Iingcebiso zokubazali ngabazali abane-OCD
Nangona sisoloko sicinga nge- disorder-disulsive disorder (OCD) njengesigulo esichaphazela kakhulu abantu abadala, phakathi ko-1 no-3% wabantwana baya kuphuhlisa i-OCD . Umyinge weminyaka yobudala uneminyaka engama-10 ubudala, nangona abantwana abaselula abaneminyaka emi-5 okanye-6 banokufumanisa ukuba bayagula. Nangona abantwana beqala ukubonakalisa iimpawu ze-OCD ezisebudaleni beminyaka engama-3, kunzima kakhulu.
Kutheni Kungathi Kubonakale Njengomntwana Wakho Othobelayo OCD
Abancinci abaninzi banqwenela ukuhlela izinto ngombala, imilo, ubungakanani okanye ukuthungwa. Kule minyaka, bayakhula kwaye batshintsha ngokukhawuleza kwaye babandakanye kule ndlela yokuziphatha kunokubanceda baqonde umhlaba wabo olinganiselweyo. Kwakhona kubonisa ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo njengoko bafunda ukwenza ukwahlula phakathi kweempawu kunye nezinto zeqela ngokufana kwazo. Eli nqanaba lophuhliso liqhelekileyo kwaye lilungile.
Uya kukwazi ukuba le mpawu iyingxaki xa iqala ukuchaphazela umntwana wakho kakubi. Ukuhlelwa nokuhlela kufanele kube yinto efanelekileyo yokudlala, ngoko ke ukuba kuba yinto engathandekiyo kunye / okanye into encinci yakho iqala ukuxhomekeka kuyo ukumisa ukwesaba okanye ukuxhalaba kwayo , ngakumbi ngakumbi ukuba ichaphazela imisebenzi yakhe eqhelekileyo, lixesha lokufumana uncedo. Iintsana kunye ne-OCD zizinto zokugcina iimigaqo kunye nokulungiswa kwaye zidinga amanyathelo athile okumele alandelwe ngendlela ethile. Basenokuba nomsindo kakhulu xa isinyathelo sithatha okanye into engekho myalelo kwaye mhlawumbi ibonakala ixhala kakhulu ixesha.
Ukunyamezela njengomzali womntwana ophethe i-OCD
Nangona kungekho nto inokuthi abantwana abazali abanomdla kunye ne-OCD bangaba ngumngeni, kukho iindlela zokujamelana nazo. Ukufumana ulwazi malunga ne- OCD , ngokukodwa njengoko kuhlangene nabantwana, kuyisinyathelo esibalulekileyo sokuqala ukuba wonke umzali womntwana ophethe i-OCD kufuneka enze ukuba abe ngummeli osebenzayo kumntwana.
Ezinye iinjongo eziphambili:
- Abantwana abane-OCD bahlala benengqiqo encinane kwiimfuno zabo kunabantu abadala kwaye abanakho ukukwazi ukuqonda ukungaqondakali kweengcamango zabo.
- Umxholo wengxaki yomntwana unokungafani nawabantu abadala. Ngokomzekelo, akuqhelekanga ukuba abantwana abane-OCD babe neengxaki ezithile eziphathelene nokufa kwabazali babo. Amasiko okanye ukunyanzeliswa kwabantwana nabo banokuthi banokubandakanya okanye bajolise kumalungu entsapho.
- Kwiimeko ezininzi, unyango olusetyenziswayo olutsha olusakhulayo lwe-OCD luyingxube yecandelo ngalinye okanye iqela le- ctnitive behavior (CBT), kwaye xa kunzima ngokwaneleyo, imishanguzo eyandisa amazinga e-serotonin ye-neurochemical efana ne -serotonin sele i-reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) . I-SSRI isetyenziswe ngokucophelela kubantwana nakwishumi elivisayo njengoko kukho isiphakamiso esithile sokuba banokwandisa umngcipheko wokuzibulala kweli qela leminyaka.
- Phantse kwikota enye yabantwana abane-OCD bane- PANDAS okanye i-subtype yangasese . Ifom ye-PANDAS ye-OCD ineempawu ezimbalwa eziphambili, ezifana nokuqala ngokukhawuleza kweempawu, ezinceda oogqirha bahlule kwiifom eziqhelekileyo zobuntwana be-OCD. Ifom ye-PANDAS ye-OCD ingabandakanya ukungalingani kwonyango.
