Enye: Qala iNcinci
Qala ngokuthatha amanyathelo amancinci ekuqaliseni ukunxibelelana nabantu abakujikelezile. Ukuba umntu ekhangele ngqo kuwe xa uthengisa kwivenkile okanye kwisitimela endleleni yakho yokuya emsebenzini, mncuma kumntu lowo.
Uza kubona ukuba abaninzi abantu baya kuphendula ngokuthe tye kwizinto ezincinci, njengokumomothekayo, kwaye yinto yokuzithemba ngokukhawuleza.
Emva kwelo nqaku, unako ukululaza ukuthetha, ukucela umntu ukuba anike iingcebiso, okanye ukunika ukuncoma . Okugqithiseleyo ukuba usetyenziswe ukuseka ukuqhagamshelana, kulula ngakumbi ukuba uveze izimvo zakho kwaye uzive ngathi awuyi kunqandwa.
Ukuba ngumntu omhle kubantu abakuzungezile uzive kakuhle kwaye kunceda ukuhlakulela ukuzithemba okubalulekileyo ekusebenzisaneni kwentlalo.
Iimbini: Sebenzisa iiNxibelelwano eziManyeneyo
Kulula ukunamathela kubantu abakwenza uzive ukhululekile kwaye ukhuselekile, kodwa ukungaxhunyekanga kungabangela ingozi kwimimandla yentlalo kunye nezobugcisa.
Enye yeendlela ezilula ukuphuma ngokubanzi kukuba ucele abahlobo bakho, osebenza nabo, ofunda nabo, njl. Ukuzazisa abahlobo babo.
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ungena kwigumbi kwaye umhlobo wakho uthetha nomnye umntu, yenza ingongoma ukuba uthethe kwaye uzazise .
Ngexesha elilandelayo xa ubona loo mntu unokuthi u-hello kwaye, njengoko sele usuqalisiwe, uwakhile ibhuloho kwixesha elizayo unxibelelwano.
Eyesithathu: Thetha phezulu xa ihlawula
Akukho mntu ufuna ukuba ngumntu obuza umbuzo osisidenge. Ukwesaba ukuza njengobuthakathaka okanye ukungafaneleki kukuvalo olusemthethweni wonke umntu uvakalelwa ngenye indlela.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uthetha kwaye ubuze imibuzo oyenayo engqondweni yakho, awuyi kuphucula kuphela ukusebenza kwakho kodwa wonke umntu ongazange abuze umbuzo ofanayo baya kufisa ukuba benze.
Ukuba uqaphela into engasebenzi kakuhle kwiofisi okanye kwisikolo sakho, zikhululeke ukuthetha malunga nalo. Akukho nzakalo ekuzameni ukuphucula indawo yakho.
Uya kubonakala ngathi ungumntu okhathalele ngokwenene impilo yakho kwaye abanye baya kukuphatha ngenhlonipho ngokubuyisela.
Zine: Inyathelo Ngaphandle Kwakho Induduzo Yendawo
Ukwenza into eyenza uzive uyingancinci (okanye uninzi) ungakhathazeki yindlela elula yokunceda ukwandisa ukuzithemba kwakho kwaye uncede utshintsho lwakho lube yinguqulo ephumayo.
Ukuba uqhubeka ubona iimpawu zeklabhu okanye iklasi unomnqweno omkhulu wokusayina, iya kwintlanganiso enye ukuvavanya amanzi.
Akukho nto inokulimaza ekuzameni. Ungalokothi uzixelele ukuba awukwazi ukwenza into okanye uzichaze ngokucinga ukuba kufuneka wenze ntoni endaweni yoko.
Ukuba awuzange udansa ngaphambi kobomi bakho kodwa ufuna ukuthatha isifundo se salsa, zama. Yenza izinto kuba ziyakuthandayo, kungekhona ngenxa yokuba zizinto oye wazikwenza.
Zintlanu: Musa ukukhupha izinto ezincinane
Kulula kakhulu ukubanjwa kwindawo yakho yokuzimela ukuba ukuthula okanye ukugcinwa kungabonakala ngathi kukhethwa ngokukhuselekileyo.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuphuma okunikezelayo kuninzi okuninzi ukuze kuzuze kwaye kunokuba yinto ebalulekileyo ekufumaneni amava asemandleni.
Ekupheleni kosuku, akukho mntu uya kukhumbula ukuba ixesha ulilahlekile okanye indlela ovelele ngayo isandi isibini sokuqala osihlangabezane nayo; baya kukukhumbula njengomntu owenze umzamo.