zokuqwalasela zingabandakanya:
- Ngaba bayangeneka kwaye bathethe incoko?
- Ngaba zibonakala ziba novelwano kunye nokuqonda?
- Ngaba bayakuvumela ukuba wabelane ngeseshoni yokuqala?
- Ngaba ufumanisa ukuba banokuqonda okuncedo?
- Ngaba bakuvumela ukuba ubuze imibuzo malunga noqeqesho okanye iinkcukacha zabo?
Nangona abanye abaphihli beengxaki zabantu bodwa, abanye abangekho. Akuyena mfuneko ukuba umgqatswa wakho okhethiweyo abe ngu-HSP onjengawe, kodwa unokukhetha oko. Vumela ukuba uqokelele ulwazi oluyimfuneko ukuze ukwazi ukuba ngaba yindawo ekhuselekileyo, kwaye ukuba ophilileyo uyaziqonda izipho kunye nemingeni ye-HSPs.
Vumela ixesha lokuthatha isigqibo
Emva kokuthetha kunye neengcali ezimbalwa, thabatha ixesha elifutshane ukuhamba kwaye uqwalasele izinto ozikhethayo. Cinga ngezinto ezifana nesitayela esisebenzayo, kunye neemeko zabo zeofisi. Kungaba lula kubantu abanobucayi ukuba baqikelele ngokwabo okanye umbuzo wabo. Khumbula, unesipho sokufunda kakuhle kakuhle, ngoko ke vumela ixesha lokucamngca ngolwazi oluqokelele ekufuneni kwakho, kwaye wenze isigqibo esiqinileyo sokuba ngubani na onokuzilungela.