Ukufunda okungakumbi malunga ne-OCD yakho yomntwana kuya kunceda ukunciphisa amanqanaba akho okuxininisa kwaye kwenze kube lula ukuqhuba ngokuzikhusela ekhaya.
Fumana inxaxheba Ngonyango lwaBantwana bakho
Uphando lubonisa ukuba ukubandakanyeka kwabazali kukuqulunqa ngokuqinileyo ukuphumelela kwengqondo yokuziphatha. Ngenxa yokuphungulwa kwengqondo kwengqondo yabantwana, inkcazo yeengcamango ezingabonakali kufuneka zenziwe ngendlela efanelekileyo kumntwana. Abazali bangaba luncedo olubalulekileyo ekuncedeni umphathiswa ukuba aphuhlise iindlela zokubonisa izinto eziza kuhlaziywa kunye nokuqonda kumntwana.
Ngomhla ngemihla, abazali banokukunceda bakhumbuze abantwana abancinci ukuba yi-OCD yabo "ongendawo" onoxanduva lweempawu zabo, kwaye bona nabazali babo kunye nentsapho yabo "ngabafana abalungileyo." ubuchule bunokunceda ukunciphisa amathuba okuba umntwana uya kutyhola okanye ahlazeke ngenxa yokuba ne-OCD.
Ngaphezu kwakho konke, sebenze ekukhuthazeni ubudlelwane obuqilileyo kunye nabaqeqeshi abahlukeneyo abandakanyekayo ekukhathaleleni umntwana. Ungesabi ukubuza imibuzo kwaye ubuze malunga nezixhobo onokuzenza ekhaya ukuze ufumane ulwazi olutsha kwiincinci ezincinci.
Yenza umlingani wakho kunye / okanye intsapho
Ngamnye wethu unamanqanaba athuthukileyo ahlukeneyo xa ejongene neengxaki zengxaki zabanye, nangona zixhalabisa intsapho okanye abantwana. Ukuba unenkathazo ebandakanya iqabane lakho ekufundiseni malunga ne-OCD yomntwana okanye ukuncedisa ngokuzivocavoca ekhaya, thetha ngalo, ungalitshitshi phantsi kombhoxo. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukungafuni ukuxhaswa ngumlingani kubonisa nje ukuxhalaba kwabo malunga neemeko kwaye akuthethi ukuba abafuni ukukunceda umntwana.
Ukuba ungumzali ongabodwa womntwana o-OCD, jonga kwizinto ezisetyenziswayo ngaphakathi koluntu olukhoyo ukuba luncede. Isiqalo esihle sokuqala sinokuba iqela lokuxhasa apho abantu babelana ngeengcebiso zokujamelana nomntwana ophethe i-OCD.
Ukongeza kwiqabane lakho, bonke abantwana kufuneka bathathe inxaxheba kwaye baqonde ukuba yintoni unyango olubandakanya, ikakhulukazi unyango kunye nokuthintela impendulo (ERP). Akuqhelekanga kuba bobabini abadala kunye nabantwana abane-OCD ukuba bacele abanye ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kwimimiselo yabo kunye namalungu entsapho bahlala benyanzelekile ukwenzela ukunciphisa uxhalabo lwabo abathandayo, ngakumbi xa umntwana. Ukuze unyango lusebenze, ukunyanzeliswa kufuna ukuyeka kunye namalungu entsapho kufuneka aqaphele oku.
Musa Ukunikela Ithemba
Ekugqibeleni, kubalulekile ukuba ungalokothi ulahle ithemba. Kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zonyango ezikhoyo kwaye ukuba isicwangciso sokuqala singasebenzi apho zikho ezinye iindlela ezininzi ezikhoyo. Ngamanye amaxesha umcimbi nje wokufumana umgqirha ofanelekileyo okanye unxibelelwano olufanelekileyo lwamachiza kunye ne-psychotherapy. Ngonyango olufanelekileyo, abantwana abaninzi banokufumana ukukhulula kwiimpawu zabo.
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